I'm 23 coming off from an abusive household and addictionTl;dr I feel less like an adult or human and more like a slave, I'm awfully nice to people like I'm owed to everyone or beneath them, some personality complex or sum shit I developedI moved out and I wanna start again, I can go work but I feel like I need a couple of months maximum to sober up and fulfill my shortcomings of becoming a proper humanI wanna make working out my whole life for at least 2 months, does that make me a loser or immature? What's the better option?
>>77549224>I'm awfully nice to people like I'm owed to everyone or beneath them>I wanna make working out my whole life for at least 2 months, does that make me a loser or immature? This is /fit/ not /adv/ or your personal blog, redditor.I have sympathy for people at the bottom trying to improve themselves. But your question is absolutely fucking retarded, and makes you an immature loser just for thinking it up
>>77549224its a start and will help you gain self confidence. but dont get consumed by it and make it your identity. many think going "COCOON MODE" and lift things up and down makes them proficient in other aspects of life. it doesnt.you get good at what you do repeatedly. if you lift often... you get goood at lifting. if you stand up for yourself often... you get good at... standing up for yourself..lifting is a supplement. not the maincourse.
>>77549229Instead of this useless ranting you could've thought of an actual answer, gtfo fag>>77549243Good advice anon, like you said it's a start, I was actually planning on going full hermit mode like you said but now that I think of it I will probably get bored and wanna do moreI'll get my feet wet first and see how it goes, thanks anon
>>77549224>does that make me a loser or immature?depends on whether you have a job
>>77549224If you need more than weed and beer you are probably a prostitute.
>>77549260I could prolly get a job at a gym two birds 1 stone, work and workout >>77549269I have a weed addiction, anon. 2 or 3 days sober now plus what kind of advice is that lmao
>>77549405Nightmare blunt rotation you can't even drink a beer before you turn into a possessed creature who shits and pisses as a defense mechanism?
>>77549224>a loser or immature?Both gym as escapism is mostly loserGym as "one hope of turning things around" is immature
>>77549405So how much weed do you actually inhale?
>>77549472I inhale my weed like I am in a forest fire
>>77549248Okay let me rephrase.Quit being a fucking faggot. If you want to see change you have to completely zone in, especially for physical change through working out.You won't get in the rhytm by just doing a little here or there, you have to absolutely zone in and learn about:>proper macronutrient proportions>cooking such meals>disciplining yourself to eat said meals even when you don't want to>logging everything and keeping the routine to properly fucking track progress>proper lifting technique, mind to muscle connection, TUT, properly gauging rir/rpe, intensity vs volume, progressively overloading etc(by far the most difficult part imo)So when your muppet ass talks about zoning in as immature I just like any other non-tourist /fit/izen will have to tear you a new one because you haven't even put in ONE FUCKING DAY. What makes you think you can do 2 months motherfucker?
>>77549224How come trying to rise yourself up is immature?Get you ass into the gym, right now.And two months? Really? Don’t be a little bitch and set a proper goal, it requires time.
>>77549229Shut the fuck up, imbecile. You're at the bottom but you think you're not only because you're as arrogant and unaware of yourself as a nigger. He's more self-aware and introspective than you'll ever be, that's precisely his problem.
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>>77549224A) You're not actually going to do this B) real ninja warriors don't need to ask 4chan if they're going to be losers for doing something, it's undermining your whole narrative arc. Your goal is extremely tiny, its 2 months. This really isn't a drastic decision so just do it if that's in your heart.
>>77549224>23It is over
>>77549486Did not read+ kys dude lmao>>77549472I smoked daily man, shits so gay>>77549493I say 2 months as like a probation period for me to become human again and hold myself accountable (job, relationship, setting long term goals)>>77549604Basedest response, I swear I will rise to the ranks of real ninja warriors, watch me anon <3>>77549608It's been over, I have been living in extra time, now I just have to score some penality goals and I'll be goodAppreciate you all, I am a cunt but I promise to become cuntier
>>77549224It's not crazy imo. I've had a few of these periods in my life and they can feel really transformational. There's a lot of carryover between becoming locked in on fitness and doing well in other areas of your life, you just can't let it become some consuming that it takes over your other life goals. Also, don't neglect basic stuff like new clothes and a haircut.
