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Let’s say I am a 25 year old virgin in my country interested in getting into dating in my country, do you have any good starter tips for me you’ve picked up in your country?
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Hi, I actually am trying to live and in it's reasonable boundaries it's working
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always go for young girls
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spike their drink to save money
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>>221858569
My dad told me that: "You could chase a girl around the club the whole night, Invinting her to drink or to dance and trying to chat her out. But if she is uninterested, there is little you can do to change her mind"
Regardless of gender, the person that is being asked out always has the upper hand at first.
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Alright, listen to me.
While you're kissing her cheek,
and smearin' her lipstick,
Slip this in her drink.
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Do you guys have any advice that’s not rape or pedophilic?
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>>221859028
Install Gentoo
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>>221858956
By the time they hit fourth grade they've got Discovery Channel, don't they?
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>>221858569
Take a shower.
Go to work tomorrow
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>>221858569
Bee yourself.
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Show interest, be groomed, look presentable, SMELL NICE!!!, don't be a coward
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Be bold. Grab her ass, especially when unexpected and when you're not that familiar with her. It's called breaking the ice and will skip you many steps in the whole thing.
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>>221859608
Btw this isn't trolling. Literally did this with the two last whores. The first one said nothing (I was seated next to her in a bus), didn't move seats and basically I shagged her later on the next date. The second one pretended to be all shocked and we agreed to a relationship a few hours later (she was a virgin and she brought up the subject.)
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>>221858569
get practice, expect poor results for most of it, you'll get better at it. lie just lie about being a virgin. you'll probably do fine on your first time, my dick was so porn broken with my first woman i didn't cum until like my 10th fuck
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People don't believe me when I say I'm a virgin. If it ever somehow comes up and just say that I am. Guys are surprised and do the typical joke that I might be gay but they're mostly surprised and ask why. Since I work with foreigners I say British women are terrible and they laugh.

The kindest person was actually a Filipino who liked making sex jokes and said he slept around with dozens of women when he was a teenager, now married with 5 kids. He made fun of me and then the next time said I was actually very holy and sleeping around like him was never actually worth it and that my future woman will be very lucky to have me. End of blog
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>>221861259
>get practice
How?
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>>221858927
The point is to understand it so you can move on quickly and to find someone who actually is interested in you instead of jumping hoops for nothing
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>>221861453
Can I pet your birbs?
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>>221858569
Number one tip is it's all about looks. Women rate you rather conclusively in 13 miliseconds and it's a pain in the ass to change their mind. If you can soft looksmaxx like losing weight, grooming good etc by all means treat it as a bare minimum, but hard looksmaxxing like a few milimeres of jawbone is an amazing investment that will pay dividends in your work life as well, not just dating. Everything revolves around lookism these days.
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>>221858569
>do you have any good starter tips for me you’ve picked up in your country?
Just be yourself :D
(Unless you are a shit human)
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>>221863091
Plebbit nonsense. I mean it works if you look like a high tier normie or chad. Chad can shit in her mouth and it wouldn't even be a dealbreaker for most foids.
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>>221858569
>do you have any good starter tips
Prepare yourself for rejection. Even a tall chad can get rejeceted. Also don't let yourself get "oneitis", keep talking to girls until you find one that clicks with you. I am 5'9 but have still managed to date a handful of women over my life, even married once for about 6 years. I also can not stress this enough: talk to women IN PERSON. Yes, IN PERSON. Go to bar/club/bowling alley/sports park/beach/etc it doesn't matter, go talk to women in person. So much more can be gleaned by observing how women speak, react and behave by interpersonal interaction. You will learn a lot more that way.
If your only interest is sex, using a dating app or hire an escort/prostitute for that but don't expect to be fulfilled or have a meaningful relationship.
>.t 42yr old anon
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>>221858956
my suggestion was purely financial SIR
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realize its over
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>>221859692
>she was a virgin
Too obvious, anon.
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>>221858927
viewing relationship dynamics as some sort of power play is pathetic.

