My mum is trying to sabotage me. I wanna get lean to finally be happy with how I look and she gets ANGRY when I tell her i wanna eat less. She is fat mind you. She wants me to be fucking fatter and fatter
Let me guess asian
>>77362884Not OP but this is just woman behavior. Race-agnostic.
>>77362876Never listen to women.
>>77362876>She is fat mind you.post her fat tits
>>77362876Politely try to educate her. It took a fucking degree in kinesiology before my family took what I had to say about diet and exercise seriously. Not saying you need one, just saying that it is possible to get through to them. Sometimes. But some are hopeless & basically forever stuck in bucket crab cope mode.
Notice it’s mostly fat women that do thisMy dad was fat but wanted better for me, was happy to see me progress but my mom pulled the same shit as OPsWonder why it’s that way
>>77362876Fatties take it personally when another fatty tries to lose weight. They see it as a criticism of their own lazy, gluttonous ways.
tell your dad to sort that bitch out
Tell your mother she is the subordinate now. I don't think Caesar let mommy tell him what to do. I think Caesar told mommy what to do. Your house will be Rome if mommy submits to masculine authority.
Both my parents are like that. Genuinely nigh impossible to lose weight when they come over.
>>77362876My fat mother used to come to me saying she was “concerned” after I went for a jog or bike ride. You either endure it and ignore it or move out. Literally nothing you say will make her stop pestering you.
>>77362876Grow a fucking pair and tell that cunt to shut the fuck up.You NEED to set lines and boundaries. If she doesn’t respect that. Then she doesn’t respect you.
>>77362876My mother and father were like this at first. Once I started mogging normies and receiving compliments from others. They felt very proud. Now if I stopped going to gym and eat like a fatty. They push me to go to the gym. No parents like their kids getting mogged in any form.
>>77362876unironically spend less time around her and slowly remove any dependence you have on hernot saying to cut all contact but you clearly need to distance yourself if you want to be successful
>>77362876normies are just like thisdon't tell anybody that you are on a diet to lose weightnot your mother, not your father, not your best friend, not a fucking soulthe only exception is other gym guys that have the same goal as younormies will just get jealous of you and try to tear you downthey see your attempts at being healthy as an insult on their own waysif they notice you have lost weight then just say "huh weird idk how that happened" or "wow really? i haven't noticed anything", just act oblivious.
>>77364383If anything losing weight has caused people to treat me worse than they already had before.
>>77362876Fats hate people losing weight.Every (fat) person I know would try to get me to eat unhealthy crap. Not just the obese but the overweight too.
>>77364051This. Once I stopped living with my mom she suddenly became supportive of my fitness when she used to actively discourage it when I was a kid. I don't know why it works this way but that's how it is.
>>77362876It's that easy
>>77364767You're being being disingenuous. I cut so hard I hit BMI 14.5 and clocked 19 bpm om Holter monitoring - that's how disciplined I was at starving. But when evening comes and mom offers me pizza, that motherfucker Evening Bryan rationalizes "well, it's July 1st tomorrow; you can enjoy yourself tonight and start over from a clean slate." At this point Evening Bryan has gone as far in his mental gymnastics as to use fucking lunar cycles as excuses, ("New moon, new me! Am I right? We start again tomorrow!") giving him virtually unlimited options to justify yet another "one last cheat day" in an endless series of last cheat days
parents are 90% of the time reason why people become fat
>>77362876Start by buying your own fridge and cooking your own foodI kept telling my mom she's using too much oil and the products she buys contain too much fat, but she wouldn't listen