Ive been there OP. Same circumstances. You absolutely should take time that is YOURS, and do what seems good to you. Two solid months where youre dedicated to a goal of your choosing is gonna be great because it allows you to take back ownership of your life in a tangible way, where youre the only one to reap the benefits. I do have to warn you that two months isnt enough to see the kinds of benefits you want unless youre really dialed in on form, routine, nutrition, so think more of the next two months as an educational time where you read books on fitness, learn form, try different things, and develop something thats yours. Otherwise, persist in fitness as something yhat only benefits you for the rest of your life because you deserve a body that you can feel proud of and that feels full of energy. As far as sobriety, thats a tough thing, but its well worth it in the end and forever. You deserve to be free. Know what i mean?Dont listen to people who say mean things. Its more of the same. Feeling like a slave from growing up in an abusive household and at all listening to fags who talk shit on the internet leads to the same place. I would also STRONGLY recommend giving as much focus to your mental health and emotional wellbeing as you want to give to your fitness. Nutrition as well. Good luck OP and i wish you a wonderful life.
>>77549224>>77549628Ngmi>>77549486Only sensible post in this thread. What the fuck.. is this board even about fitness anymore?
>>77549405>I could prolly get a job at a gym two birds 1 stone, work and workouti dunno mang, i'd prioritise finding a stable job/career over fitness but 2 months doesn't sound like a lot of time
>>77549628>I say 2 months as like a probation period for me to become human again and hold myself accountable (job, relationship, setting long term goals)You cannot do that in 60 days. Either ditch the fucking calendar or rise to 6 months (as a minimum).
>>77549628you dismissed >>77549486 when it was actually exactly what you needed to hear. you really are ngmi, damn
>>77549224>I'm awfully nice to peopleI really doubt this. Most people who describe themselves this way are huge assholes with zero self awareness.
>>77549405>2 or 3 daysCome back in 2 months. You haven't achieved shit yet.
>>77549224Just learn aristocrat old money etiquetteYou can be polite and still have boundaries
>>77549493>Vulgar Display of Meower
>>77549521trooned out wog
>>77549677Thanks for the kind words anon, I saved your post to get reminded of what's important >>77549724>>77549756Already went applied and gonna start tomorrow, wish me luck boyos>>77550113That's why I'm here. Step by step >>77549839For the sake of this, I did read that big retard's post, I know about everything he mentioned, I was a gym rat for 14 months once before corona, anon. His gay ass advice is to tell someone to focus on all of this at once when he's assuming they're a beginner on day 1, dudes just projecting and egomaxxing while being a demotivating, tell me why would I listen to a cunt who's just a cunt and not even sicc? This board was all about bantering but still lifting each other, never have I ever noticed this kind of loathing beforeMy advice back to you anons, it takes a shit picker to throw shit at people, so just don't pick shit, and be the shitter instead Amen
You are a loser and I am actively praying on your downfall from here on out. You will never stay sober, you will never "become a proper human", you will forever be nothing, you will never mean anything to anyone, and you will never EVER make it. Have the life you deserve
>>77550644This made me kek, good one, Satan. But your words are weak and my soul is stronger, watch me :)
Young girl you're on here? I was paying attention while he was using you to troll me. I saw you take your character to the warehouse with a gym in it to work out in Is that what he is afraid of. That I'd move and have a gym set and put on muscle? You were always free to live with me if you wanted to.I only watched the notebook one time many years ago, but maybe you're acknowledging that what I'd do is possible since I'd be by myself with nothing else to do.I was watching the roblox zhood like how I caught the "lasted" reference when I saw you were showing what made you so bad to me.You would have been down for whatever...That's why I love you. You can't hide you're a raider and I see it. You're my son.
>>77550644This is what he told you? And you know that it's not true. You literally have me and always did...All he can do is what he's trying to do and that is to try to keep me from making a living. Is he doing the same to you?Sorry for leaving the live while he was in there
