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>girl obviously likes me
>is very obviously waiting for me to make a move
>think about how to make a move to not blow it
>go over my options
>mentally shitting myself because scared of ruining it
>moment passes
>she moves on
>I really wanted to make a move
>still think about it and beat myself up about it years later
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be glad you avoided prison
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>>223449505
>girl likes me
no
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>>223449505
>girl in the same room with me
How does one even get to this step?
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>>223449505
Just talk to them. Remember to turn off your brain and stop thinking
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>>223449505
she would have been a slut good thing you didnt
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I’m too low inhib for have blown chances through not acting, i just blow it by saying/doing retarded shit instead.

Anyway. Just be corny and say she seems sweet and that you want to hang out some time the next time this happens to you, it’s literally all she wants. What she’s used to is either aspies like you not acting or her getting sent pictures of cocks after a coffee date
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>>223449505
Happened to me with a coworker. She showed every sign you could throw at someone, the eye contact, the shyness around me all that. I told myself I'll regret never asking her and that it'll be easy, just ask if she wanted hangout, if not then say it's no problem and a walk away. Unfortunately I wasn't aware of social anxiety and assumed I was just shy. The moment I got in front of her my mind went blank, couldn't speak, couldn't stop stuttering, my heart was beating a million miles an hour, it was a disaster and she rejected me BUT she kept up with the signals, eye contact, parking near me, looking back after we've walked past each etc. what the hell was her problem? Why do I keep attracting emotionally unavailable women? Now I'm pissed. Moral of the story is never bother asking them out
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>>223449505
Literally me
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>>223449505
>girl obviously likes me
doesnt happen in my country
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>>223450660
she didnt actually like you
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>>223449850
This

I have no sympathy for people who had a chance but blew it
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>>223452028
Ehhh, her signals contradict that, but a rejection is definitive externally. Whether she was truly interested or not we'll never know.
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>>223449505
sometimes

girls ask weird questions about how they look all of a sudden, or they have bad or no reasons to but spend time near me, or just straight up ask me out or ask me what im doing on valentines day or etc. etc.

but i am an unloveable in(cel)side loser
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>>223449850
Fakecels will never understand us, anon
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>>223449505
>>still think about it and beat myself up about it years later
Not even saying this to bring you down even further, but she probably wasn't that into you so at least you avoided some major heartbreak. I don't think women get infatuated with men the way we do with them.



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