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Why don't you still have a nice girlfriend at the age of social media in your country?

It has never been this easy to meet and date a girl before in history.
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>>222046246
Why don’t you?
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Don’t need social media when there’s the gym
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I’m 5’5”
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>>222046408
Only weirdos approach girls at gym
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>>222046246
How the hell do you randomly start a conversation with someone using social media? What is this, 2006?
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>>222046246
/int/ is my girlfriend
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>>222047457
You add someone and start talking?
>>222046418
If you think being short prevents you from talking to women then how did your dad do it?
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damn thats a big forehead
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>>222046246
who is this BBC cum slut
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>>222047558
>Hi, how are you?
She gets 1000s of these a day, good luck.
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>>222046246
Because social media ruined intersex relations
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You would need to be normal, have social media precense, balls to actually message someone, looks to standout, the list goes on.
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>>222047616
The correct strategy is to bait them with controversial/funny/whatever reels, so *they* are the ones who come and talk to you
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>>222047666
>just jestermaxx bro
thanks, betafag
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>>222047616
>>222047629
You have no idea how lonely women actually are. They just don't mind it that much unlike men.
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>>222047742
>women
>lonely
kek lol lmao
ywnbaw
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>>222047742
ywnbaw
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>>222047742
someone will save or not idc
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>>222047742
not true, a lot more men die childless than women.
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>>222046246
>It has never been this easy to meet and date a girl before in history.
It has never been harder. Everyone is a shut-in now, you idiot. Dating apps stink worse than dumpster juice as well. the only sure way to meet women is at work or school and yet those are also the times when having distractions like that gets in your way more than it makes things easier.

>>222047435
only jeets approach women on social media, are you serious? brown roach
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>>222047742
they get messages constantly from men
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>>222047731
You still don’t understand, you must absolutely never give a fuck about them, and you must:

>NOT engage with them
>NOT think about them while doing your reels (reels are for your bros)
>NOT follow them while they follow you
>NOT like any of their stuff, NOT visit their profile, NOT remember their name
>NOT even answer to them most of the time
>if you do answer, NOT follow through

You bait them and you DON’T give them what they want. Then you’re going to have plenty of bitches messaging you, and you choose maybe 1 girl out of 20 sometimes. But 0 out of 20 is fine too.
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>>222047836
Idk I've met my current boyfriend through instagram. You're either a raging incel who have never tried it or the things work different in US (but I still don't think so).
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>>222047966
>don’t engage with them bro
>engages with them
truly a clown
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>>222047742
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>>222046246
There is only 1 (one) foid i want and she is being ridiculous and leading me on and then making sure i'm jealous then accusing me of leading her on, women are insane and impossible to deal with.
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>>222047760
>>222047834
>>222047949
You actually have no idea how serious the female loneliness epidemic is. If there is a male version of that sure there will be female version too since you know opposite genders have to match each other and stuff. Use your brains guys don't be stupid.
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>>222047742
Lmao, why are roaches this dumb?
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>>222048005
its just different for me. I don't add people I don't know on social media and reach out to them to hang out, or maybe that wasn't your situation, idk. sure, i've used instagram chat to set up times to hang out with people i know.
im not an incel, im honestly a manwhore at this point. but my problem is honestly i dont know how to have a relationship, i only know how to hookup
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This turned out to be excellent bait
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>>222048105
nigga, you have a penis
stfu
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>>222048105
Compared to the male loneliness epidemic it isn't at all serious.
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>>222048027
Don’t engage = never ever be the one who messages them first, or who performs any spontaneous action in their favor (liking, following, etc.).

Responding in person must be rare and is only granted to those who really deserve this favor. And favors can be canceled anytime.
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>>222048233
>dude don’t message first
>just message them first, but you gotta make sure it’s da reels o algo
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>>222048120
You're talking to a brown man pretending to be a femoid.
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>>222048299
fucking iphone fuck im drunk here’s what i wanted to post
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>>222048105
ok buddy stop watching so much shoe0nhead
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>>222047435
Who says I approach them? Relationships often begin with the most banal innocuous interactions that may or may not naturally escalate if there’s mutual interest. Like smalltalk leading to longer conversations leading to a casual date. Just be normal about it.

Too much bullshit and games online. Ain’t got time for that shit. I’m not everyone’s cup of tea anyway and I’m fine with that.
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>>222048143
I'm an actual woman how do I prove it?
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>>222048352
post vagoo with timestamp
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>>222048352
Tits or GTFO
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>>222048349
>Like smalltalk leading to longer conversations
Yeah that's called approaching you retard
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>>222048299
I gave you the only winning strategy online, I don’t care if you agree or not. This is how women are. You can choose to ignore it, call me a clown (I don’t care, I am nobody), but it won’t change the basic reality.

