Maybe zoomers arent that bad after all...
>>221897959They meant to say shockingly low number
>>221897959misleading headline it says 20% spank their kids and the shocking part is supposed to be that so many are still doing it however it's significantly less than gen x (40%)
>gen z parentshow?? were these teen parents?
>>221898024Most zoomers are in their 20s
>>221898024im 34 and im like 2-3 years away from the zoomer cutoff, zoomers are getting old nigga
>>221897959Lack of beatings is how you get unruly teens
>>221897959>Gen Z parents>tfw (late) millenial and gfless>>221898024Gen Z is like 1997 and up? I think official Millenial cut off is 95. 96 is well, forgotten.
>>221898024unc-san...
>>221898024Zoomers are 18-30
>>221898024holy fucking oldfag
>>221897959This just means most people ignored the advice that spanking is evil
It's the latinx
>>221897959Women in yoga pants make me hard
>>221898024I'm turning 30 next year big dawg
>>221898365Same
>>221898024I am 25 my chigga
>>221898024I was born in the later half of Gen Z and I'm turning 19 this year nigga, the majority of us are 20+
>>221898439absolute state of this fucking board
>>221898010Nigga they are turning 30. They are turning into uncs next year.
>>221898326Yeah, the advice that turned whole generations into useless fags
>>221898326>spanking is evilfaggot
>>221898050No you don't. I was never beaten because I was not a monkey. I had a lot of classmates that acted like retarded monkeys regardless of being beaten.They'd probably be the same if they were not beaten. Behaviour of a kid depends on many things. Truth is low IQ parents make retarded kids and bad decisions.
>the 28 year old zoomer
Beatings are for natural slaves, if you consider your child a rational intelligent being you would discipline them through dialogue
>>221898024im.29 and gen z lol
>>221899890This is weird to me. My brother is also 29 and he's not a zoomer in any way, shape or form.
>>221899918i also dont act like a zoomer and feel more like a millenial but my official classification is indeed gen z
>>221899937He is from 1996 though maybe you are 1997. I wonder if things like flossing, Fortnite and not being able to look someone in the eye are core childhood memories of yours?
>>221899918These Generational things don't work. It's very retarded system. Especially if you compare people from different countries.
>>221898024>how??sex
I say this as a father, hitting children is degenerate behaviour. It indicates a parent who has poor control over their emotions, and an inability to control their kids with basic discipline.
>>221899980Most people in the world are parents, your opinion is worthless.
>>221899956i have autism and have issues with eye contact because i never know the right amountno fortnight came out when i was 20 and i never played iti am 1997 yes>>221899980goodmy parents not only beat me byt verbally fucked me up and mocked me and did everything to make sure adult me blocks them while juggling cptsd
>>221899862Kill me
>>221899980I agree but I leave a small exception for some extremely retarded behaviour. Good environment and parenting are everything, but kids are still kids, and they might do something very stupid or dangerous and something more than words and basic disciplinary measures might be required in this case.
nope im 24 and ive never been hit by my parentsviolence against child can never be justified for any reasonhowever if they do something wrong parents must firmly point it out and teach them clearly what is right and wrong
>>221900015are you a parent?
>>221900201Thankfully no
>>221900039Pokemon Diamond playin' Cartoon Network watchin' Gameboy Advance SP havin' Yugioh card collectin' Yogos eatin' Beyblade spinnin' Bionicle buildin' Linkin Park listenin' Blockbuster movie rentin' ass nigga
>>221900238Then sit down while the adults talk
>>221900091Agreed. I think it's like with dogs, of you beat them all the time they become mentally ill psychos so you should do it only for very bad behaviour like randomly crossing the road or escaping so that they understand that's the red line
>>221900308As an adult I believe I should be an expert on subjects pertaining to adults, no?Do you see what I mean?
>>221899980I kinda agree but I've also seen entitled spoiled little pieces of shits causing chaos while the parents are busy being mindless zombies glued to their phones
>>221897959>Gen Z parentslulwut
>>221900309I was thinking along the lines of maybe your kid hurting another kid. We are not always good pelple all the time either. It is stupid to expect a child to always be good. Obviously, like you said not all the time, even raising a voice and a slap is enough.Because imagine your kid hurting someone else or doing something very stupid and you're like "Ummm that's bad". I don't recall I have done anything like that but you never know.
>>221900350That just proves his point.
>>221900362We're in our 20s, some approaching 30
>>221899956My siblings are 27 and 29 and they're definitely millennials. I'm 22 and very different from them
>>221898024I'm right on the millenial/zoomed boundary and turning 30 in August
>>221898024wakey-wakeyZoomers are like 30 now, kurojin-san
>>221897959Creating sociopaths is desirable?
>>221899814This
>>221898024oh nononono
For some reason retards think "physical punishment" means beating the shit out of your kid with a leather belt for refusing to eat his broccoli, when the absolute furthest 99% of parents go is maybe a light slap in the back of the head or a spank in the butt.
>>221905249>when the absolute furthest 99% of parents go is maybe a light slap in the back of the head or a spank in the butt.Most parents don't even try to conciously parent well, out of those that devote time and thought to their children, yes, 99% go with a light slap or raising the voice.I can only speak for this country of course, Serbs have rowdy nature and if you add bad parenting on top of it you get kids that do not respect authority and do not behave well, and you can imagine where the state of the country when you have modern laws promoting individuality and freedom of children to do whatever they wish leads to.
>>221899980>and an inability to control their kids with basic discipline.Basically this, they struggle to realise that their child isnt them
>>221905249My dad punched me and my mum used to drive the care with ear plugs in so she wouldnt have to listen to me
>>221899980i wasnt controllable with basic discipline
>>221897959Feels like that south park episode where the stereotypical gay guy slaps his jock son.
