Old thread got archived (https://boards.4chan.org/fit/thread/77537130/nofap-war-megathread#p77542479)So let's start again
>>77560595how do you get rid of or deal with the wank before bed thoughts
>>77560595I really have to quit fapping. Sex's been reduced to once/twice a week but I am catching myself having to rethink porn plots to remain hard, despite the current gf being the most attractive I've ever been with.Fucking SSRIs, making a woman on SSRIs cum is a workout. For the first time in my life I don't have a comfortable lead on orgasms given to orgasms had. This sucks.
>>77560615chastity cage
I genuinely had to stop at day 45 because I was getting agp thoughts
>>77560595Day 8 I failed See you next week
Day 14, felt a really strong crave for sex, but managed to wear it off by doing chores and walk it off today.
>>77560615You have to introspect until you find out what causes themExamples:>loneliness>Boredom>Nothing good happened today, I can't go to bed until something good happens
2 weeks in, I'm getting aggressive, sexual dreamsA few days ago, a female co-worker gave me a hug, tonight I dreamt I had sex with her in front of a crowd of people
>>77560723You do know you're supposed to have sex on nofap, right?
>>77560595>>77560615>>77560625>>77560652>>77560662>>77560723>>77560743Nofap does nothing ya permavirgins.
>>77560848Maybe you’re low t??When I nofap for two weeks my lifts are stellar and I am good at talking to women. It’s pleasant and fun. If I fap I feel like I am going to die if I talk to a girl. Like red in the face about to autist run away.When I am full of cum it’s smooth and funny mode.
>>77560858Placebo at best, mental illness at worst.
>>77560743She doesn’t like you.If they like you they are spergs around you.
do you guys think its possible to watch porn and not masturbate?
>>77560799check'd. but i'm on nofap for regaining self-control, energy, and calm; i'm telling you, after about 1 week in, i haven't felt sluggish after waking up, and i don't look for excuse to fight strangers, still struggling with self-control but it's getting better; additionally, i desperately need my peace because my job has robbed me of my peace of mind so i am not in the right headspace to meet women, and i don't want to get a hooker because that doesn't fix my core issues; it's just throwing money and myself right into the emptiness that i'm trying to get away from.>>77560893possible, but it's dangerous because once you watch porn, your old habit will make you touch your dick. If you touch your dick, you're gonna jerk; once you jerk, you're fucked either way, because if you cum, your streak ends; you're the same guy with no self-control; if you edge, you mess with your dopamine receptors; you keep your streak, but you're still the same guy with no self-control, kinda like replaying the same Duolingo lesson to keep the streak, and yet you learn absolutely nothing.
>>77560893It's literally less of a problem if you masturbate but don't look at porn instead.
>>77560848I just want to stop watching porn, what's wrong with that
>>77560957cant do my friendi cant even cum when doing actual fucking, very embarassing>>77560954my idea is what if instead of normal porn i just watch shit on /gif/ or on xitter, dont touch my cock at all, like has anybody done this?
>>77560858Maybe you just need to get fucked up the ass before you talk to women
>>77560615Having a fulfilling day that leads to me falling asleep in under 10 minutes when I hit the sack
>>77560995nothing, and good, stop destroying your mind, its self-destruction, a slow suicide, accruing brain damage and mis-wiring your brain every time you relent
>>77561091It's going to be hard again because I relapsed
>>77561035One more reason for you to immediately quit porn
>>77561074>haha anal xddd
>>77560848Nofap works for attractive people. Sorry you had to find out this way.
Reposting this classic https://archive.org/details/youtube-mhqx7yctQVk
so what's the difference between fapping few times a month and never fapping? I know that the whole no fap thing is about not watching porn, but I'm specifically asking about regular fap/cooming to good ol' imagination.