Obviously everything I wrote applies irl too, the best strategy is to be remarkable and mog women, then let them come to you while remaining very hard to catch. The other strategies (being the one who engages persistently, trying your luck, etc.) work much better irl compared to online, but they’re not the best.
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>>222048352
say something in turkish in a vocaroo
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>>222048543
I couldn’t care less about how much pussy you get, Mr Fuckboy. Your advice is self-contradictory.
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What reels do you send to women?
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>>222048581
You're talking to a morocan incel, dont bother
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>>222046246
>Hegel
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>>222048589
video of 2 cats cuddling, purring and sleeping together with the text "us"
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>>222048700
where do you find them?
i only watch reels to see what other people are watching, or if they are included in a real ig post.
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>>222048686
Continental philosophy and postmodern lit are catnip for twentysomething arthoes
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>>222048105
4chuds are clowning on you but you're right
do you faggots never ask yourselves why barely legal chicks end up falling for old men?
because outside the vapid attention seeking sphere most women are actually huge pussies who would die if they had to make the first move, and older men stopped giving a shit
using myself as an example, i sometimes look up tiktoks or instagram reels about women complaining about not being in a relationship/being kissless virgins
obviously I never message the authors, but I go to the commenters who say "me too" and make a move on them with a long cute bs message
usually it doesn't go anywhere (i have become pickier and only go for the hotter ones now), but when it does, im filling an overly clingy chick's guts within a month
pussy's out there for the taking, you just have to not be a pussy about it
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>>222048426
Is it approaching if two people just happen to be near each other? You’ve never struck up some spontaneous utterly inconsequential chitchat with a total stranger in your life?
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>>222048581
>Your advice is self-contradictory
Yes, welcome to the wonderful world of women. But I’m sure you’ll find a way to understand when you’re finally sober again.

>>222048662
>morocan incel
The famous Moroccan incel who posts on /int/ with a Luxembourg flag.
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>>222046246
I have an extremely high power level, women run away in fear when I approach them or talk to them on the internet
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>>222048898
>I think like a woman
thanks, bro, really solid advice
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>>222046307
Crickets from op for this post
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>>222048965
And yet I’m right.

The other way is to do what >>222048812 does, and it may work here and there, but as he’s admitting himself:

>usually it doesn't go anywhere
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>>222049059
Contradictory statements are neither right nor wrong, they’re just logically unsound.
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>>222049059
>usually it doesn't go anywhere
of course it doesn't, you have to shotgun it
hitting the correct woman is pure chance
you have to treat it the exact same way you treat job applications
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why dont you shut the fuck up huh? how about that
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>>222046246
I don't use social media and never have except 4chan.
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>>222047742
women loneliness isnt even remotely similar to male loneliness
they may take it worse but its not comparable
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>>222048812
Interesting tactic. I assume this requires you to build a good ig/tiktok profile with content and more than a few followers
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>>222049086
>logic
>women
Good luck with that, Herr Ordnung.

My "instructions" are sound and clear though. It’s just the playbook of the luxury market ("we sell this Birkin bag but you can’t buy it at all, even if you have the money lol"). But IQ > 110 is needed to make it work.

>>222049125
I agree, it’s just a numbers’ game in your case. Basically, it’s like in business, you have two ways of become more successful: by improving your offer (what I’m advocating for) or by increasing your traffic (cold messaging new prospects, like you do). Both approaches are functional, but the "traffic" strategy is too much work for too few results when it’s online, IMO, because you’re often competing with 150 thirsty guys for the same girl. But if it’s your niche, why not?
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>>222049614
Are women in the thread with us right now? You still don’t get what I’m talking about, do you, smoothbrain?
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>this thread
Lmao
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>>222049235
nope, I don't even have my face in those
you just gotta have an account that is at least a few months old and have a few posts about shit you like so it's not an empty page (can be as mundane as food), so there's no clout excuse
the problem is many people try and give up on the first try, consistency is key
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>>222048686
>>222048745
Bros... I recently got into reading that book and there is not a single snowballs in hell anyone ever made sense of that shit without reading Plato, Aristotle and then some Aristotelian philosphy. Literally not a single chance in hell. People nowadays buy physical books to put them on bookshelves and pretend as if they read them which they don't
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>>222047457
This. Indians and Arabs don't understand that dming strangers on social media stopped like 5+ years ago. It doesn't work.

Also
>social media
>nice girl
Pick one. If she has any pictures of herself on social media, she is going to be vain. Just the way it is. Honestly wouldnt bother dating these days unless it is to get married.
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>>222047742
Your thinking and logic is why everyone had "no turks" on interpals.