if a girl is into you, great. if not, go find someone else. its not that deep
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you really should
>looksmax
>statusmax
>personalitymax
in that order before you try dating,
ideally you want to be at least htn looks wise, with a decent paying job, your own place and car, who isnt a total sperg or asshole

if you have established a decent baseline for all three then girls will give you the telltale signs of interest (lots of staring, initiating conversations, being very close to you and touchy feely)
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>>221858927
>Regardless of gender, the person that is being asked out always has the upper hand at first.
Your dad just saw Kaguya-Sama Love is War.
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>>221858569
Fixed the image for you. Applies to any sub-7 male btw.
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>>221864140
>it's not that deep
yes it is
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>>221864065
She was bro. For some reason I was blessed by the gods and most women I dated had very low bodycounts. I took the virginity of four of them. (I'm not looking specifically for that and I was surprised she was a virgin in her mid twenties.) I date a specific kind of women admittedly in the 4-6 range though.
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>>221864140
tits or gtfo wench
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>>221864571
Not sure, My dad is not a weeb
>>221864140
>if a girl is into you, great. if not, go find someone else. its not that deep
Yeah, maybe I expressed it badly. But this is the point I want OP to know
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>>221864140
autism or cope, call it
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>>221865286
Actually it's more likely he lacks autism. Normgroids are notoriously bad at recognizing female advantage and trickery in life, they're almost always simpy and horny.
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>>221863256
>even married once for about 6 years
Pathetic.
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>>221863089
>these days
lol. it's been that way since the dawn of man lil bro
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>>221864140
YWNBAW
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>>221858569
am autistic, it's over for me
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>>221858569
It's a waste of time and money. Wouldn't recommend it. I learned how to live with myself and stopped coping that another person would fix my problems.
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>>221864828
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>>221858569
you're automatically better than 99% of pinoy men as a foreign man in the ph
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>>221865728
Not really. None of my ancestors except my dad and I ever had any trouble getting an arranged marriage despite having typical Slavic cave troll physiognomies for generations (think Alexander III Romanov). Don't project the retarded hypergamous present onto the past, troglodyte trailer trash retard. Even 50 years ago it was easy for the average worker bee man to get married, now you have to have a six pack, six feet and six figures to get your foot through the door in the first world pretty much. Not as bad as that where I live, but it's still pretty bad.
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Is there any place left now that interpals is dead? It was the last site to talk to underage thirdies....
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DOCTOS
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>>221858927
True but there's also something to be said about a little persistence.
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>>221858569
>do you have any good starter tips for me you’ve picked up in your country?
Romance for women is 90% about fantasy fulfillment and 10% physical pleasure, you need to find whatever niche you might fill to whatever type a woman might have which comes naturally. If youre a /fit/ guy play it up, if youre a tech bro play it up, if youre into /out/ stuff play it up and try to find women interested in those scenes since they probably want to bang a guy based on whatever fantasy of that type of guy they have in their head. Also its better to be completely self confident, women can sense anxiety and desperation from a mile away, to the point where you dont even think about talking to a woman or have any fear of rejection whatsoever. Also in general if you have any of those issues fix them before you chase women or else its gonna be trouble for you in the end. Then take grooming / bathing standards seriously and dont yap a girls ear off about whatever autistic male fixation you might have, women like a guy who is passionate about things but they dont want to hear every detail about it.

