Almost 32, still a khv. Does this happen in your country? Feels like it’s common or im alone in this. No I’m not autistic, just poor and skinny fat. No I won’t lose weight, I have a thyroid condition and my weight always stays static. 5’11 - 88 kilos. No I won’t get a prostitute.
>>222199939Same but fit. Doesnt make a difference desu.
>>222200723same except a couple years younger.just kind of a social retard and didn't make experiences like others in adolescence.
>>222200795not rly your fault probably. there's been a massive loss of community and social ties all around the world. it used to be that you were more or less going to be socially ingrained by necessity and it wasn't really practically possible to be an outcast.
I’m was always an autistic giga loner
>>222199939Yeah, it sadly happens in my country too. Thankfully not for me
>>222201022my peers had some success. Yes I think there are societal problems definitely but personal responsibility (getting off your ass and doing things) + simple luck (attractiveness, family, situations) plays into it too. whatever, my life isn't that bad, just a bit lonely.
>>222199939>>222200723The #1 factor in getting laid is your social skills and how many friends you have and how often you socialize.Doesn't matter how good your product is if you don't know how to sell it.There are literal FAT NECKBEARDS with girlfriends and even wives, and tall and handsome millionaires that can't get a bitch to save their lives.There are fat and short goblino mutts getting laid left and right too.This is why I always laugh at blackpillers and people who think looks are the end-all-be-all. It's a skill issue, always.Try to deny it, accuse me of "coping". I don't care, I know it's true.
>>222201144trvkebeing an incel is ALWAYS a symptom of simply not having a meaningful social circle/community. basically everyone who is well integrated socially winds up in a relationship sooner or later
>>222201198>>222201144t. average to good looking normalfag retardsthe only things that matter are looks, physical strength and social status, in that exact order, with each being 10x more important than the nextif you're ugly, genetically predisposed to not building muscle easily and/or very short, and not a multi-millionaire or billionaire with an established circle of flunkies to glaze you, you will not get laid.the reason you think otherwise is that you're physically attractive enough to stumble into sex despite not understanding the dynamics at play
>>222201144>FAT NECKBEARDSand you don't get that this doesn't matter at all. women are wired to examine your genes not your style. if you have good muscle under the fat and good facial bone structure being fat doesn't matter
>>222201333>>222201363Skill issue.
>>222201333The only things that matter are looks, height and athleticismA tinder date confirmed me this
>>222201333sure you realize this is retarded and most people statistically get married eventually>>222201559>a tinder datenigga stop using tinder
>>222201559I got laid through dating apps despite being average in looks, below average in height and not very athletic.Skill issue.Your problem is that you listen to what stupid women, that don't know what they even want, say instead of watching their actions.Women's words and opinions are literally worthless. It's like listening to a 10-year-old child saying he wants to be an astronaut and president.
>>222201656She literally swiped left on men who didnt list their heightOr who were below 6ftAlso she is hot and from a conservative family, in theory I could easily have a triple digit bodycount if I banged fatties
>>222201363Dumbest shit I read today
>>222201842So? That's your experience with one singular woman. There are literal MILLIONS of women out there and dozens of different ways to meet new women.Lookism is a cope for laziness and cowardice. It's much easier to claim the game is rigged and not worth it than to put the effort in.
>>222201440no Im ugly and weak>>222201650most people but not all. there has always been an underclass of unmarriagable men. lots of women end up having kids as some guy's side piece or second wife and this has always been the case.
>>222201656>being average in looksand that puts you ahead of every incel on the planet you obtuse retard. incels are first and foremost ugly. since you aren't ugly you have no relevant experience or expertise to share.
>>222201950CopeI match with girls like this
>>222201144BullshitI have 0 (zero) friend and still I manage to get laid and get into my current relationship
>>222202058My social circle is mainly women yet I still rather use tinder kek
>>222202020Matches don't mean much. They're a product of you being able to take good pictures and dressing well. (Which is a skill, bTw)What matters is how many you manage to meet IRL and how many end up in sex/relationships.Both are heavily skill-dependent.>>222202058I got laid while having (mostly) zero friends too. Looks can make up for a lot but social skills are still a major part of it.
>>222201656Post your dead average pictures then, Chad
>>222201650> most people statistically get married eventuallyBecause the woman ends up settling down in her 30s
>>222199939>>222200723I am fatfat (bmi of 29) and unemployed. I am married and have a kid on the way tho.I think I am pleasant. Try being pleasant.
>>222201022This is 100% not true rofl. If you struggle now, do you really believe you would have thrived socially in the early 1900s?Just 20 years ago people will tell there kids to get married or work a job so they don't end up like a deadbeat loser, and this was a universal right of passage. Now it js more acceptable than ever to be whatever you want.
>>222202894>Just 20 years ago people will tell there kids to get married or work a job so they don't end up like a deadbeat loser, and this was a universal right of passage. >Now it js more acceptable than ever to be whatever you want.Even 10 years ago there still was a lot of social pressure to get married and have kids.Zoomers today don't know it, but for milennials there still was a lot of social pressure to get enslaved (married) to a woman.This is why movements like MGTOW arose back then. They weren't "cope" as they call them today. They were a necessity to warn men of how awful and exploitative marriage is for them.>>222202766I'm not a "Chad". I'm just a guy that read enough (good) dating advice to be able to hack his way into getting laid despite being average in looks.I've been friends with fat brown goblino mutts that also get laid because they are not terminally online and have some self respect.My pictures weren't even that good. Some guys literally pay a professional photographer to take pics of him for tinder and other apps.Just dress well, groom your hair and so on and take good pictures outside. You can ask a friend to accompany you and help, him do the same as well.This isn't some rare esoteric knowledge by the way, girls literally do this by default. For every "good" picture they post in social media or dating apps they'll discard 20-50 others that don't look as good.
