All you have to do is stop being a self sabotaging retard and your inceldom will end within weeks (iyc)
>>224806152In theory, in practice you are an anxious wreck and that also is affecting other parts of your life. Or very very ugly.
I can't self-sabotage because nobody talks to me to begin with
>>224806152>thirdieYou don't know what suffering is
>>224806152ugliness is not self-inflected
>>224806152the majority of incels are dysgenic abominations who won't benefit from not self sabotaging. being more confident and less anxious won't make women any less repulsed/icked by my other issues.
>>224806423Self sabotage, like cutting your hair short, wearing things 3 sizes bigger, being fat, just being a sloppy retard and doing the opposite of what normies do because you think you are above it
>>224806566ok, i was going off what the lithuanian anon said, but let me fix my post then:the majority of incels are dysgenic abominations who won't benefit from not self sabotaging. having a nice haircut, wearing clothes that fit, being in shape and overall taking care of myself (i'm more or less doing all of this already) won't make women any less repulsed/icked by my other issues.
Its the fault of women you spastic
It's crazy no one's ever thought of this before.
just change your whole personality bro
>>224806152I don't know how to stop self sabotaging. It's literally all I've ever known. I can still remember a very specific incident when I was in kindergarten and I was on the playground, I think it may have been the first day of school. There were some girls playing with a group of boys I vaguely knew, and I wanted to play with them because I wanted the girls to like me. In that moment I can remember thinking "I guess I don't deserve to have girls like me". I feel like this specific moment has followed me the rest of my life.25 years later and there's been a handful of moments in my life where through no action on my own part a girl/woman expressed romantic interest in me. Not just "I think she likes me", I mean outright asking for my number, asking what I was doing on the weekend, etc. In every single one of these scenarios I have self sabotaged in some form, either by pretending to be busy or just giving her the cold shoulder until she was no longer interested.I have no idea how to shake this idea that I'm not good enough for female companionship, and at this point of my life it's been a part of me for so long that it's virtually inseparable from my core identity as a person. I have manifested the idea of my self being a loser into a reality, I actually am a loser now.
>>224806152Yeah lemme just stop being autistic oh wait
>>224806152sure let me change into a completely different person
>>224806766>Not just "I think she likes me", I mean outright asking for my number, asking what I was doing on the weekend, etc.fakecels piss me off
>>224806750>>224806762Time running out will humble you
>>224806152theres no point in anything anymore.Get married or stay single, none of them make any difference to me, and you might want to argue a thing or two about sex, but sir: ejaculation is ejaculation, the methods are different, and your cock cant tell the difference between pussy and hand all right, so it doesnt matter anyway.Some random, kindhearted man could come to me, offering me his beautiful looking daughter hand for marriage tomorrow while giving me the financial stability, security in my entire life and i would politely decline his generous offer simply because i want and desire nothing anymore. Its all pointless, its all purposeless
>>224806818Where did I claim to be an incel? What I am is a nearly 30 year year old man who has never had sex, has never been in a relationship, and has never heard a woman say "I love you" because at every opportunity I've been given I've done something retarded to fuck it up. And now I'm at the age where women want nothing to do with a man who has no idea how to navigate a relationship.
>>224806152No, I live in a country where white men outearn the average local for 10 years worth of wages in a single week competing for pussy.
>>224806152Never because it's not true, inceldom is outside of your control and due to being a low genetic quality specimen>inb4 you just dont go outside enough!! I've probably been to more countries, more bars/clubs and done more drugs than 99% of this board
>>224807007Its a thread for incels, nobody gives a shit about your gay ass problems, get on grindr and suck a dick already lol
>>224807255>directly address the topic of the thread>nobody gives a shit about your gay ass problems
>>224807274you're not an incel doe you're just closeted, how are you addressing the subject
>>224806152That's true, it's about how much you're willing to spend to fix your parents Fuck ups
>>224806905We teach best what we most need to learn.
>>224806735Trvke
>>224806152I am too mentally ill to make it happen. I had chances in the past and did nothing. I have suicidal ideations on a daily basis >>224807299This too. Fucking retards got arranged marriaged and couldn't pass any useful down to their children.
>>224807396>chances in the past and did nothingYou're not an incel then
>>224806152What if instead being self-sabotage I'm unconcioulsy saving myself from falling from all the drama, anxiety and problems than being in a relationship invovles?
