Man starts family, drops gym and realises whats most important in life
tendies and pizza
>>77307554Those stretch marks are nuts
i didn't know men could get stretch marks
>>77307554Is that Connor Murphy?
>>77307554Health is just as important. Its your job as a parent not just to provide and die for your family, you have to LIVE for them. Living requires being the best version of yourself. More calm, more understanding, more disciplined. Imagine being this guy's wife and starting with left then ending with right. Just a matter of time before he gets divorce raped, and his kids taken away to only been seen during every other weekend under supervision. Lost it all because he wanted taco bell and donuts. Pathetic
just cuz you have a kid doesn't mean you should just give up. this dude had no balance in his life prior to kids and everything collapses once other things get prioritized. you don't have to be a fat pos just cuz you have a kids. look at eurofags and asians
>>77307569Lack of sleep and increased stress ramps up cortisol, disrupting collagen production. That in conjunction with getting fat as shit causes the stretch marks
>>77307554>Hasn't been fit since the advent of color photography>Mogged by his past self>Doesn't want to be a good role model>Chiseled Out of Marble VS Ball of Uncooked DoughI don't have the vocabulary to describe this feel.
To be sure, it is harder to stay fit after kids. It requires commitment from both parents to make the time for exercise. That said, it is your duty as a parent to not be fat and not raise fats. That’s why this guys gyno build is shameful.
My dad played rugby in college and was in good shape my whole life. I’d like to do the same if I ever have children
>>77307627(continued..)I'm projecting as hard as I can right now. I've never looked that good and probably never will. I'm also being mogged by previous versions of myself. There's only so much abuse a body can take before it's stuck in a damaged and unaesthetic state. Worse, he still managed to procreate and here I am alone crying over pictures of myself in my photo album. This post was brought to you by a large bowl of pasta drenched in oil with a large side of fresh-baked foccia bread.
It’s literally impossible to stay fit past 25 with kids, a wife and a jobHalf the people here will whine and claim I’m making excuses but that’s because majority is this board are neets and childlessOnly my dads and tradies will understand >t. Fit all up until 26 when I had my first kid and got fat, never really lost it
>>77307654Kids come first, and kids are demanding. You can work a job, and be an attentive husband and father, or you can spend hours in the gym neglecting those you are supposed to love.Just goes to show the average age of the "men" here. Also notice how unhappy he is, lonely and gymmaxxing, and how happy he is holding his child whilst his wife takes a picture that will last a lifetime
>>77307647All this gym bullshit, its good aged 18-25. After that its pure fucking cope.Im not saying you intentionally become im a slob, im saying there are 24 hours in a day and you have to prioritise things. If you want a family, they'll need time and energy from you, time and energy you would otherwise give to the gym. Its better to come home to a house full of love than waiting for death, alone
>>77307554> I am a hero for looking after a child> I am so narcissistic that I need to make spawns of myself to feel fulfilledCan't wait till AI makes this species go extinct
>>77307654I am being a lazy POS right now and lifting bare minimum, 1-2x/wk and just eating whatever for diet, and find it very easy to maintain my level of fitness doing that. >>77307693>>77307697This is presuming that lifting is only for vanity and that you must train 6 days a week like some retard
>>77307554dadbod btw
>>77307642I get that staying fit would get harder but there is no excuse to become fat as fuck. You can still have a reasonable diet.
>>77307554>Man starts family, drops gym and realises whats most important in lifeMetabolic syndrome? Hypertension? Sleep apnea? Shortness of breath?
>>77307707>Metabolic syndrome? Hypertension? Sleep apnea? Shortness of breath?Bodybuilding?
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>>77307733Taking your kid to the park is better than deadlifting and getting a hernia
>>77307739glassback cope
>>77307739I have kids and I hate it. I only stay because I'd feel bad if I left them. I also want to have sex with other women even though my wife let's me have sex whenever I want. Is there something wrong with me?
>>77307757You don't love yourself, have trouble loving anyone else, and hopefully you don't start Googling "Volcanoes Near Me".
