I just wanna go to a place i can hang where i just do nothing but yap to people. preferably to regulars like an actual community. the only place i ever found that was like this was an open gym that had classes but its literally over an hour away. rock climbing gyms are full of people that hang out by themselves. cafes are full of people with headphones. i tried all sorts of stuff to no avail. im thinking of unironically just starting a twitch channel or maybe discord server surfing.only place i havent tried is a bar. but i dont drink nor do i watch sports.
When I go to the train station somebody inevitably starts talking to me. Last time it was about Nikola Tesla and free energy
the beach
>>223466917i actually meant to post this in /adv/ kek
>>223466917You socialize with the friends you already made when you were younger. If you're above 25yo and friendless, you're fucked.
Go to a language-learning course.
>>223466995Are you speaking from experience?
>>223466917To bars with friendsOtherwise first find a venue to meet friends (hobbies, social events)
>>223467054Yup, most adults already have their social circle, and aren't really interested in getting new friends.The ones who are leftover usually are socially maladjusted, with whom in most cases you don't wanna be friend with.
>>223467054NTA but meeting friends in school is easy mode because you're around people your age all the timeI moved to another city to work and had to do it like this >>223467114Btw online friends dont count
>>223467020too expensive. plus the courses are usually dawg shiet. i learned more japanese teaching myself in 3 months than i did in a year of classes lmao.
>>223467123>>223467119Isn’t chile super social?
>>223467276not really
>>223467276KEK
I don't think there's a single place in my city where you can go and have normal conversations with strangers. At best you go to some sort of hobby club where people with the same interest meet at a set date but nobody goed to bars and cafes with the intention of speaking to people outside their groups anymore.
try a park or a church
>>223466917I see spoiler brats gathering at gas station and paying for every drink and meal double price doing everything not to be amongst plebs
