I hit the gym, do indoor bouldering and also run to keep my cardio up. I guess on the outside I reached normie status as I am also pursuing an accounting degree in college and have an ok friend group.However, I really love to draw, especially anime. I have never revealed that to anyone, I am too ashamed of it.How much do I need to lift so if I ever tell people, especially women I want to date, that they aren‘t completely weirded out by me?
>>77598169Yes they are weirded by anime and you should stop watching that degenerate slop and instead watch ai drama like the normal housewife
0. The reason it's weird is because you're uglyI tell women about all the cringeworthy avant garde trash i watch and they pretend to be interested, i wont tell you but if you dont lack self awareness nad have retrospection past the last 2 words you read you'll guess
>>77598169Sorry anon but drawing anime means being an illustrator and working on a real-life product that people want to purchase and consume. What you do is sketching personal masturbation material, which is honorable but you're really stealing valor by claiming to "draw anime."I'm trans btw.
>>77598169It's over for us, anon.
>>77598169Aren’t a lot of women outside of white chicks likely to be into anime and Japanese culture? Your drawing skills are awesome btw, just offer to draw them and have it look flattering
>>77598180Bro your belly is frowning
>>77598183I live in Southern Germany, we only have white chicks here. Let me say Lisa from the gym who also studies law or medicine would not be impressed by me drawing anime…
>>77598224Yet she's impress by some 60 IQ "aspiring rapper" nafri with some shitty FL Studio loops. Just passportbro bro.Sorry for the mini crashout, white fo*ds get me worked up. I'm in nerdy hobbies too.
>>77598169you just need to look good.my best friend had an anime themed birthday party for his 35th BD, which was cringe even for me who's a massive weeb, but the guy looks like he came out of a Nazi propaganda poster so all the women soaked it up and talked about how funny, charming and different it was.we've known each other from kindergarten and he'd do stuff like pretend to shoot a kamehameha during recess with everyone around, and people just thought it was funny. I've never known him to be single ever since he turned 16 or so.if you look good and do shit with confidence, basically everything will be accepted.if you look bad or are clearly ashamed of something, people will judge you for it.I have a shelf in my living room which also has yuri manga on it, and whenever someone asks about the cover art I just go>yeah, it's pretty good, want to borrow it and give it a read?and that's that.
>>77598169women usually like it when you have a creative hobby.just mention that you draw and if they ask to see it, have a sketch book that has a mix in there where it's not just anime but also some life studies or even something as trivial as an owl (pretending you sketched it in nature, kek).none of them will care as long as you aren't drawing futa shit or something like that, they'll just think it's cool you can draw.>>77598183the younger girls are usually cool with it, even if they also only watch a couple big name shows rather than all the seasonal slop the average male weeb enjoys. used to supervise the 1st semesters during my postgrad studies and sometimes wore my tshirts from japan, and they always commented on them and liked them (just shirts with hiragana or kanji, no ahegao stuff or anything like that).>tfw born almost a decade too early to belong to a generation which shares my hobbiesI get along much better with zoomers, I never shared all that many hobbies with my own generation
>>77598224You don't want a woman that studies law or medicine, anon.Find a girl like vid related.
>>77598246My face looks average, so the only thing I can change is my body and my bodyfat percentage (which to be honest is more than 20% right now). >>77598254You are right, I should spend more time on fundamentals anyway. But at some point my anime drawings are coming out, how do I handle that? Like I can‘t keep it a secret if I have a girlfriend, she will see me draw on my desk at some point…
>>775982711234 and bf% in the teens is all you need. After that, learn to dress decently. Not "my dad's a lawyer" or sexcore, just, more button down shirts and clothes that actually fit.
>>77598271>But at some point my anime drawings are coming out, how do I handle that?Just don't hide them to begin with.If you hide something, all you signal is that you're ashamed of it, which already turns it into a negative no matter what people might have thought of it otherwise.unless it's something truly degenerate, most people will at worst think>that's a bit weirdand then forget about it again.never hide things you aren't willing to just drop from one day to the next if the need arises.
>>77598169bruh youre in good company here. stay as you are. bee youreself.