>>77561525Don't know but I'm at that point where there's no difference between fapping to imagination or fapping to porn. Even if it's to imagination, I'll end up visualising porn in my mind. Unless it would eventually fade, but I never tried that
>>77561525Idk, but there are 2 things that are bein mistrained/fucked up. Porn and high novelty, arousal from searching, all that kind f behavior fucks up your ability to be aroused with a real person at a normal irl pace. Dopamine pathway reward system disregulation type thing. Thn the other main thing being fcked up is that you are mechanically becoming accustomes o your own hand, grip, self stimulus, usual environment, etc which is pavlov conditioning arousal to those conditions, instead of to a irl partner.
>>77560595I gave in after a 3mpnth streak. I'm at day 3 now. This time, I'm specifically avoiding porn and not touching myself. Before, I could get away with edging, but that's how I always relapse. I get to a point where I edge a bit, then cum just from thoughts when I stop before I hit the edge. So far, it's been going good. I want to get to a point where I don't get horny at all. I want to be able to say, "I don't jerk off. I don't even watch porn.".
>>77560625Marry her and you will only have to worry about it once a month
>>77561086Whats your idea of a fulfilling day that helps you get to sleep without
Day 3 >>77560743That's the point. Ask her out on a date. If she didn't like you she wouldn't have bothered hugging you. >>77560848It makes me feel less gross about myself and hornier, and so, for me 3/4 women I've been with I initiated relationships with during nofap streaks.>>77560893Yes, I've done it out of boredom/habbit while doing nofap a lot of times. It's also led to a lot of relapses.>>77562041Kek based and boomerpilled
>>77562041I just got out of a five year relationship, right after the engagement. I don't think I'm mentally ready to marry a new person.Although my brain is screaming "marry her, impregnate her" at me every time we meet, so maybe. Not right away, but if everything goes well. Maybe in a couple of years.
>>77562118>>77562085Impregnation and babbys is what leads to the once a month schedule. Might've been different in the before times but after the initial phase of the relationship, all women I've been with more than a few months default to "whenever I have a sexual thought and that's it". My guess its because they all were given birth control after their like 4th cycle because "my cramps were so bad" and boomer moms believe all doctors at all times and boomer dads wanted their little princess to live a normal life free of normal life things like healthy reproduction. I'm 80% confident too that this interferes with many of their olfactory systems and they end up not being disgusted by people they should be
>>77562137Sounds like you're gay, anon.
>>77562192No, if I were Uncle fucked as a kid I don't recall it but also I don't have any special affinity for man ass even though I am on /fit/
Day 15, rough day, urges have got hands.
>>77560662you did good. gl
>>77560595I had a wet dream on day 84 and I don't even remember the dream; I woke up in my splooge
>>77561239fall seven times, stand up eight
>>77560595I'm 35 yr old unc. No gf. Never had gf. Never had a sexual dream. How often do those happen? I fail no fap repeatedly. Usually because I'm anxious af all the time. It's miserable. Y'all got any tips to getting a gf at this age? Fat ugly girls won't even hookup unless I take them out first. This is insane I'd rather fap.
>>77560615Being so exhausted that sleep becomes more appealing than jerking off. That, or melatonin and valerian.
7 yrs in a relationship, sex with gf in past year has been under double digits. fap daily. i've given up. send help...
>>77562521>7 yrs>gfis this normal
>>77562536This is the reason Whites are going extinct. Total lack of seriousness when it comes to dating.Can't blame them. White women are whores that have been fucking and sucking since 14. Who wants to marry that garbage?
>>77562536people live 10+ years without getting marriednot common but also not unusual
fapping is quite important in a relationship to let your innate horniness and dirty thoughts out and to keep enjoying being loyal to your gfthough limiting porn and just using your pent up sexual tension to fap would be probably even wiser
Day 2
day 1
I’m pretty sure porn and masturbation has replaced my drive to try getting a gf and I’m starting to realize this has probably been the case for a long time. I’m 28 and am so blackpilled by the dating scene that I just don’t look for a gf. I ignore women when I walk past them even when they look at me. I’m decent looking and older women at work ask me about my dating life and seem confused when I say I don’t have a gf. Meanwhile I’m just not on the apps and not going on dates. I wonder if stopping porn/masturbation would make a difference and if it’s even worth it. Lately I’ve been feeling like I should stop and try to start dating, but then I kind of just ask myself what I’d even find sifting through dating apps and why even try at all. Feels like I’m just thinking about stopping out of some sort of formality that I’m not even sure if I want. I see how women my age are so captured by mass media they don’t even seem like conscious humans and I ask myself why I’d want to deal with that. I’m so blackpilled by modernity anons. Idk what to do.
