I can't grow a beard and have very little body hair and I swear to God if people ask me why I shave my body hair (I don't it just doesn't grow) or "why I want to look like a prepubescent little boy" ONE MORE FUCKING TIME...My lack of facial and body hair has literally been my single biggest insecurity since I turned like 13. My peers gradually getting hairier and hairier with age, now including lots of back hair and shoulder hair and here I am stuck with almost the same amount of body hair I had when I was like 10. I'm fine with my facial features, height, body, and weight but my lack of facial/body hair is really getting me down. Doesn't help that almost all straight women and gay men, and heck even bisexual or pansexual people all seem to prefer the hairy look! Women have literally left the bed when I took off my shirt and they found out I didn't have chest hair. It's gotten to the point where I can't wear shorts or take off my shirt at the beach. Can't even unbutton the top button of a shirt because then it'll show I have no chest hair. So how important is it to be hairy really? Should I even bother trying to look fashionable if I have so much holding against me anyway? If I can get a date but she'll leave the bed when she finds out I have no chest hair?
no hair = gays will like youhairy = women will like youvery simple maths
>>18697669Gays love body hair. You just haven't a clue.
>>18697675You got him good
get muscular and tan if youre hairless
>>18697669not true at all from my experience lol. gay men like hairy more than anybody i've ever met and most gays actually despise feminine gays for playing into the stereotype that gays can't be manly. it's why masc4masc is such a huge thing in the gay community
>>18697675>>18697689Like pottery. Of course gay men like hairy dudes, but it’s only the gay gays, i.e. a fucking minority. Who’s gay from my post’s perspective is the countless closeted fags and bis and cucks and curious “striaght” imbeciles who get their cocks hard when they see a twink, without understanding that what they like is the feminine element of it. Be hairless like a girl —> appeal to this sort of gay. Be hairy hairy —> appeal to 1 gay gay out of 100 males.All that pottery and at the end of the day you won’t disprove that all women like hairy men. Fucking jokes.
>>18697665Eh I really REALLY wouldn't stress out about this. A lot of women are super into the hairy look sure but it's not all women or even most women. If you woke up super hairy tomorrow you'd become more attractive to some women sure but also less attractive to other women. While technically there are some things you could do that might work such as minoxidil and shit I really wouldn't recommend it personally. You won't be able to please every woman anyway no matter what. I've encountered a lot of women into the hairy look but also a lot of women who just thought it was gross so as already said you can't please everyone.
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>>18697705if it matters at all i'm not op but he basically just talked about how he's insecure about not being able to grow a beard and not having much body hair. about how women refuse to date him for it and how other men make fun of him for it
>>18697665I'm not sure if you're gay or bi or if an opinion from another man matters to you but in my opinion the guy on the left looks a million times more attractive than the man on the right. The guy on the right looks too much like a gorilla and I realize some guys may see that as a compliment but I don't. I love a smooth muscular chest.
>>18697665I'm no therapist but it doesn't sound like your lack of hair is really the problem here. I can understand generally wanting to be hairier the same way a guy might want to be taller or the same way a guy with a huge nose might want a smaller nose but it's not normal or healthy for it to be affecting you this much, especially since it's something almost entirely out of your control. I won't tell you to seek therapy because that's pretty cliche and often dismissive advice and a lot of people can't even afford it but you should definitely be taking care of yourself better. And I can't help but feel that even if you were hairy there'd be something else about your appearance making you insecure instead.
I thought Asian women hated body hair
>>18697931If he's feeling this way and made this thread then either he's not Asian or he lives somewhere where Asian men are a very small minority.
>>18697931They say so but every Asian bitch I've been to spends like hours playing with my chest hair and call me a monkey
>>18697665Your insecurity is a far bigger turn-off than you being hairless to be honest. Like far far bigger and it's not even close. You'd have far better chances with women if you were hairless but confident rather than hairy but still insecure.
>>18697665>if people ask me why I shave my body hair (I don't it just doesn't grow)>"why I want to look like a prepubescent little boy" >Women have literally left the bed when I took off my shirt and they found out I didn't have chest hair.It sounds like a lot of context is missing between all of that, probably stuff you missed or misunderstood, but overall it kinda sounds like you're autistic. Not even meant as an insult but I mean you seem to have many traits associated with autism spectrum disorder. For the first one it just sounds like simple genuine curiosity, not necessarily malicious. Then for the second one it sounds like banter. People say stupid shit like that to each other all the time, especially in all male friend groups.And for the last one that's probably not really why they left the bed. It was probably something else and they just used that as an excuse. They're probably still shallow either way but if they were liking you up till that point I highly doubt the lack of chest hair is what made them stop liking you.All in all I'd say you're taking these things way too seriously. You need to stop taking things so seriously.
>>18697665You only want hair on the top of your head. Anyone who says anything else is coping. Hair on the back is nasty.
>>18697665How old are you? It takes more time than you might realize.I could barely grow a beard back when I was 24, now at 33 it's looking pretty good.
>>18697701This. Only full blown megagays are into hairy men. I am heterosexual/biflexible (would fuck a femboy) and unfortunately very hairy myself, not dissimilar from the right image in OP
We must be living in completely different universes. Where I live it's the complete other way around. The desired look is hairless and if you're hairy people find it weird
>>18698137There is no culture where women don't like some hair. Literally none.
>>18698139Well I'm glad you've lived in all cultures then to know "literally none"And by the way Googling stuff about a culture doesn't equate to knowing everything about themEven if you ask people from that culture those people are only a few people. Even within a culture there are several different viewpoints
>>18698252it's not about culture bro it's just that facial hair and body hair is physical proof of masculinity and testosterone. it's something that seperates men from boys and that seperates men from women. the same way that boobs and prominent butts are physical proof of femininity and estrogen as well as fertility. it seperates women from girls and seperates women from men. that's why guys with little body hair and women with flat chests are less desirable on average because guys with little body hair are less masculine and women with flat chests are less feminine. overall it's biological and evolutionary
>>18697665Huh? Is this a thing people are actually concerned about these days? I can't grow a beard and my body is not very hairy and I've never had any difficulties getting laid. If anything I actually have somewhat more success than a lot of my bearded and hairy friends.
>>18697675Gays also love twinks
>>18697675Gay here. I love both! Smooth skin is sexy... but thick caveman hair is also sexy.Straight guys just convince themselves that gays are attracted to features opposite of their own, so they can feel safe that gays aren't interested in them.
>>18698483Yeah I don't think his lack of hair is the reason he can't get pussy. Very few women I know would reject a man on that alone. A lot of women do have a preference for hairy men sure but they're not vehemently against hairless men either. It's definitely not a mandatory prerequisite to get pussy. They're probably rejecting him for a different reason and he's wrongfully assuming this is the reason.
>>18698488>Smooth skin is sexyas someone who is somewhat insecure about not being hairy though not as insecure as op is about it just reading those four words made me smile a lot. and i'm not gay but i just love the idea of people finding me sexy regardless if i'm attracted to them back or notso i have perfectly smooth legs and wear relatively short shorts a lot (not super short just slightly above the knee, a 9 inch inseam) would seeing my legs in public turn you on?
>>18698510Bro in what fucking universe are 9 inch inseams short shorts?! Lmfao. That's like almost touching the knees.
>>18698516Nta but it depends on the length you're used to wearing. If you're used to regularly wearing shorts that go several inches below the knee then I understand how 9 inch inseams can seem like short shorts.