>>222201144>The #1 factor in getting laid is your social skills and how many friends you have and how often you socialize.This is a truthnukeMy twin brother has sex all the time and tons of friends, while i've never seen a vagina and am scared of women.Looks are only one part of the equation
>>222201363Women are wired to examine your social ability, not the latest clavicular podcast you listened to
>>222203170Hey, at least you're self-aware and honest enough to admit it. Unlike these retard blackpillers.What happened for you to end up like this? Do you feel uneasy around people? Some sort of trauma or something?
>>222201144Spain is a siesta country where people dance a lot in other words it’s a warm culture as opposed to the cold autistic culture of the anglosphere. I should’ve been a criminal when I was younger, a violent young man but I was too cautious.
>>222203097I don't agree with your takes about marriage but I do agree the MGTOW era (early 2010s) really was the end of this societal pressure towards nuclear families for real. Prior to this it was token, but there was really was a shift in the 2010s towards a more individualistic life outcome. I tend to think it is tied to economics, and I think there will be a sharp shift back to the family dynamic as the economy continues to stagnate.
>>222202894like you had to interact with people in order to do anything previouslythere was no internet if you wanted to do any practical task you had to go somewhere and talk to people or call someone or otherwise interact with your communitypeople were also much more likely to try to greet and make friends and keep up with their neighbors and shit like thatnowadays you can work, shop, do your bills and chores all without ever leaving your bedroom, and even in situations where it was expected for you to interact before now it's socially acceptable not to. back in the old days you had to deliberately go out of your way and make a serious effort in order to be a loner, it's only VERY recently that you have to make an effort to not be one>Just 20 years ago people will tell there kids to get married or work a job so they don't end up like a deadbeat loseryou can be a loser and still talk to people or you can make 6 figures while sitting a dark room alone all day
>>222203370Basic social skills are universally applicable and the most valuable skills you could possibly learn.
When I was in high school my brother was a genuine 10. So he stole all girls that liked me.
>>222203427Nigger, you just don’t go up to people and strike up a conversation. That’s common in med countries but considered rude and annoying here. Talking isn’t a skill unless you’re functioning autist.
>>222203387You are correct, but you would still be you (not you literally, but as the example in this context). You won't magically be more social/likeable just because you are in more forced social settings. It will be to your detriment if socialising is not your strength.These days you can be a shut-in autist as you say and get through life much easier. This extends to dating too. You don't even need to go out to meet people, just use an app or social media. What is true of both then and now, is you need stability (money). You don't really need the social side as much now as no one really socialises outside of work unless they are weird or desperate. It's a chore, not something people enjoy doing.
>>222203097>Zoomers today don't know it, but for milennials there still was a lot of social pressure to get enslaved (married) to a woman.kek
>>222203503If you're a white guy in Canada you would have an unbelievable amount of success but just being socially normal and striking up a conversation with an Indian girl. If you're an Indian guy trying to navigate social norms I'd feel bad for suggesting this but stop feeling sorry for yourself and take the advantages you've got
>>222201950Kek at anon spending his time here begging others to have sex. No i wont, and i wont have kids or a stake in society.
>>222203647That’s simply not how it works here at least in the big city. You just don’t randomly go up to people unless you are indeed some very handsome guy. You need a connection of sorts.
>>222201972Kek new narrative of what "has always been the case"?
>>222203700Go out of your way to find events where you interact with single people. I'm married myself but I was just at a workout class with a hot Jeeta I would've hit on if I wasn't. I'm sure group workout classes exist in your city
>>222203315I'm an insecure subhuman so i have no social life but i think i also just don't like people so i'm even more isolated. It is what it is.
>>222203759I’m not wasting my shekels on a gym.
>>222203759Why would you do such awful humiliating rituals if you are married lol?Couldn't imagine what type of crowd a "workout class" attracts. I can understand a PT or going to gym for health but ehhhh
>>222203808If your twin brother can do it, so can you. You can't even blame "genetics" because you have an identical copy of yourself succeeding.Take responsibility for your situation and find a way to get friends and a social life.Social skills are SKILLS. They are something that's LEARNED.There are plenty of books that teach this stuff if you can't figure out this stuff on your own.I believe in you bro, and wish you the best. Even though you're French :^)
>>222203759no you don't get it, what single men in 30s and late 20s want to do is keep doing what they have been doing and just pray on imageboards that the result will be different. There is no way any change in lifestyle will help
>>222203847Shit if you're anti-exercise and anti-social skills I don't know what to say. You could easily charm an Indian immigrant girl if you even bothered to try though
>>222203977Nigger I can beat your ass irl stfu yew
>>222203994Ok. But you won't.
>>222203967I’ll crush your lanky bad posture recessed jaw you smelly dutchmen
>>222203958Thanks i guess but as i said i don't really like people so i don't particularly care. I don't think i ever truly cared to make friends. Been like this for a decade and i don't feel strongly about it.
>>222203967OP posted himself as Yujiro and just lashed out and quit the thread as soon as two people told him to TRY at his life. Rather pathetic
>>222203958This spainish nigger is looking to hire american retail workers o algo.
>>222204541Wtf now that you wrote this the birth rate went up by 2 points! :OKek
>>222201022Social media has destroyed a lot. And yes OP in the exact same boat
>>222199939>khv>not khhvGtfo normie
>>22219993988 kilos at 5'11 (if not 5'9'' since most men lie about height / have never gotten properly measured) is fat as fuck
>>222206548Not lying. Yea I’m fat though. Not my fault I avoid slop and soda.
