Unpopular opinion, but I actually want to be a DL gay man who cheats on his gf. I used to hookup with guys like this and the sex was wayyy better, so I figure ill continue the tradition. I want to gaslight the shit out of a dumb foid. Any advice for how to do it well?
>>2715141>Any advice for how to do it well?have money
>>2715142Wait. What do you mean though?
>>2715141I’m a dumb girl you can use
>>2715141I got with my now-wife shortly after realizing I'm into cock. For a while in the beginning I stayed loyal but after a while I gave in and now I've cheated on her with 8 guys I think, some of them repeatedly.I'm bi really, and I like having sex with her once in a while but she has a very low sex drive due to a medical condition. The other thing is we *could* divorce and I could totally go crazy with guys, but once a certain family member of hers dies she's set to inherit a couple million so there's that.
>>2715409I think even if you're lying to her, offering someone companionship who wouldnt otherwise have it is a noble thing to do. I'd also hate being cheated on though.
>>2715409observe the elusive male gold digger in its natural habitat
I’m a DL fag who’s been married for a decade. I sucked my first cock just before we got together but I’ve played with my ass and watched gay porn my whole life. But I never really did anything beyond that. I hike we were dating I bottomed for a guy I met and loved it. Since then I’ve fucked and been fucked by a bunch of dudes. First thing. You need to be super careful. STD’s are a thing and gay men spread them with reckless abandon. Be picky and patient. Find a shy dude online. Someone super paranoid and nervous to hook up. Preferably another married dude. Once you find one, do whatever you need to break the ice and get him comfortable hooking up. I’ve dressed up in lingerie, fucked in the dark, worn masks etc. Once you start hooking up, stick with one dude or maybe two if you’re lucky. Less risky and if he’s into it, you’ll start fucking a lot more in time. You will more than likely find a few false starts. Dudes who will hook up and delete their accounts afterwards, or stop after a few hookups. Eventually you’ll find someone similar. The one I’m currently fucking I had to dress up for. He’d come over and fuck me ass up, never look me in the eye. After a while he started sucking my dick, then flip fucking. Now we hook up all the time. I’m pretty much his booty call and we just do whatever. We only fuck each other and I trust he’s not fucking other dudes so we started going bareback without worry. Can’t tell you how many nuts that man’s shot in my butt before I came home from work. I like the secrecy, the taboo and the rush I get from it all. There’s nothing like chillin with the boys, or hanging with the wife with a slippery asshole full of cum. It’s hot being a closeted faggot.
I live in a semi rural area where being openly gay isn't culturally acceptable, it's kind of still a wild west region with heaps of cattle grazing and agriculture. It's sooo common that men have wives and families but have frequent sex with other men. I think it's probably always been that way through time. The raw sexuality of men needs expression and in my experience it's best done with other men. You do have to be careful of STDs though, that's getting worse. Especially with third world immigration bringing syphilis back into our white country when it was all but eradicated. HIV is no longer a problem thanks to Truvada.
>>2715433I once had an ongoing thing with a super hot muscle dude who was ex military, he loved getting fucked with my big cock more than anything. One day I got a deranged text message from his wife who'd gone through his phone, I heard from him once more to apologise for it, then never again. He tried to gaslight her about it, I hope it worked.
>>2715433I’m in the same type of area. Fairly rural with a population of around 12,000 in the town with small outlying communities 20 to 30 minutes away. No major population within around 1.5 hour drive. Anyway, I’d say most of the men on hookup sites are married to women or have girlfriends. When visiting larger population areas, the numbers are roughly the same. Mostly “Straight” men. I think it’s two fold. One is like you said, it’s not totally acceptable or they feel some sort of embarrassment about it. But two, there is a very large percentage of people who do not want to be associated or even agree with the LGBT movement. And I’d like to add, you saying large populations of immigrants bringing disease from around the world into communities through unchecked immigration sounds racist as fuck. But it’s 100% true and easily verifiable.
It's funny that a lot of rural guys seem to sort of live the way I think most men would live, if they didn't have fear of being called gay (or if the term didn't exist, like society previously was).The gays that fought for rights also turned around and screamed that "if you fuck guys, that means you're gay and want to be with men," and I bet so many of these rural guys just do it because it's really easy sex (any man that has sex with another man honestly). An easy mouth, an easy ass, and then you move on.It's too bad some hysterical fag has to run in and be like "no, cause I'M GOD and I decide who people are and what the activities they do means!!11!!"Anyway, DL guys, if you live in the US Mistr is free and provides pRep and Doxy-PEP. And condom's still exist too.If we're gonna blame immigrants for STD's, why they fuck are you moron's fucking anyone who isn't white? It's always like that, it's always someone else fault. Have some self control man!