Seems like a lot but these are the basics, the really complicated part is dealing with women in the longer term
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>>221859028
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>>221864828
Taking an old as fuck tiktok trend joke this seriously should be considered sign of mental illness
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>>221868848
You are an unfuckable kikebeast
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>>221864140
being in a relationship is like a personal version of the Cold War
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>>221868892
based
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>>221868338
>but there's also something to be said about a little persistence.
ok boomer
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>>221868892
>proves the "U.S with a vpn" right by posting his pic on unrelated threads to acuse random argie posters
Matate y grabalo schizo
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women cost way too much money, best to just drug her during the date and get it over with, though drugs can be quite costly as well and you need to make sure it's a trustworthy source you don't want her to overdose on fentanyl or anything, after all you're not a monster, plus it would be an enormous hassle getting rid of the body, not that you would get away with it in the first place that's a pipe dream and a half... best to just make sure you drug her the right amount
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>>221869659
GHB is relatively cheap
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>>221869846
hmm
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>>221869604
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>>221858569
Dating isn't a fucking hobby or something you 'get into'. Be social. Meet people. Eventually you'll find someone you like. You ask them out and accept their response.
Simple as.
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>>221870202
Can you just buy a rope already and get it over with
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>>221858569
Mid as fuck but I would
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>>221858927
True. Tradcucks always give the worst dating advice. They always say something retarded about how you need to improve yourself and how "the chase is half the fun" but never apply standards to women. They still hold women up on a pedestal because they want to conserve the feminist status quo. Traditionally the man is the prize, and the parents of the woman would be trying to convince the good man to accept their daughter by teaching her good manners and how to be a good wife.
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>>221870558
>Traditionally the man is the prize
No, men had to pay dowries for the bride's parents. Western norms were always gynocentric to some extent. The thing that makes trad/conservative advocates cucks is the fact that they're still upholding those values while failing to address the elephant in the room: women have agency now and they have by and large been the main culprit for the dismantlement of those societal courtships, not men.
They could successfully convert half of young men into becoming trad conservatives and the birth rate would probably get even lower because foids simply don't want any of that and won't adhere to it voluntarily, even if most of the male population miraculously became chad/chadlite.
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>>221870859
Dowries, at least in Europe, were paid by the woman's parents to the man to help set up the couple for financial success. The modern culture of men having to "chase" the woman and win her affections while nothing is expected of her is unnatural.
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>>221868848
Only a used up foid would get mad at being confronted with the truth like this. Post tits.
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Bump
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>>221870186
just sayin
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>>221858569
I just went around asking random women out and after like 20 tries it actually worked. I had never seen this women in my life before until the moment I thought they looked pretty and decided to ask them out. Yea it feels like shit doing so but it lessens as you do it more. You will literally never see the woman again in your life so no need to feel embarrassed.
Meeting people in 'hobbies' or whatever group or club is retarded and doesn't work and the people that give such advice are either lying, redditors or very good looking.
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>>221858655
Nguyen, nobody wants to watch you abuse your daughter on Cam. Find a better way to make a living.
We like Pear shaped, mature women with life experience here
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>>221858569
women get wet from violence
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>>221873287
>We like Pear shaped, mature women with life experience here
lul
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>>221863127
>Wah wah chad can do this and that wah wah
Go sleep with chad then if he's always on your mind faggot
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>>221873334
How do you know?
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>>221871000
I just looked it up and you're right. My original understanding of dowries was probably scooped from a feminist revisionist source.
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I asked a woman for either her number or insta. She gave me her number instead. I should’ve gotten both, right?
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>>221858569
>25 year old virgin
>women are a hole
>cold approaching
>pick up artists
Take a good look at a pua 'lecture' and compare yourself with the presenter and with the average audience member. which one are you more like?
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>>221876144
it's basic knowledge if you are not a virgin.
this is why they love to get into arguments and gaslight you so you get mad and start screaming, it get's them wet
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>>221861453
why are you even talking about your virginity dumbass
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>>221879312
A lot of cultures did dowrys the other way as well
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>>221858569
Do not mention you're a virgin thats for sure
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>>221858569
If I manage to nofap until next week I will see a prostitute
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>>221879312
You might be getting a dowry getting a dowry mixed up with a dower.

Dowry = woman's family gives husband money and resources

Dower = Widow is entitled to some percentage of her husbands wealth if he dies so that she isn't living on the streets

I think some clannish societies do it the other way like in Africa and some Islamic regions where the man has to pay the woman or her family, but western Europe did dowries.

tl;dr feminists like to nitpick examples from other cultures to serve their narrative. Historically in the west it was the women and her parents who had to chase the man to find her a good husband. The modern culture of men being expected to chase women is unnatural.



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