>>224807776those things only happen if you're a sub5
>>224806152inceldom is caused by being ugly"fixable" inceldom is called being a fakecel poser. all the normalfags here who are still young or don't have as much sex as they'd like and copy incel aesthetics are fakecels, you included.you can't claim trvecel status until 30.
>>224806762>personalitycompletely irrelevant, literally medically retarded fent zombies get laid all the time, fuck off stolen valor poser.
no such thing as incels, just mentally ill narcissistic cretins, spoiled brats who've never heard no, etc
>>224806916based budacel
>>224809641>spoiled brats who've never heard noi doubt that
>>224809641>who've never heard no,nigger all I've ever heard in my life is no. you have no clue what an incel even is because you don't actually read what we say, you imagine a strawman in your head and attack that.if you're ugly people just hate doing anything for you or being around you in any context whatsoever. even as a paying customer. you have to be quick and to the point and immediately justify your existence within 3 seconds of beginning the interaction with an aggressive sales pitch just to get a fucking info desk to tell you the way or something.
>>224806916I kneel
>>224806152you can't fight your own nature, unless you take heavy psychedelics that permanently alter your brainchemistry.https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=Af-k9sTAYEQ&pp=0gcJCSQMAYcqIYzv&ra=m
>>224806256Just stay lean and take care of your skin. Will instantly adds 5 points to your attractiveness score.
>>224810019women only care about genetically immutable things like facial bone structure, frame, natural testosterone production and heightthat or money/status, every woman is a prostitute, but the wealth or notoriety you gotta reach nowadays for a measurable SMV boost is not worth it.if you can "add 5 points" to your PSL then you were always a fakecel. incels are genetically capped sub 3
>>22480615218, then I chose to be volcel for a bit before fully committing at 23 and fucking a milf latina chick who was a bartender i got to know.
>>224806152Yeah, bro, I can plap an ugly whale, but it ain’t worth it. I’ll continue hunting for Moby Dick.
I am 27 years old and have genuinely never felt the urge to get a girlfriend, never had a crush, never felt ”left out” or whateverI will no doubt be ”incel” my whole life, having a gf just doesn’t interest me
When I studied as an exchange student in the US. I was flirted at by women for the first time in my fucking life. I realized I wasn't a complete uggo and its just the Philippines retarded Trad Austronesian-Cathcuck society that makes women behave like passive princesses. I could have easily had casual sexxo if I did not have a girlfriend back home already at the time. Americoids have such a sexually liberated culture in addition to women who will go out of their way to tell you that they like you. Anyone incel in America is absolutely intentionally going out of their way to be one because I can't imagine being so brainded as to not get laid in Mericastan.
>>224806152Not really, i muh groom, muh shave go to muh hobby groups and dress well. Never had a date or a girl be interested in le ever.
>>224810418This was me. I dont know what suddenly changedI wish i could go back to my history documentaries, military equipment, archaeogenetics and tradingThose were much simpler times
>>224810460only works if you're attractive
I would believe my inceldom is a skill issue and not fate if i wasnt bullied by girls and proto-chads when i was as early as 5.
>>224811149What happened when you were 5 has nothing to do with you today.
>>224814180Is that what uncle tells you to keep quiet?
no I'm just not interested in casual sex I'm sorry. also I won't lower my standards. problem?
>>224814180not true in the slightest. top tier humans get constant positive reinforcement since the moment they are born, which impacts their behavior, making them more confident and outgoing. the opposite is true for bottom of the barrel subhumans (i.e. incels), who get relentlessly abused by everyone, causing them to develop an ugly personality and therefore an ugly appearance. getting bullied at 5 will affect the way you act and interact with people at 6, which will have an impact on your personality and how others treat you when you are 7 and so on. it's a snowball that keeps getting bigger every year.
women are easy, keeping or getting a job that doesnt drain your soul is endgame
>>224810019based gook with the knowledge-bombs. If you are healthy, women will flock to you, as long as you aren't horribly disfigured. Women search for good breeding stock.
You live in third worldThere is no concept of incel in your country.
>>224806152Its caused by my stupid parents who seemed to think that their child having 0 friends and never going out is completely fine.
I am Indian. We are the bubonic plague to foids. You live in a third world country so of course you think it's all an act.
>>224810019so true fellow vietnamese man
>>224806152You can’t change the position of your facial features.A top surgeon in South Korea might be able to make it look better. But I don’t have the money.