ITT: self-hating fags who spread STIs like wildfire and commit hate crimes once someone finds out they're closeted
>>2715460>Found the hysterical, Aids ridden faggot
>>2715456 Agree. Sexual behaviour is not personal identity.>>2715460 Bit of a stretch, xir
>>2715456>>2715456>It's too bad some hysterical fag has to run in and be like "no, cause I'M GOD and I decide who people are and what the activities they do means!!11!!"Funny because it's mostly the straight guys who do this shit, saying anyone who has sex with a guy can't be bi and it just makes them gay.
>>2715469No it’s not. It’s everyone. Proof; it’s human nature to want to categorize everything. And anything we struggle to definitively categorize becomes a spectrum.
>>2715456> If we're gonna blame immigrants for STD's, why they fuck are you moron's fucking anyone who isn't white? It's always like that, it's always someone else fault. Have some self control man!Self control isn’t the issue, that’s a different subject. What we’re talking about is the increased likelihood of carrying an STD by someone who formally resided in a shithole 3rd world country. And it doesn’t matter who you fuck, they spread it into the population. I know it’s easier to ignore the problems, or deny they exist. But that doesn’t fix anything.
>>2715141I hate it but this is my biggest fetish. Nothing turns me on more than a DL married man. Or a guy with a girlfriend. The idea of a group of guys who are all providers, traditional masculine men, all with wives and kids. Then once a month, when the wives are all out shopping or whatever, they meet in the man cave and have wild man sex. Their wives think they’re just “watching the game”, but their husbands are all breeding each other.I could never pull off such a life, it’s very NPC-coded behavior, but I’m sure guys like this exist.
>>2715491...so someone, somewhere has to have fucked that 3rd worlder to get the STD??? I hope you're not acting like it's a cold that spreads with a sneeze or cough? So, I'm not ignoring it, if people are fucking them, then yes, STD's will spread that way and that's the problem.>>2715490Remember how those labels have barely existed, and we're so pathetic as a species that we desperately need them to label and judge each other? And somehow before those labels, a whole lifetime of human's have existed without them and everything was just fine?But anyway, way more guys fuck then we know. We aren't with and around each other every second of the day and no matter what the perception is of any single person, they could be off taking it in the ass and we'd never know. It is what it is. But please twist and contort yourself into pretzels to be this labeled thing, instead of just existing.
>>2715499Um, yeah. Someone somewhere has had to fuck them. That’s not the issue. It’s that they bring their disease into places where it typically doesn’t exist. STD’s are way more common in countries that are “not” westernized 1st world countries. I’m not saying everyone from a less fortuanate country are diseased sub-humans. I’m saying the type of immigrants we let into the west matters. This unchecked mass immigration needs to stop. > Remember how those labels have barely existed, and we're so pathetic as a species that we desperately need them to label and judge each other? And somehow before those labels, a whole lifetime of human's have existed without them and everything was just fine?Those labels have existed in one form or another since the beginning of time. Try again. Your last point… I totally agree with.
>>2715498This is what I do to some degree. I’m straight, my friend is straight, we go hunting and camping all the time. We’re both rock climbers so we’re out camping almost every weekend and go on week long trips about every other month. Our wives hang out but aren’t best friends or anything. Neither one come with us camping very often, so usually it’s just us. We met on Grindr, but our wives don’t know that. Sometimes we just hang and do what dudes do. But fairly often I’m giving him road head, taking it up the ass in a campground or occasional we just get a room and fuck like rabbits when we’re on our trips. Wives have no idea. The taboo aspect is the biggest turn on for me. Coming home from a weekend of getting my ass drilled and filled then hugging my wife gives me a hard on. I’d imagine our situation is fairly common.
>>2715141I was that guy. I knew I was bi, leaning towards gay, but society told me to marry a woman. I did, had kids, enjoyed sex with my wife. Wanted to have sex with a guy but didn't until she stopped having sex. Started hooking up with guys. For me it was easy because we both worked, she worked retail so that meant nights and weekends, I handled the money in the house and she was not technically literate. I had older kids at my house so had to meet elsewhere, sometimes at other married guys' houses.
