Get buff yourself and start acting like you're cheating on her, be evasive, have a chatbot send you messages on your phone, always say you're going out to do weird sounding things etc.

you can't. if she's fat. she's fat my man. theres no changing it.

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I’m sorry to tell you this, anon, but you will never convince her to workout with you or at all. The majority of women are weak and lazy. They have grown spoiled by years of being doted on and pursued simply because they have a vagina. Most have no internal motivation to do anything and, for them, self-improvement consists of paying a therapist $100/hr to listen to them cry and tell them they’re right and the world is wrong. They coast on a young metabolism and, when it craps out as it inevitably does, it’s a one-way trip to the hamplanet nebula. The few women who are internally motivated and view themselves as the authors of their own destiny already exercise. But that motivation is either in them or not and there is no changing that aspect of their nature. Worse still, the more you pursue fitness while she descends into fatness the more she will resent you and try to pull you down to her level (picrel). Eventually, the gulf between you physically will reach such a point that she will cheat on you just to prove that she’s still desirable (which she isn’t, she’s just a hole). It’s grim, anon.

>>77397653
Easy mode is her having a friend that likes you who works out that would support you.

Another psyop is to get her to do it with you before she has a chance to decide it is a 'Your Thing'. Once she thinks it is a Your Thing it can't become an Our Thing without significant legwork (lying). For example you can start by talking about how your cardio sucks, always sucked, hate it, so boring and so on, and this could build into an Our Thing because she feels like she is needed to help you with cardio. This can become an Our Thing and maybe that snowballs into other aspects. Women are full of contradictions, simultaneously she appreciates your physical prowess while also feeling inadequate and insecure about her own. If you expect her to go to the gym on her own because you are nagging her you're fecked bud better trick her into climbing a rockwall on a date or something and really sell the love there. Or just fuck dudes

>>77397653
Just take her to the gym with you to hang out

>>77397653
how to attract female like this in gym if i have big white dong and 6'1 height but feel unsafe approaching women in general

>>77397653
>How do you convince your gf to work out
do not waste your time. If she has not started on her own after the coof then she never will. just doomp her and get a girl that is already fit, like an athelete. most wamen go to the gym now because its popular, not because they actually care about being /fit/. I knew/know many married guys who wonder out loud why their now wife does not exercise/do sports any more and stopped just after they got married. The women only did it to entrap a guy and stopped once the trap was sprung.

>>77397764
>white

>>77397653
Dump her and move to the West coast. East coast womeme are high maintenance and think anorexia makes them sexy, Meme West momeme are hambeasts.

>>77397653
the girl your seeing will tell you her insecurities about their body, use that as a reason to get them into the gym. "you know you look great as you are baby, but if you want to improve yourself for YOU, I can show you a few things in the gym."

>>77397764
Realize if you don't save her and take her first she's going to be ruined by an n

Threads like this make me feel incredibly lucky to have a girlfriend who

>was lifting weights when I met her
>is autistic about the gym and fitness i am
>is petite, with perky tits, and a sexy ass (she’s trained glutes and hamstrings 3 times a week for years)

She also has a pretty face to go with it and a really caring feminine personality

>>77398152
kys

>>77397764
>how to attract female
well-
>in the gym
>but feel unsafe approaching women in general

You're throwing out a lot of different questions here

>how to attract female like this
By watching who women like that actually go for. She likely has an IG with hundreds of thousands if not millions of followers and gets hit on by athletes, millionaires and others. You would then have to see what her type is out of those and become something close to that.
>In the gym
You would have to get better at picking up women via cold approach
>feel unsafe approaching women in general
You would have to learn how to work on your current beliefs about gender dynamics


Redditor TLDR: This woman is probably famous, a woman LIKE her, gym focused stacie, they go for several archetypes and your best bet would to be becoming one of those
Everything else is probably some therapy for anxiety, no shade to u my nigga, listening and trying to empathize with what women want and then learning how to be more social from trying it out more and more

>>77398424
>nigga

>>77398458
i threw one in just incase it was a zoomer, showing im not only non racist but also hip

>>77397677
Truth nuke. You can’t change another person OP.

>>77398424
>By watching who women like that actually go for. She likely has an IG with hundreds of thousands if not millions of followers and gets hit on by athletes, millionaires and others.
Anon... it's just a random thot with shapewear. You don't even need a nice butt it's the pants changing the shape.

>>77398563
Then the rest of it stands

>>77397653
It's a pointless endeavor. Women don't have testosterone nowhere even close to the levels men do. They don't build muscle like at all unless they take PEDs

>>77398146
Where are the girls with the big booba
I don't give a shit about these ass obsessed hoes

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>>77397677
I don’t know what these retards are talking about, but I workout with my gf. I’m basically her personal trainer. She does the same exercises I do every day.

This is perfectly doable as long as you have similar schedules.

>>77397653
>tfw my gf works out but she just does arms and calves for some fucking reason

>>77397653
see
>>77398614
Dump her and date a man.

>>77397653
>Bin there.
Get rid of her. Find a better one. She isn't for change and not for you and never will. She doesn't care about spending an hour a week helping her future self, so she doesn't care about spending a minute a week on genuinely helping future you.
When I worked out with the next one we were an athletic power couple and the sex was a million times more satisfying than lazy excuse full cunt.
If you have to stay with this one make her abundantly clear you are a stones throw from dropping her and fuckng all the other hotter women who care about themselves.

You have to work out in front of her and make it look fun. Also withdraw attention a little bit subtly mire gym girls. Get your algorithm filled with Sara Safari and bitches like that. Eventually she’ll notice and suspect that’s what you’re into. Women basically only act to have fun like kids or compete with other women. So you have to make it look fun or like she has to beat the other girls.

>>77397764
You have to be comfortable with her doing pic related in OP daily and also including you in those pics and posting them on her social media daily. So you need to be attractive and photogenic enough