What is your relationship like with your father in your country? Do your countrymen make good fathers?
He died when I was 11 so it's not really a thing
He is 6 feet under
He dieded
>>221847443>>221847453>>221847493wtf how old are you guys? that is sad
he is a pushover. naturally he got exploited. luckily for him this country is pretty tame so he didnt end up that bad.
manipulative a hole but our a hole i guess. don't wish him any harmat least i can blame my broken self on the divorce. drink more, that will help
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>>221848166What age did he die? I am 32 but I imagine my dad will live for many years. He is alcoholic and has pneumonia recently tho
>>221847425My man is thrice the man i will never be.He is tall, muscular, very smart, very cultured, draws extremly well, and is a well respected teacher.He also was a heavyweight boxer in his 20–35 years and almost went pro.He sold heroine in northern Paris in the 80s, worked in factories in germany during summer to pay for college, almost went to jail because he was part of a gang, visited the eastern block in the 90's, lived in Africa for 2 years.Fucked more girls than i have fingers too, and even a french noble women.He's quite literally a gigachad and i will never be like him.
I like him, I can talk well with him about random historical/political topics. He was also more chill than my mom when I grew up and he didn't hate me like he hated my bigger brother. He also provided for me and my siblings financially and still helps us with picking us up or something. But he's a bad father, he takes no serious interest in any of our lives, there is no emotional connection and he beat us growing up. He is weak now and his health is declining because he's neglecting himself and never cared for his health. He has a lot of flaws, but he's still my dad.
I send him a message when it's his birthday and he sends me money when it's my birthday and we basically never talk aside from that but I know that he loves me and I like him. That's apparently considered abnormal in other countries.
>>221848292>there is no emotional connection and he beat us growing up.Thats just a normal dad?Its normal bro.
>>221848361no it isn't, he should care about your wellbeing and your social life, friendships, relationships with girls and women. This idea that fathers should be le heckin based cold emotionless robots is autistic and a forced idea of masculinity. They are there to make you become a good man, and if they neglect that they fucked up. Just like your dad, it seems.
>>221848302Desu sometimes I wonder if he really wanted to have kids in the first place because I wouldn't really want to do that. Makes you think.Because I wouldn't really want to have kids and if if I had kids I'd want them to do well and I'd care about them and so on but I'd probably be like my dad who never talks to me and visits me once a year when I live abroad.
>>221848226i honestly don't get how some go through life sober. i only do it when behind the wheelno dui on my part
>>221848387You sound like a big fat pussy.Your dad didn't beat you enough.
>>221847425Died when i was 6. Never liked him anyway.
>>221848609you have a big mouth online.
>>221847425my father died from work when i was 12 we were close>Do your countrymen make good fathers? there's this stereotype that filipino fathers are often low paid worker deadbeats
>>221848816And offline too.Nigger.
>>221848287>>221848361Ask me how I know your dad was neglectful and your entire image of him is based on things he or your mother told you.He was probably a loser who tells tall stories.
>>221848852I can see that, but I also have seen some Filipino fathers in our neighbourhood that really cherish their families.
>>221849377Unfortunately for you, he did most of these things with his friends (one is now my godfather) and his little brother, which is my favorite uncle.All of it is truth. I only learned about the heroine part recently, as a young adult. for obvious reasons.I love and respect him. He's a better man than me. Or any loser incel here.
My dad passed away unexpectedly half a year ago. He was genuinely my best friend and an amazing human being and father.Remember to hug your loved ones, bros.
Dad has never been there and ruined our family by cheating on mom. He let mom refurbish the house for 15 years and slept with all her friends, then he left when it was finished and took all the money :D One time i sat over two hours in the car with him and just wanted to see if he could start a convo and he didn't speak once. Awkward idiot.
>>221848816whatcha gonna do
>>221849913nothing, just reminding him he's a little faggotI talk big here too but I can heem 90% of men, in France probably 95%
He's been dead for 10 years. Relationship was pretty good, despite a few hiccups.
>>221849967Your people watch their feet in Paris metro.
Like him
>>221849967>I can heem 90% of men, in France probably 95%>complains about his father beating him too muchYeah sure.
>>221847425I love my dad, a bit fickle and autistic but I love him. We're completly opposites though, he's like a fucking genius and I'm a dumbass.
>>221847425My mother divorced him and he left the country when I was 8.He's good. It's just impossible to be a good father when you see someone 2 weeks a year. My mother's a whore.
Incredibly narcissistic. My therapist reccomended me a book that taught me something called the grey rock method which helped me alot in deal with his antics. I wish it wasn't like this. Would've been nice to have a loving father, but it is what it is.
>>221848010I'm 35. My dad died when I was 17. Alcohol, obesity and mental illness = massive stroke while watching hockey on the tv.
>>221850122whatcha gonna do
>>221850653I won't support Israel in the next Eurovision.A deadly blow to the german race.
>>221849481F. i've seen more death for my own good but at least my parents are alive
>>221847453Bad
>>221847425He only ever phones me to ask for money. Even if I ignore him 80% of the time, I still feel an obligation to answer every now and then, and then I basically have to give him money because I'm a pushover who can't say no to family.
>>221847425Not too close. He was always working or watching tv and didn't know anything about me my interests, or even which class I was in at school. I think he understood now and tries to show contact now with some stuff, but it's far too late for that.
My father has been dead for many years
He's not a bad guy, but I'm a bad match for him. He restricted everything I was good at (computers) growing up, and forced stuff I suck at (sports) on me instead. Rural things.
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