>>2715585I did the same thing. I actually sucked a classmates dick in the bathroom in elementary school. I used to suck my older brothers cock all through middle school and high school. He’d lay me face down and fuck my thighs too. I had girlfriends the whole time. Got to college, stopped doing the brother thing. Didnt do anything gay but always jerked off and would often play with my ass. Had a couple dildos etc.After that, I got married, never thought about it for at least 10 years. Wife started playing with my butt. Just a finger during BJ’s. That lead to me getting a small strap on. She didn’t really like it, but I loved it. That got me fantasizing about getting fucked. Started watching gay porn more regularly. Lots of tranny porn (the gateway gay drug). That’s when Craigslist was around. I discovered the personals. After about a year of that I hooked up with a guy at his house. He fucked me sideways and I was hooked. I probably fucked a dozen guys over a few years. Most of them I fucked many many times. One of them is fuck once or twice a week for years. Probably had gallons of his cum in my ass. I was perfectly happy with my arrangement. Go to work, on the way home, blow my friend or get blown. On the weekends, meet somewhere and fuck. Had a couple 3 ways etc. Spend the evening with the wife with a butt full of cum. My wife worked weekends and went on business trips. So I’d invite a guy over and we’d get dressed up in panties and lingerie. Sometimes just fuck and do whatever. A few times had someone over all night. Anyway, that all ended when the wife came home early and found me ass up getting my guts plowed by a coworkers husband. No denying that one. We tried to work it out, but she caught me again. This time I was riding this young studs dick on the living room floor dressed in a schoolgirl skirt lol. Fuck it. She left, we divorced and I continued fucking men. Have a new girlfriend now. She has no idea I fuck men on the regular.
>>2715498>I hate it but this is my biggest fetish. Nothing turns me on more than a DL married man. Or a guy with a girlfriendAt least half the guys I have been with were married or had boyfriends/girlfriends. I've fucked guys in the bed they share with their wife or while they talked to them on the phone. There's something about having sex with a guy wearing a wedding ring knowing your giving him something his wife won't.
>>2715409Assuming you're in the US, in most states, inheritance isn't considered a marital asset in a divorce, unless she co-mingles the funds into a shared account. So if you're waiting on the death of a family member before making the split, it might not matter anyway.
>>2715456Heterosexual and homosexual are descriptions of biological modes of sexuality. Modern leftists conflate innate identity with chosen identity, which has confused people like you into thinking you can have gay sex and just identify your way out of recognizing that its a reflection of what you are. >I bet so many of these rural guys just do it because it's really easy sexWhat you're describing is bisexuality. This might be news to you but every man is not bisexual. Lots of guys have no urge to fuck other men. A lot of men are cowardly bisexuals, but the easy way out for them is to just "identify" as straight and have DL gay sex. Thats all it is, thats what you are, doesn't matter how you see yourself. That's what gay activists used to say before all the new bullshit.>>2715525Exactly. I never bought the "they never used to have a concept for homosexuality!!" bullshit for a second. Ancient people knew that homos existed, we know this. Plato mentions it. Even if many cultures only named them via slurs. Tired of neogender leftists and cowardly rural DL men clinging to bullshit ideas about self identity. Homosexual = attracted to men only, bisexual = attracted to both etc. Its extremely simple. Life isn't an rpg character creation screen.>>2715526Not what straight means. Tf do you people think straight means.
>>2715694>No, you’re correct. Not what straight means. I was just using it more like a metaphor. We’re both straight up bisexual faggots kek. Everything else you said is 100% correct. Leftists were doing so well until they started believing all this loony toon shit. Gay marriage/rights? I can get behind that. Tran/demi/pan/two spirit bullshit, not so much. And fuck Palestine. Can’t get behind those terrorists and the commie bullshit either. It’s just searching for an easy way out by going down the road of suicide.
Met best friend in 2nd grade, around 7th grade he was over at my house every weekend up until 12th grade or so and even then was over often until age 28 or so. Got curious with eachother alot, turns out he really likes to suck dick and take it in the ass, we didn't figure that out instantly this was over a few years but lasted for many years. I guess that makes us Bi but I really dont have any interest in meeting random men. he got a steady GF at 21 but we continued on for years after.
>>2715490Point is though it isn't just "woke"s and gays doing it.