>>77307554that's me except with video games.and no I didn't give up video games to start a family I gave up the gym so I could play more of them
>>77307697My dad is still going to the gym and still went while raising my brother's and I he's 60 now still fit>>77307654My dad worked construction and still works construction and still went to the gym everyday to this day. He makes myself and my brother's look like bitches
>>77307654You can look better than 90% of people just doing a 20-30 minute routine with pull ups, push ups and a 30lb dumb bell to do squats and curls. If you want to go crazy a 15 minute run
>>77307739You can play with your kids in the park... you can also take your kids to a rec center and work out while they do sports or other activities....Home gym is also a thing...Bruh
>>77307654It’s not impossible you just cant go to the gym. You can still be mindful of what you eat to stay lean and do at home stuff. This is assuming you were fit to begin with (you obviously arent from your gay doomposting)
>itt: moids coping with not putting their kids first
>>77307757I feel so bad for them, what a curse she met a man like you
>>77307757There isn't, men are supposed to breed many women.Just don't let her find out if it will bother her that much.
>>77307654home gym chads we CANNOT stop winning
The thread is full of coping out of shape guys with beats who can't put the fork down.
>>77307812why do mothers try to frame eating themselves fat and getting too out of shape to actually keep up with their kids as "putting the kids first"? if you have time for being online doing unnecessary shopping or tiktok or whatever, you have time to take care of your health. do it for your children, you owe it to them
>>77307843But it's hard, I just want to feed the kids nuggies and poptarts because I "had a hard day" literally every day. And I can't give up my hobbies and time to de-stress, self care is important (fuck you fitness does not count).
>>77307554nigga looks pregnant
>>77307739You guys have such a gay misconception of the gym. Lifting is as much about health and quality of life as it is appearance. You deadlift so you have a strong back and can pick up your kids and stuff.
I would be suicidal if this happened to me
>>77307554How does that happen? You should be active with your kid.
>>77308006My thoughts exactly. How are you going to play tag or sports with your kids if you're out of shape. Half the reason I got into fitness is so that when I do have kids I'll be able to lift them and play with them without injuring myself.
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>>77307554Crazy how he no longer had 30 minutes of free time every day
>>77307642>It requires commitment from both parents to make the time for exercise.Eating less even saves time.
He stopped being a roidtranny (good for his children) but had a broken mental so he couldn't stay in shape (roids took another victim)
>>77307554Another wifeguy L! Is the little faggot even his own seed?
>>77307815I bet the mom is a fat bitch
>>77308022seems to have had a lot more meal time tho
What a bunch of garbage.I've finally started exercising again (had stopped for about 5 years) after having a kid, because I want to be someone he looks up to, to instill healthy habits in him, and to be able to do things with him without being hindered by my body.I cannot comprehend this "now i can get fat" mentality, much less when one has kids.
>>77308109Reproduction isn't a glorious quest to most people, it's 2 assholes having sloppy sex. I hope parents get treated like shit more and more.
>>77307566Cushing's syndrome?
>>77307554Was he the one who got pregnant?
>>77307654common calisthenics W
>>77307654you guys are teaching your kids it's okay to be lazy fat slobs
>>77307578Women prefer the right
I look like that
>>77307554>man starts family, willingly decreases his own quality and length of life so that he has less time and Lowe quality time with them
>>77307654Getting married and having kids massively lowers testosterone levels in men. This changes the body composition into a classic dadbod configuration, of reduced muscle mass and concomitant increase in adipose tissue.
>>77308289You wouldn't know
Whole thread reminds me that i hate men so much its unreal. Whoever raised you, failed you
>>77308384>Hates half the population>Thinks they are the well adjusted one
>>77308451The half that causes misery and abandons their own kids
>>77308551Replace "abandon" with "kill" and you got the argument for the other side of your dumbass moid/foid war.
>>77307757>my wife let's me
>>77308551*gets an abortion*
>>77308563lol took less than 30 minutes>>77308637
>>77308662oops, I guess xoids like me can't math
>>77307554Don't be like that.
>>77308305Actual nightmare fuel
"Having kids is hard" is a pretty pathetic excuse for being out of shape when weight loss/gain is 90% dependant on your diet.Stop eating like a cow and you'll be fine.
Most of the weak dad bods you see in the suburbs were former chads/slayers back in the day. They had to be to get an attractive woman to settle down with. That's why it's so depressing when I see a guy under 25 that's bald or super overweight since that basically means he is doomed to a life of inceldom.
