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>>222388139Who the fuck, man or woman, WANTS to listen to somebody else vent? It's an objective inconvenience that you only put up with if it's someone you really care about.
>>222388179because I hope maybe their life is more fucked up than mine
>>222388195Jokes on you, by venting, they are releasing their stress and live happier than you.How does that make you feel?
>>222388179I'm searching for a human interaction every time I go out in public, venting fits that mold
>>222388222Miserable, actually! Thanks for asking!
>>222388222Horny
>>222388139the fish looks like meximutt o algo
>>222388139You CAN vent to women, they are good listeners unironically, the downside is that they will never be attracted to you ever again. Venting to a love interest means ruining your chance with her forever, venting to a partner is just giving her ammo for your next fight. This is a real thing, you can read stories on Reddit about people being happily married for years and the man tells about a single traumatic experience in his life and suddenly the woman just loses all attraction. Gambling your relationship on the off chance that your girl is one of the 0,0001% that actually care about their partner's mental health just isn't worth it. Venting to female coworkers, female friends and acquaintances that you either don't want to fuck or are already taken, your partner's girlfriends etc, that's a viable strategy. Once the sexual attraction is taken out of the equation they can even be quite sympathetic to your suffering. At least that's my experience.>>222388222Shared happiness is twice the happiness, shared sorrow is half the sorrow.
>>222388374Sounds like you have seen enough internet stories to see a common theme among women. They will hear you but wouldn't care or worse, take advantage of you. So you quit talking to women all together
Either millions of people are lying about things they never experienced or they live 24/7 around psychopathsI have never heard of women screwing a man over for venting every week for a year AND running out of money, let alone for venting once
>>222388846Must be different in thailand then
>>222388863Isn't your divorce rate lower than ours?
>>222388846>I suffer in Thailand
>>222388846dont tempt me to go and find a pure soul asian gf
>>222388922wtf are they doing in spain
>>222388139My gf told her friends I was very open with her. We had to do a 3 hour road trip ans they told me to "open up" to them and be vulnerable and I just told them a bunch of chuddy and sexist shit that annoys me and they got all butthurt. I think they thought she meant I was super emotional.
>>222389140cheating secret families
>>222388846only asian women have souls
>>222388139Women want men to vent to them so they know about their weaknesses and thus know how much their boyfriend is actually worth. If the guy turns out to be a loser, she will know, and so she'll break up with him. If he doesn't have much to say, then he's good.
>>222388374>>222388532>entire view of the world is based on reddit stories, 50% of which are made up. the other 50% are from the tiny sliver of weirdos that write reddit stories
People are over complicating this. Women aren't lying when they say they want men to vent to them because to a woman venting is catty gossip like bitching about a friend or coworker. It is NOT anything that involves sadness or insecurities.
all of you are retarded, women want a 10 or a 9 at most to vent to them. The fault is mostly you a sub5 retard expecting actual empathy from the world at large.
>>222391997>>222391997>>222391997
never vent to women, because they see it as a sign of weakness and they're utterly repulsed by it. also, they cannot for the love of god keep secrets, so revealing your most private thoughts to them is literally suicide, because they can and WILL use it against you . >>222391940fuck no, they view venting as you being insecure, which in turn makes them feel insecure as well and they'll leave you for a man whom they can rely on. this is why men only spaces exist, or to be precise, this is why they used to exist, because men venting to other men won't lead to their lives getting ruined.
i vent and cry infront of my wife like twice a week i've had a traumatic life and she's been with me through the most traumatic parts in adulthoodshe's been with me when i had less than nothingi simply can't accept this shit talk about women when my wife is this amazing
>>222392261>fuck no, they view venting as you being insecureRe-read my post again.
>>222392297cherry picking
>>222392318You could say this about anything in life, not just women>lol you're born rich? well I wasn't, what now fag
>>222392378as if i need any more reason to lump you lot in with the retards that i consider my own to be
>>222392302it's not harmless gossip to them, they're collecting dirt about you by letting you fume and drop minor details about some nasty or embarrassing shit you've done.>>222392297wait until she gets mad at you for some petty retarded shit, then reveals your most embarrassing secrets to everyone, just because you didn't remember her pet cat's birthday or forgot putting down the toilet seat.
>>222391856Its real though. Venting or showing emotions is a major ick for them even though they wont stop talking about how they find is sooo attractive
>>222392579there is a well known solution to this problem
>>222392378men rarely if ever do this shit to other men, let alone to women. if you entrust your secrets to a man, he'll keep them even if he doesn't really like you, because it would be a bitch move to spill the tea and his reputation as a trustworthy man would be ruined forever. meanwhile, being trustworthy isn't a high priority virtue among women, in fact they view females, who keep their mouths shut as cold & distant ice queens, so they keep encouraging other women to never be secretive about anything, which in turn leads to kitty fights among them, because they eventually reveal something that negatively affects someone in their group of friends.
I hate women
venting is feminine trait. real man just suck it up and release it via hard work either at the gym, art or build buildings.
when you think about it, domestic violence is venting
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>>222392789i don't generally feel the need to vent my emotions in this sense and am unlikely to do so. nevertheless if the girl I'm with is not the type to listen lovingly and affectionately she can fuck off
>>222392297Is your wife single? Asking for a friend.
>>222392297based wife
What even is "venting"? lmao just don't be a bitch you lot speak and think like women.
>>222392297german women seem a lot better than other white women. german girls were really nice when I was there a few years ago. I wonder what causes this