>>2715142Thats pretty good advice for damn near anything.
>>2715707You’re not wrong.
I cheat and take cock behind her back. I've always been bisexual, but didn't finally act on it until about a year ago. The deceiving part doesn't really excite me, but it's the reality.It's also a challenge because I'm into pretty sketchy sex, but I take PrEp, have vaccinations, get tested regularly after any bout of activity. I take enough precautions to feel I'm limiting risk while still doing what I enjoy.
>>2715755do you still have sex with your wife?
>>2715768our sex life hasn't been the best of late, but yes
>>2715498Source for the image
>>2715778Has she picked up on anything? Have you ever had sex with her while a load was up your ass?I think this type of situation is unfortunate, but probably way more common than even anons on this site are willing to admit.
>>2715755How did your first encounter and how old were you when it happened. Post your dick too
>>2715815The majority of the married guys I have met do not have sex with their wives, or maybe a few times a year. But the rest are sexually active with their wife, either not as much as they would prefer or they just want cock, too.
>>2715825I might fit that category. My wife and I have sex once or twice a month. But I have sex with my regular at least 3 or 4 times a month. Sometimes a lot more than that. And yes, I have had sex with my wife while carrying another man’s load in my ass. Once.
>>2715815No, she hasn't shown any suspicion. I tend to be most active when she's away for work, so I'm not pushing things to the edge of being caught.I did have a guy say he was sending me home to my wife with his load in my ass. Hot, but I haven't yet cut it that fine that I'm full of cum when she's there.
>>2715812Strip Poker Night: An Orgy of Dads, Bears and Boys>>2715835hot asf
DL married guys are hot, in a sense that they will grab any opoportunity they can to hook up with you. I've had sex with guys in the trash room of their apartment building while their wife was upstairs, in their car while on a trip to Home Depot, hiking, in the basement of their office building.Occasionally in their home, in their bedroom, on the bed their wife sleeps. Even better wearing his wife's clothes while he fucks me.
>>2715870As a DL married guy, I can say this is true. I can never host, so I’m willing to hook up where a lot of people usually wouldn’t. I mostly hook up with other DL married guys too so it can sometimes get creative. I have fucked in people’s houses, on their wives bed, in parking lots of Walmart and Home Depot. In the woods. At park trailheads. In a shed while his wife was home inside the house. I even fucked a guy in a dressing room while his wife waited outside for him to try on clothes. He came out several times to grab a different size so we could fuck longer. Every time talking to his wife. He continued shopping with her all day after I busted a huge nut in his ass. No joke. I can’t even tell you how many times I’ve sucked a guy off just before coming home from work.
>>2715825Maybe it's because I'm too gay to have ever dated a woman, but I genuinely cannot imagine how these women think that they can get away with never having sex with their male partner and not expecting or at least wondering what's keeping him satisfied. It usually isn't thumberella.
>>2715905In my case, I told my wife I promised monogamy but not celibacy. After 14 months of no sex, I started with guys.
any married guys have success on mistr with a prep product? where do you get it mailed? my wife is a retail pharmacist, so i hear it from her all the time about how common stds are
Does anyone have any advice to find a DL married guy? I live in downtown Chicago, 27 M, pretty fit, kinda short but cute and handsome. Im not a full blown Chad, which makes me think it might be hard. I've already had two married guys reach out to me on Sniffies before, but I didn't go through with it.
>>2715926married guy here. if you can host, have time, you should have no problem. those were my two requirements. I've had sex with guys who would be considered 5/10 or less, but they had cocks, could host me and could work with my schedule so...
>>2715409What a piece of shit you are.
>>2715926I don't think any married guys are going to be chads at this point lol. Like the other guy said, it's all about someone who can host. I live in the STL suburbs and it's all just married guys who can't host out here.You'll be fine.
>>2715958BS. I’m a married guy and I fit the definition of a Chad. And I pretty much only fuck other chads and twinks.
>>2715908How did she react? Did you have an open conversation about opening up the relationship? How would you feel if she were fucking around on the side?Genuinely not trolling, I find these situations fascinating.
for any non-closeted guys on here who is also disgusted by closet cases.out them, out all the down-low vermin. make sure that it's all documented so that homophobic right wing groups kill their own closet cases first. Make sure there is no closet remaining. They don't get to hide in there while taking advantage of all the liberty that we had to suffer for and earn. They don't get to have it both ways. They either come out of the closet and help voluntarily, or they get outted so that their safety is just as at-risk as ours is. They don't like that? Maybe they should have had the courage to stand with us in the first place, instead of playing Pick Me from behind the sock drawer.It's like a gay version of the 4B bullshit that korean women are doing.No more closets. For anyone. And the massive spike in Grindr use during Republic conventions is proof that this should have been done all along.