I really like Turkish culture and people, but this is indian tier cope.
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>>222046246
1. I am fat
2. I am autistic
3. I am lazy
4. I am stupid
5. I am afraid of responsibility
6. I am afraid of affection
7. I am unworthy of love
8. I deserve to die alone
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>>222050028
even a few weeks works, it's just that accounts too new get ignored
>>222049614
>because you’re often competing with 150 thirsty guys
nah, since I go for the commenters (as opposed to the posters), I rarely have competition (unless you count horny jeets)
i get a decent reply ratio (IF sending a large message), my problem is that many women are drier than the sahara and i end up losing interest in them
or viceversa, since i dont like normalfag shit like going out all the time
i prefer the weirder girls
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>>222050108
I am all of those things but 8 and got a wife.

No one is 8 anon. There is a girl who doesn't deserve to die alone either. Find her. Just don't look on social media.
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>>222046246
i hate women
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>>222050121
Y luego te despiertas y está la cama mojada
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>>222050192
dont knock it til you try it
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>>222046246
its called being a chud my mustachio'd friend
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>>222049636
You’re not intelligent enough to understand, it’s okay. Others will get it. I wish you the best anyway.

>>222050121
Do you send a full custom message every time, or is it the same template? In my experience, when I did the "cold messaging" strategy, mid-length messages (like 8 or 10 lines) worked better than very long or very short ones. Then I sent longer messages if the girl was receptive to that format. But… too much work for too many disappointments, frankly.
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>>222046246
im ugly and poor
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I feel like women would prefer a man that's not actively on social media at this point because I've noticed much of the cheating drama starts with girls creeping on guys in social media dms and not the other way around. At least for young people.

The ideal is to have an account with a few normalfag pictures that sits idle and is never used, they might sign up like once every six months to upload new photos of them at a party or buying a house. Which is what the most successful people I know do lol.

This isn't 2009 anymore, being a social media addict isn't cool and vogue.
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>>222050719
>much of the cheating drama starts with girls creeping on guys in social media dms

You mean women sliding into dudes’ DMs? You don’t think that works the other way too, that guys might be suspicious of dating a girl who’s really into social media, possibly cruising for a hookup?
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>>222050719
Social media has stopped being cool a long time ago, now you have to be a beacon of coolness in a cesspool (always on top of the trends, with a profile always full of life, interesting, updated everyday) or focus on the real world (one post per year because you don’t care).

The problem with the latter option is how it makes you stop existing for a large number of people. If you’re not on their screen, you’re simply dead to them. No one will reach out, and the rest of the world just moves on without you. That’s a very isolating experience, and you have to be extremely successful irl to compensate.
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>>222046246
You make this thread again and again, when every reply here can be summed up with one or more of the following
>too short
>too ugly
>too fat
>too awkward
>not interested
What is it that you don't get?
>>222047742
Reminds me of a Reddit post that went something like "girls get friendzoned too, only girl sleep with their friends" or something to that effect. Of course women feel loneliness, but they feel those feelings while still having people to talk to in their life. A lonely man might unironically go years and not thave a serious conversation with anyone. It's a different ball game entirely.
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>>222046246
I have a very high body fat percentage.
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>>222051131
Right, but 99.9% of these people around women are:

>men who just want to fuck them
>the most untrustworthy and hypocritical bitches ever

It’s a hard cold loneliness for males vs. a fake and poisonous atmosphere for females
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>>222048729
idk, just look up "cute cat videos relationship goals" or something
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>>222048005
>>>/lgbt/
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>>222051317
Truke, my BMI is 27
It never even started for us thanks to our parents fostering a shitty relationship with food from the start
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>>222051743
They can literally choose not to associate with these people and choose somebody calm and friendly, they just don't care about what they claim to care about lmao
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>>222046246
This dude is getting his dick sucked after reading Hegel, his brain must be mush
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i have bad social anxiety, even online.
4chan is legitimately the only place i feel comfortable interacting with people.
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>>222051743
>fake poisonous atmosphere
You make friends with people who are like you in some way. They're probably like that themselves and they don't realize.
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dunno
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>>222052163
Kinda the same, except for being anxious around people, I'm just sightly akward to talk to, but the problem is not that or looks, is that I don't stick anywhere, I'm a bore of a person and yes I'm 25. The only way of me getting a gf is meeting those kind of yandere/stalker type of girl, which it seems like is kinda happening already, I say this because of this teenage girl who keeps doing things like that. Anyways I need to quit this place and just stick to listening to audio books or creepypastas.
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>>222052129
Hegel is the infinite jest of philosophers, it's for performative niggas on the NYC or DC subway to pretend to read
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>>222046418
Same
>>222047558
>If you think being short prevents you from talking to women then how did your dad do it?
My dad is 5'9" so basically average. My mom is 4'10" so
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Because money is 10x harder to come by and looks are 10x more important
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>>222046246
Are there bunch of girls who just want to have sex like me? then interesting
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>>222052779
>be me, an ugly-ass rapper with $272 in the bank
>fuck all the hoes



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