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can wh*te women compete internationally speaking?
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>>225033073
I’ve heard that Ukrainian and Polish women only care if you have a job, not what the job is.

And white women here mog in looks and personality.
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The concept of caring about white and filipinx women when you’re in Uruguay
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>>225033214
protip
OP is filipino in uruguay
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There's this saying among passport bros: "raise her up and pay the price".

Which basically means that all women will become the same bitchy, disrespectful and entitled women you fled from if you allow them to become financially independent from you.
A lot of White men go overseas and pick a foreign woman thinking she'll be less evil because she's from a "traditional" culture.
Then they proceed to pick some random woman from the slums, SIMP to her, give her every opportunity to become independent from them, then whine when they act exactly like the White women they fled from.

All women are the same in the end, if you're a SIMP, you will receive the SIMP treatment everywhere in the world you go.
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>>225033312
>protip
>OP is filipino using uruguay vpn
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>>225033317
>A lot of White men go overseas and pick a foreign woman
Ever thought about that maybe this white men are just that shit.
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>>225033383
Even richfags in the West get treated like garbage by women all the time.
Even if you're a young, handsome, tall billionaire women will still treat you like shit and dump you if they don't need you.
What makes women respect you is you having POWER over them, and them being hopelessly dependent on you.
All human relationship only last if people NEED each other. Not want, love, or like, but NEED each other.

As soon as you make it so she doesn't need you and she doesn't have to be grateful to you, it's the beginning of the end.
SIMPing is basically giving shit to women expecting nothing in return, then acting shocked when they stab you in the back.
It doesn't matter how perfect you are. You will never be perfect enough to secure long-term loyalty from a woman that doesn't NEED you.
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>>225033073
>>225034037
>demonizing flip girl looks
caucasian woman kwab
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>>225033214
Che nosotros lo pueblo uruguayo somos bláncos por fabor entienda
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>>225034037
Yeah, imagine having a bf that thinks and acts like you. Not even a flip woman can bear that. Simply a lost case.
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they cute tho
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>>225033073
Yeah, they're hotter
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>>225034517
Wholesome, total Filipina love and breeding
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>>225034037
Honestly I'd rather never fuck again.

The only point of the practice is love, if not for that you get what? A maid will clean for less than a wife, take out is cheaper than a wife, friends are better for hanging out anyway and if you need a shoulder to cry on there's therapists. For sex, prostitutes are cheaper and jerking it is free and at least you know/care what makes you feel good. If you want loyalty get a dog.
Either you're there for love and intimacy or the whole thing is just a very inefficient very messy approach to filling various wants or needs that you're perfectly capable of handling yourself.
It is my experience that they are incapable of anything approaching real love as well, but I've made the sensible decision to avoid them in response.
Building power dynamics to upkeep a hollow relationship is just a waste of time and energy to get dogshit results.
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>>225033073
No, they can't. Thank God I only l like swarthy women like Germans.
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>>225038015
very eastern philosophy
this is why russians are going extinct
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>>225033073
why does she have fangs?
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>>225040453
because she's a vampire
you know how russian soliders steal and rape when they invade their neighbors? filipino women are like that but with american sailors on shore leave. This is because america recognizes filipino family court alimony and child support, since the Philippines was a US territory. The Philippines is the only US territory to successfully exit the United States.
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>>225033073
>open Tinder
>zero likes and matches
>set location to Uganda or Phillipines
>dozens and dozens of matches
>set location to UK
>dozens and dozens of matches but they're all black
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>>225033073
not sure if this is the case. i have a friend who has a filipina wife. he works in IT, makes about 8k€/month. i can tell you she's not with because of his charm or good looks
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>>225040453
Vampirism and sucking American soldiers completely dry is how the economies of south pacific islands work.
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>>225038015
The purpose of finding a romantic partner is being able to afford real estate.
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>>225041153
your mind is corrupted by american capitalism
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>>225041173
My mind is clarified by reality and Americans don't have shit to do with it.
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>>225041219
real estate doesn't matter in catholic countries where the plebiscite is effectively banned from land ownership to begin with. This did not stop your ancestors from fucking.
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>>225041153
This guy thinks some whore is gonna help him afford some land. Everyone point and laugh
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>>225041243
Take your meds.

>>225041272
It's literally how it works, retard, couples buy homes, singles don't own homes. Good luck growing up.
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>>225033317
>pick a foreign woman thinking she'll be less evil because she's from a "traditional" culture.
Cannot fathom why someone who prioritizes "traditional" values would attempt to marry someone overseas that they share no history with. Think about it for a moment, if there was a "trad" woman, would she be marrying and sleeping with an actual foreigner? That's the opposite of tradition.
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>>225033073
Fake news
She wouldn't love me
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>>225038322
Based!
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>>225033317
>Manifested
Women when presented with a language with nearly infinite words will always vaguepost using the same hundred or so. Verbal intelligence my ass.
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>>225033383
Yes yes whore, the things women choose to do are never their fault and also can never be judged, we know
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>>225034422
His belief is directly created by his personal interactions with women. Stop deflecting, you insane hold.
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>>225038015
Correct and I realized this and just never had casual relationships at all
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>>225040426
No it's just true. Mercantile relationships aren't a Western value.
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>>225041107
>> dozens and dozens of matches but they're all black
I don’t see the problem here
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>>225042580
Lmao as if women internalize a bunch of /pol/ tier thinking. They are no different than you. If they find you attractive they will want to fuck you.

