I always hear about formerly fat people becoming thin and getting treated better. But what about formerly thin people who became normal weight or just big/jacked in general? Anyone experienced this?
yeah its like the same but coming from the other direction
>>77484772I used to get teased because I was skinny. It was never bullying, because of course being skinny can hardly be portrayed as something overly negative, but it was always implied that I was weak. If you come across as "frail" as a boy or even as an adult man, people don’t really respect you because they see themselves as being on a higher rung of the social ladder and aren’t afraid that you’ll let a situation escalate physically. Basically, they believe they can talk shit to you and usually get away with it. That means you constantly find yourself in situations where you have to stand up for yourself and stand your ground in order to be treated with humility and respect. On top of that, you always have a boyish appearance, so even as an adult, you’re still not perceived as a man. Added to this is the problem that other men often have no interest in including you in their circle. I don’t mean that you can’t make friends, but rather that Brad won’t just strike up a conversation with you because he thinks it would be cool to hang out with you. If you’re skinny and unattractive, women treat you worse, too. I think this is partly because sexual attraction is even lower than with a normal build, and partly because you don’t project any kind of physical intimidation. Ever since I’m bigger no one has treated me disrespectfully, everyone is nice to me, and women talk to me like I’m a perfectly normal person. Strangers come up to me and show interest. It’s not as if you suddenly go from being "Chud" to "Chad," but it makes social interactions much easier and more pleasant because you no longer have to prove yourself to others.
>>77484772I have been skinny, fat and fit at various points in my life:>SkinnyWomen will love you for some reason, even if you don't feel impressive. Old ladies will tell you you look sick and will force you to eat food.>FatPeople will assume you're strong even if you're a couch potato. Fat women will like you. Skinny women will treat you like trash.>FitI have no idea how women treat you because I'm married and don't go hitting up women anymore but I have a wife and she is more attracted to me than she has ever been in my life and feels up my muscles during sex
>>77484772Fuck around and find out
Yeah now guys don't bump my shoulder anymore as i walk they avoid me
>>77484772Yes, I hopped on some sauce bc I thought about competitions and bull frogged up to 200. Would not recommend, I had leg chafe and it felt like my cardiovascular system didn’t catch up to the amount of mass + I felt stiff and immobile and always hot- tldr stay natty not worth it
>>77484772The more attractive you are, the better you will be treated. Becoming less fat almost always makes one less unattractive.Gaining mass, if you're underweight may make you more attractive, or it may not.
>>77484772>formerly thin people who became normal weightThat's not a thing. Being thin is normal weight.
>>77484772my parents always told me i was going to get fat. it made me really nervous about eating anything. at 20 years old i was 5'10" and 130lb. i probably could have been taller if i had ate more in my teens.today im 200lb and will humbly say im buff.biggest struggle is eating. i never learned how to eat big and bulking has always been challenging. on the reverse side, cutting is easy as fuck.
>>77487671I'm 6'2 but grew late (like 17-20) but ate really shittily in that period due to being at college. I regret not eating more and better during that period, probably could've gained another 1-2 inches I'm the same with eating though, I feel like my normal caloric intake is probably more than what I normally eat let alone when i'm actually trying to gain weight
Stop changing if you care at all about not making them wrong
>>77484772I've been skinny (130lbs at 5'10 before gym) fat (dirty bulked to 295, had a powershitter phase and only cared about the numbers on the barbell) and fit (lean 170lbs, had abs), currently 190 builtfatYou absolutely get treated differently based on how you look>SkinnyI think you're just seen as an easy target, on nights out random drunks wanted to fight me for no reason. When fat or fit they're too pussy to try the same shit though. I still got a lot of women when I was skinny though>FatWouldn't even say I was treated worse for it, it's normalised to be fat these days anyway. Statistics even show more people are fat than thin. I definitely got looks of disgust whenever I bought doughnuts or cake or anything, nobody minds when skinny guys or fit guys do it but I guess a fatty doing it gets memed on. Even though I was strong as fuck and actually powerlifting nobody took any fitness advice from me seriously and gave me funny looks whenever I said gym is my hobby. In the 5 years I was super fat I only got with 1 girl and she was pretty much a fat fetishist, was really into bigger guys for some reason probably related to her dad. I never managed to get girls in clubs or bars fat>fitmostly same as been thin, except like I said before drunk retards are too spineless to try you, mostly just get left alone by wannabe tough guys and shit. You definitely need to be fit to get gym girls, they ignore skinny guys at fat fucks