what's the longest you've guys gone without masturbating? I did 7 months once and now I'm wondering how the fuck did I do it and struggle to go past 2 weeks
>>77564178>wall of texthere, here is the reason why you don't do sex>>77564213i never did more than 1 month cause only time I managed this long was in my earlier years and I freaked out from not getting hard or flat lining
>>77564178Attend anti-slop anti-brainrot events (libraries, poetry nights, book meetups, anywhere the central ideas are based around intellectual pursuits) meet women in those interest groups, hang out (invite them to do cool things over "setting" a formal date) and let things develop from there.
>>77560595>not touching your dick is a "war"You should be doing nophone, nointernet or even just no4chan if you want to actually improve your life. But you aren't ready for that talk.
>>77564260Neither are you lol
>>77560615I dont even think about it while looking for porn. Mindlessly using my phone at night, I end up browsing the sites. Sometimes I'll look to pages 12 or 13 and just pick something out of boredom.
i saw a pajeet masturbating in his carthen it hit megooning is india coded
>>77560595Im going to do it now
>>77560595starting my journey today bros, was in bed with a smoking hot girl I'd wanted to hook up with for like 2 years and couldn't perform despite being healthy and in my 20s. been watching way more porn and jerking off at least every night for quite a while so have to assume it's something to do with that. wish me luck
Day 0Failed after about 8 daysFUCK. Again we go
>meme shit
>>77560595>NoFapI'm on my 10th month now and I feel no different than when I fapped regularly.I'm still weak and stupid.Instead of wasting my free time gooning to hentai doujin, I'm now wasting it scrolling socials and 4chan.Where's the benefit?
>>77560595Just had a wet dream after 73 days of SR. What the fuck is going on? Do i reset the counter
>>77560732>”you need to pathologize very basic Pavlonian conditioning”Oy vey
>>77565175nofap works if you have a libido and redirect that energy for other pursuits. eunuchs didn't gain super powers. think of it like chakras filling up one by one from the bottom up
I caved in and fucked a fat asian masseuseNow I'm down $200 and feel like shit
Day 17, the raging boner in the morning is a hell of a wake-up call; can't even sleep in now. haven't watched porn today; gonna keep it that way.>>77565554oof, i ve been thinking about getting a hooker, but you just described exactly how I would feel after banging a hooker. I hope you regain some self-control
>>77565362Yes obv, think about sack before you sleep
>>77564213Best I did is a whole month during no nut november. The hardest part is between days 5-10. After that, it's just living with the discomfort of blue balls. I have slightly more energy and colors seem brighter, but that's it.After months of it, did you see any more positive/negative effects?
>>77565554You do know you’re supposed to have sex on nofap, right? It’s kinda the whole point
>>77565175Do you get random boners and wet dreams?To me it sounds like your balls have been on a vacation for about 10 months and that's why you don't feel any different.
Day 18, lifting today, lifting has been steadily progressing, more reps or weight every week, just like how it was back in nofap November last year.
Switched from running/elliptical to biking as the primary cardio, boners are way too hard. It's becoming a problem. Like I'm afraid the skin on it will split like a stretchmark problem.
>>77560954Based fren. Wagmi
>>77565740Yeah, but sex with hot zoomettes who are into it, not paid sex with hookers
>>77564065day 3 and I had leg day todayit is gonna be ROUGH but I made a deal with god that if I last 7 days without he would give me my bitch ex back so I am trying.
Day 4 failed againI was pretty weak willed todayI must regain my motivation
16 days, cravings were strong today