>>221897959Spanking your kids only makes their behaviour worse, this has been shown in every study.
>>221906966Spanking other people's kids makes them behave tho.
>>221899980Its pretty obvious physical violence is just shit parentingNeglect 90% of the childhood and then lash out at them"Parents" that wont put in the effort should be forgotten by their children asap
>>221906746>my mom was to busy sucking bbc so she had to punch me to teach me
>>221897959Yeah I mean I think it should be saved as a last resort but it's obvious that kids need some form of discipline that isn't just verbal at times, I have a few normalfag friends from work who don't believe in any form of corporal punishment for their kids and they are just completely walked over by their own fucking toddlers, if they feel like breaking something or throwing a fit they just do it because there's no repercussions other than their parents very slightly raising their voice and trying to explain why it's bad as the kid is already on to the next thing not listening because there's never anything to back it up
>>221899980>I say this as a father
Are you allowed to restrain a violent child or would that also make them more violent?
>>221907587You're allowed to but only if you sob in your hands afterwards while saying "I'm a horrible parent" to display that you are not proud of that action
>>221907437Correct. But at that point, are we talking about parenting principles or inadequacy of the parent's personal character, a much bigger problem.And not every consequence needs to be a slap. Maybe he won't get to go out to play football, get to play some games or get to do whatever he enjoys to teach him a lesson. This should always be employed to foster good behaviour but along with verbal lessons so he doesn't operate like a Pavlov's dog and make good behaviour occur from his own thought.
>>221897959spanking your kid is not bad, when its being a little shitmy parents never lifted a finger at me and sometimes i wish they didi probably wouldnt have ended up here, if they did
>>221898024Skeletonennials on suicide watch
>>221899918People falling in between or on the edge are sometimes called zillenials. I fall on the upper zoomer range and could be called a zillenial, but I definitely identify with zoomers more.
>>221900091This is where I fall. As a new father, I plan to do everything I can to set my kid up for success before negative discipline. Then I’ll do everything I can before spanking, but some kids just need it at some point. I would never beat though. Beating like niggers do with shoes and spoons and objects is wrong. You shouldn’t have to go that far if you’ve been raising them correctly.
There is no reason to ever spank your child. All the pediatricians say that spanking hurts the child.
>>221899862>>221900039>>221900240
>>221908511Pediatricians also say you should cut the tip of your dick off. I don’t give a fuck what someone says just because they have a job title (especially in a civilization where those titles are becoming meaningless accolades and not reflective of any competence).
>>221898439I went with family on a trip to Six Flags a couple of years back. The amount of Zoomers in packs of broccoli hair and bell bottom jeans running around was staggering to see. Or is that a gen Alpha thing?
>>221898348Really? I have seldom encountered this opinion.
>>221907441kwabian go back to /med/
>>221897959Are they white? A "shocking number" of Millennials and Gen Z are also increasingly not white.
>>221899980There's a big difference between randomly beating up your kids and using corporal punishment of a specific kind, for a specific purpose. It should be dispassionate and in most cases it is, at least for Westerners doing it. One might agree with you in principle but in the real world the sort of person who does corporal punishment as a disciplinary method, or considers it a valid method even if they don't use it, is more successful than those who decry it. Doubtfully because of the method, more so because this difference in opinion is part of a bigger difference in the family's approach and character.
>>221909580>the sort of person who does corporal punishment as a disciplinary method, or considers it a valid method even if they don't use it, is more successful than those who decry it.[citation needed]
>>221897959Because 50% of Gen Z are latinx
>>221908477It's a clear cut issue it seems, a lot of reasonable people here agree.>You shouldn’t have to go that far if you’ve been raising them correctly.Yeah but children are curious and teens are rowdy. Now that I recall, although I was a normal kid I was at one point vandalising (just spray painting our names, it washed away in rain anyways) in order to fit into a group because nobody likes being friendless, although this was relatively innocent considering what people do if I found out my kid did this I'd probably give a stern word. I was doing well in school and went to extra classes, I trained, I didn't give them a reason to be pissed at me but I still did some dumb things, and maybe I could have done even dumber things by chance or if it got presented to me.I don't think your kids can avoid stupid shit even if you raise them well, so when that happens you're being there for them when you discipline them in any way you deem appropriate. Because even when you are being stern, your goal should be empowering your kid to be a better man, not to coddle yourself or him.
>>221909744Anyways yes nobody needs to be beaten.
>>221905249Maybe in Europe but it was totally normal to beat the shit out of your children in the US until about 1995. Like closed hand punches to the face. Kids would show up at school with black eyes and you'd know not to ask any questions lol. American parents hate their children and want them to die because they stopped them from being a whore or doing drugs, which is what they really want to do.
>>221909720african/indian*
>>221909973Not in America
>>221900091The thing a lot of people do not understand about children is that they lack experience. Morality is taught because a lot of our morality is reinforced with fear of consequences. You need to teach them that those consequences exist before they do something deemed unforgivable or straight up suicidal.
>>221909995Doesn't matter, jeets are settling everywhere. We don't have many indian either, YET. That's the thing, they're coming. God us help us all
>>221898024it do be like that takeshi, we old guys now
>>221897959The solution is to have someone your kid doesn't know to beat them. That way the kid will learn that they possibility of them getting jumped when they do something bad will happen, and they will behave accordingly.
What if you make a budget for your child and discipline them with income? I wish my parents did that so I would learn the importance of money in life and how to manage it early on.
