Do people treat you differently after you’ve gotten bigger?
>>77276914yes people are scared of me a girl at school reported me to the campus police because i made comments about jewish people on tiktok and she said she was terrified of me after looking up my case
>>77276914Yeah it’s why I trimmed down. >be 6’3>been hitting the gym like a madman all through college >senior year im doing 2/3/4/5 for reps>240 lbs>have long ass hair and a beard because I did a stint in the military before college and didn’t want to shave or get a cut because fuck that>walking to the gym one day>some smol blonde qt with a pixie cut is walking towards me>i got my headphones in just amping myself up>she looks up at me>freezes like a deer in headlights and RUNS to the other side of the street>get shocked, want to run up and beg her not to be afraid of me and tell her I’m not dangerous >realize that would make me look more like psycho buff Jesus I toned it down after that and slimmed down some.
>>77276938cringe
Yes and I hate it. Basically people want to help me more. >Cut down to 200lb then bulk and powerlift to 270>Be jacked with a powerlifting gut brah >Main component of work is pushing carts, love it cause I can push a lot>Before lifting no one noticed me>After lifting people insist on holding the door open for me>Nevermind the fact that I do this every day and can easily hold a door open with one hand and push the cart through with my other hand>No, the big muscle guy NEEDS someone to help himI hate how they smile as they insist on holding the door, toxic positivity.
>>77276938>Buff JesusHe died for your gains. Mire him, brah
>>77276938>señior hiiiigh >2/3/4/5 for repsLost ur cred there amigo.
>>77276914I’ve only really been a muscular body shape for a bit but I’ve always been tall and very broad shouldered so I’m used to Manlets starting shit then playing the victim. Women don’t tend to do it nearly as often as short men in my experience but also short men don’t do it to me as often now that I treat them like they’re women I don’t want to sleep with.
>>77276938Fag
>>77276914Women fear mongering other women but they still go out and get drunk with strangers and let strangers fuck them if they're "hot" enough
>>77277524This literally never happens to me. Do you give off an aura of not wanting trouble? I'm always ready to throw down like a psycho (I'm pretty sure it's PTSD pls be nice) and nobody wants to test me. It's nice.Try to cultivate an aura of psychosis.
>>77277221you won't do shit bud
>>77276914Yeah girls sniggered at my nipples poking through my shirt.
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>>77276914No because I'm still 5'9 haha
>>77277558and what does fucking hot men have to do with being afraid of big ugly men?
>>77276914I get significantly more respect now. But it could also be because I’m a grown man and not a snot nosed teen anymore.
I’ve notice that girls for the first time in my life (36) will interact with me on their own. Not that it changes anything for me, since the last 4 years I have ED and my penis is nearly completely numb. So I will never have a gf or have sex anyways
>>77278054Your pelvic region might be tight due to back or rib problems.
>>77278022it illustrates that the fear is irrational.
>>77278022>fucking hot men /fit/ dude on a cut>have to do with being afraid of big ugly menSame dude on a bulk
>>77277271I did 5 years in the military after HS and didn’t hit 2/3/4/5 till senior year of college. I was 27.
>>77276914Yes. They are generally friendlier and a lot more respectful. In a group dynamic they also give me more attention and are more interested. Basically, they want to seek approval from me, not the other way around. This also makes it super easy for me to be comfortable around everyone. They don't make jokes at my expense anymore, or ones I might take offense at. My friends or acquaintances now talk highly of me when they introduce me to someone. Women don't throw themselves at me, but when I approach them, they just talk to me like a normal person, which already gives me a foot in the door. There's really almost never a situation where anyone starts a fight with me, but sometimes aggressive people shittest me, and when they realize that I don't get intimidated, they back down. All in all, I'm not suddenly super attractive or popular, but I get treated with the decency and respect I always wanted.
>>77278510How would I know?
>>77276938>Changing your physique because some mentally ill loser bitch ran away from youHonestly had the same kind of situation happen to me and it just made me even more misogynistic and dedicated to getting bigger. Now I revel in weak faggots crossing the street when they see me coming down the street.
>>77276914I volunteered at an event and when we had to move furniture I overheard some lefty feminists say to themselves 'let them, some are happy to show off their muscles'. At least none of them were fat.
I've noticed lately men (strangers) getting out of my way / making space for me and even holding doors for me from a significant distance. Other men (friends and friends of friends meeting for the first time) comment positively on my muscularity fairly regularly now. Women are generally warmer towards me than when I was in bad shape, I even get fairly regular mires or otherwise positive interactions with attractive women
>>77276914yes and i love it
yeah, i get mires and compliments a lot from men. and men respect me a lot more in general, feels like they automatically think i am highly competent because i am jacked. but with women it's worse than before, now they all seem afraid of me and avoid eye contact. i thought if i got jacked women would be warmer towards me but instead i just get 4-5 guys a week telling me "bro your arms are massive bro" or "dude your lats are huge".
>>77277271You missed the >240lbs>>77277221>270lbsYou are literally visibly disabled, it is a nice thing that people are being considerate of that.
>>77278563>They don't make jokes at my expense anymore, or ones I might take offense atdude this is the biggest one for me. when i was a skinny twink i was the butt of all jokes of any group id be hanging out with, and then suddenly as i became one of the biggest guys in most rooms i walk into, all of that stopped. i still have self deprecating instincts that ive developed over the years and i need to remind myself to stop doing that
>>77280317Take your larp elsewhere homes