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As a 28 KHV incel who will be going out for the first time out to the clubs to find a potential wife what is the best choice of clothes for going out to clubs and potentially pubs too?
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>>18729166
unironically head to toe in Supreme
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>>18729173
and why is that?
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>>18729166
>As a 28 KHV incel who will be going out for the first time out to the clubs to find a potential wife what is the best choice of clothes for going out to clubs and potentially pubs too?
Don't try and get potential wife the first time out. Treat the first few outings as reconnaissance. Observe the environment and see what the popular, handsome guys are wearing. That will give you a clue how to dress and style your hair.

For that matter, observe the man-woman interactions so you can spare yourself the discomfort. Learn to read women's body language and learn when they're receptive to being chatted up and when they prefer to be left alone (e.g. they're there to have fun with their friends, not find a boyfriend.)
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>>18729245
How do I know who is the "handsome" guy? How do I observe without looking like a creep or staring especially if I'm alone?
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>>18729166
>to the clubs to find a potential wife
o boy
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>>18729318
>How do I know who is the "handsome" guy?
You'll know the handsome guy. He'll be the one having a good time surrounded by other people having a good time.

>How do I observe without looking like a creep or staring especially if I'm alone?
As long as you don't gawk like a psycho, you're fine. Plenty of people go to a bar alone. Look out of the corner of your eye. Don't stare too long. If someone notices you looking at them, give them a smile, a friendly nod, and raise your glass to them as if to say "cheers", like you just happened to catch eye contact coincidentally.

To that end, particularly if you're going to a bar, and if you have no ability to chat with people, start chatting with guys. There's less pressure. If there's a TV on that's playing sports and the other guy is watching, try to strike up a conversation with him about the game.
>Ew, I don't want to talk to guys.
If you can't talk to another guy about fucking sports, then you're nowhere near ready to talk to women with the aim of tricking them into sleeping with you.

There's a whole set of skills you missed out on because of the social isolation of the pandemic and the social media era. You have to learn them. Level one is learning how to complain about the Jets with some stranger who also is disappointed in the Jets.
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>>18729369
I changed my mind. I don't think I'm going to go out anymore. I'm too fucking awkward. And no way am I dancing. Fuck that.
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>>18729400
You should. It's healthy to socialize IRL.

You don't have to dance, either. I've been to nightclubs hundreds of times in my life and I don't think I've danced more than ten times in my life.
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>>18729400
You think everyone's drunk and on mdma weed and coke at clubs because... they think it's cool or something?
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>>18729166
If you’re looking for a wife, bars probably aren’t a good place for that. I’d join a church, you meet like minded people with family values and they won’t look down on you or find being a virgin weird

If you’re not religious, look into it. Books that I liked were The Case for Jesus by Brant Pitre and The Best Argument for God by Patrick Flynn
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>>18729166
>out to the clubs
> to find a potential wife

¡No!
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>>18729166
You're not going to find a wife at some meat market alcohol event. What the fuck is wrong with you?
No social media/dating apps, no bars and clubs.
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>>18729890
I considered faking it to find a wife, but then I'd be stuck with a retard who prays to an invisible 'creator' in the sky for the rest of my life. I can't pretend to be stupid like that. Even though it might be the best kind of wife.
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>>18729890
Idk what church you go to but talking during liturgy is really frowned upon.
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>>18729947
Whether or not God exists is the perennial problem of the Western intellectual tradition. To say it makes you ‘retarded’ to take an affirmative stance shows you’re not well read

>>18729999
You go to the events outside of the liturgy and become part of the community



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