>>2715984>How did she react?She doesn't know. It's more of a "don't ask, don't tell" type of arrangement.>Did you have an open conversation about opening up the relationship?No. I knew that was a no-go from the start. >How would you feel if she were fucking around on the side?Funny, we were having an argument about lack of sex and I said I should just get it elsewhere and she said that she would too. I laughed and said she didn't even want to have minimal sex now, what would make me think she's hook up elsewhere?
>>2715986>And the massive spike in Grindr use during Republic conventions is proof that this should have been done all along.The 2016 DNC convention in Philadelphia showed the largest spike (148%) on Grinder.
>>2715986>the massive spike in Grindr use during Republic (sic) conventions is proof that this should have been done all alongI know you guys are really smart, smarter than the rest of Americans, but doesn't it seems weird to you that more people are on grindr at the RNC than the DNC? Or Pride? New York city pride hosts 2-2.5 million people. How many million gay people do you think go to the RNC looking to fuck? There are at least 2.6 million gays trying to fuck at the republican national convention?I really hate how dumb out gays get. I've had so many gay friends. Genuinely, I love the weirdos. Something about leaving the closet just makes you a full on retard though. I fuck who I fuck, and it's no one else's business. Not even yours.
>>2716000My bad, misread "massive spike" as "crash," which you hear a dozen times every time the RNC comes aroundStill dumb as shit propaganda, solely confirmable by Grindr who have an in to get back in the news every RNC
>>2715995I know I asked for it, but that seems like a depressing arrangement. She's eventually going to put two and two together, even if she never learns exactly who you've been pumping loads into.To be clear, I'm not mad at you for it. I hope you drill/get drilled by all the local dudes. I just hope there isn't too much collateral damage.
>>2716049When it started, we still had two kids living at home. I had a good job, kept food on the table and a roof over everyone's head. She wasn't interested in sex.Funny thing was that lack of sex made me angry and that bled into everything. Once I got my needs taken care of elsewhere, the relationship actually improved.Do I like cheating? No.
>>2716000>>2716001see >>2715996
>>2716001BTW - the crash during the RNC convention was confirmed that it was an outage in several cities that had nothing to do with the convention.
>>2716056I can respect that you understand where you guys are at. Hope it all works out for you anon. And keep having the hottest man sex you can.
I had a wet dream last night about sucking cock, is this is a sign that I should try it
>>2716110Sure, let us know how it goes.
I really love my wife and we have great sex, but I still fantasize about having a DL fuckbuddy quite often.I'm kind of a twink and would love to have some frustrated "bear" type to worship.Never had any sexual encounters except with my wife though, I don't think I'll actually seek the fantasy out, but I still like to imagine and jerk off. Bought a dildo to suck off a while ago but threw it away after a while because I thought my wife would find it...
>>2716427I’m the same thing. I’m in my late 30’s but still have kind of a twink body. I mean, I’m very fit and weigh about 150lbs, decent cock and look good in panties. I’m married too and had similar fantasies. I bought an dildo at an adult shop to keep it a secret from my wife and every time she was gone for a good amount of time I’d pull it out and use it while watching gay porn. The difference is, a few years ago the opportunity at the right time came along and I took it. I was sexting a hot guy on Grindr for months. I never pulled the trigger and actually met though. That evening I had the whole night and next few days to myself. Basically a perfect scenario and he caught me gooning out to gay porn. I actually drove to his place and sucked his cock which made me loose my mind. I ended up naked getting fucked for at least an hour in every position I always fantasized about. At first, afterwards I felt a bit guilty, but my dick was diamonds for a week. After that, I guess I broke the seal because we ended up fucking dozens of times over the next year or so until he moved out of state. Went on a search for another regular and fucked around a dozen guys before finding another married guy who’s similar to me and loves to fuck. He’s a total top, pretty masc, fit and can fuck like a machine. My manage has actually never been better, despite the fact that I suck a lot of dick and take loads up the ass behind her back.
