>New coworker started about a year ago>Immediately crushed on her>We talk casually>Started to exercise and eat well to impress her>Months pass>Get noticeably fit, wide shoulders, sharp jaw, the whole 9>Now she's nervous and shy around me, conversations always feel forcedWhat now?
>>77284552You got the ick. She still finds you repulsive.
>>77284558WTF is ICK?
i've seen my fair share of online humblebragging but /fit/ is always the most absurd one in this regard because it's always>hehehhe im around a woman heheh i talk to women. Relationships ? Sex ? N-n-no i cant i need to lift 0.5kg more metallic circles before they start liking me two more reps and i'll be attractiveNot even straight up sexual encounters, just talking about how females even exist in your proximity is apparently progress for this board of useless dregs
It's all about the face and hair (signals good development and nutrition), height and muscles are a big bonus.Always has been.
>>77284569Height and muscle are nowhere close to each other in term of added attractiveness in fact height matters more than face and muscles are marginal if useless at best
>>77284563/fit/ is still 4chan bro>>77284569So what do I do?
>>77284572I'm taller than her. Height is not an issue.
>>77284572>an ugly balding 6'3 DYEL skelly is more attractive than a handsome built 5'10 guy with good hairMy lanklet disillusion-o-meter just broke
>>77284576Yeah you're 5'7 and she's 5'5 good job
>>77284572Nope
>>77284584Hair is literally not even a factor for women over 25
>>77284596>Read my schizo blogpostNo
>>77284598
>>77284562lmao>>77284576LMAO
>>77284584Make the handsome built guy 5'5. What now?
>>77284572You don’t have to be a hulking roid freak, just don’t be skinny or fat and have a physique with decent musculature
>>77284598>he doesnt know
>>77284552What I'm hearing here is you liked some bitch instantly and did nothing about it for over a yearWhat a fag lmao
>>77284847>chiseled and ripped makes you more intimidatingly manly,lol nomuscles arent masculine or manly
>>77284552>Immediately crushed on heryou have a weak mind, she senses it. You have no chance. Never shit where you eat, you will always loose. She probably already complained to HR about your creepiness. You will probably get laid off soon to reduce financial risk to the employer. Good job.
Personality is king, looks a close second but not mandatory. That's why we so see so many fat/goofy guys slaying hot chicks and then there's guys who live in the gym but still virgins in their 30s
>>77285485lmao
>>77285348so much this. Op literally whiteknighted for a year lmao, just reading that shit gave me the ick
>>77284572Any man that isn't tall, muscular, and wide-shouldered is inherently unattractive.
>>77284552She's nervous because you are good looking now retard.
>>77284681Go back to tiktok
>>77285569>She's nervous because you are good looking now>nowThat would be correct if his height changed
>>77285569>She's nervous because you are good looking now retard./threadOP wtf how do you not know thisYou have to begin speaking with her differently. Be warmer. Talk slower. Have eye contact. Make her realize you're singling her out in how you act with her. Does she fix her hair when you start talking? Even a quick finger wave to her hair for a split second? She's probably exhibiting preeening behavior, which is subconscious. Now is the time to treat her differently than you treat others. And it can just be tone of voice when speaking to her. Let her know through your behavior that you find her attractive. She will smile at you more, and that's how it will build.