With that said >>225033317 is nonsense. A relationship built on financial dependence is not one that is built on solid ground. It's a house of cards built on sand. But "passport bros" are no different from the boomer mail order bride seekers before them. They gravitate towards transactional relationships and deep down they know without the transaction there would be no relationship.

I try to tell people does she have a job? Is she going to college? Is she trying to do something to change her situation? Or is she on a dating website hoping to meet a white man that will fix everything for her and her family? What kind of person do you think is better to get involved with? Too many people choose wrong here.
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SEA dudes are the funniest dudes in the world. They have a one sided love for their women who absolutely despise them.
Most cucked race in history.
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>>225042977
That's not true. If you came here and stepped outside of the passport bro and sex tourist strongholds you would know life goes on as normal. People are happy despite being a bunch of thirdies living in precarious conditions. The family unit still means something even though broken families are common enough.
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>>225043039
it's more true than you think
especially with how influenced by social media some of your women are
they see and aspire to live in western countries
the more educated they are, the more ready they are to pounce at the opportunity to leave
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>>225043134
Well I'm white and I've spent most of my adult life in this place. I used to read the boomer sex tourist forums in the old days where they would talk their shit. They would joke about stuff like their pinay wives sleeping with tricycle drivers. Then I met my ex and she taught me a lot about how her friends were operating. The shit they would say privately. How women with white boyfriends or husbands would have a Filipino boyfriend on the side. They would say things like "you can't find love with a foreigner only (implied financial security)."

That's not to say everyone here is like this. But if you wander into this minefield knowing nothing of the culture bad things can happen to you. You can get cucked. You can get fleeced. You could spend an absurd amount for some mediocre pussy lmao.
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>>225043212
that's the case anywhere. filipino men are mostly cucked losers who can't seem to focus their nationalistic pride in a productive direction
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>>225042977
You realize only ugly munters and chinks go for foreigners right?
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>>225043244
That's not how I know them to be. I could tell you the actual truth about why a pinay would choose you over a pinoy though. A lot of white men like to fetishize the trad aspect of getting into a relationship with a pinay. Culturally cooking, cleaning, and taking care of their household has been deeply internalized. If her family is functional she has been doing it since she was young. But the pinoy takes this for granted. They never show appreciation to the women in their lives for what they do for them. In their minds it's simply expected so why should they do that? So, if you get a Filipina and treat her like a maid you're no better than a Filipino. She will be happy to do all those things for you but you should show your appreciation and treat her like a princess or whatever. They really like that.

But what do I know I just observe these things up close.
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>>225040426
And at some level it's time to accept that maybe that's a good thing.
>>225041153
In my mind they make it harder to afford real estate. Either way irrelevant to me, already do.
>>225042957
In all honesty I think it makes little difference, both will use you just in different ways.
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>>225043265
so the ugliest and the cute ones go for foreigners, while the mids stay home?
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>>225043546
If you're getting used you allowed yourself to be used.
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>>225043590
>Your fault for believing in love
Now if only they applied this logic to rapists and wifebeaters maybe we'd have some equality.
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>>225033073
>Translation: You're poor but I understand you're miles richer than the average person in my country.
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>>225043610
Getting used ain't love bro. Let's use some therapy speak. You need to set boundaries. As a foreign man in a third world country that means we don't cross the intersection of romance and finance until we are living under the same roof and doing so should not be about some "benefit" but a choice we made because we wanted to be together.
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>>225043674
Then you misunderstood my point. Love requires you make yourself vulnerable to abuse from the other to some degree, not necessarily financial. Which is why the college girl will ruin you just as likely as the gold digger. Boundaries are fine but if someone pumps you full of expectations you've structured your life around and the rugpulls you when they get bored, even if you spent no money that's still traumatic. And you got used as an emotional or intimacy sponge in the process, if not it was a loveless relationship and thus, nothing.
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>>225043710
Well it's life and life isn't fair. You have agency. You have choices. The choices are infinite. There are so many songs about love that fill your head up with ideas about how wonderful it can be from a young age. But there are songs about the heartbreak and misery that can come from it too. They tell us that it's just part of growing up, experiencing heartbreak. But how many people don't get that experience earlier in life then have it come along with a custody battle for some kids and a loss of some of their assets? Your whole damn life can just get upended lmao.

But you could also be walking down the sidewalk and someone who is drunk and high at the same time could hallucinate and see the devil in the middle of the road then swerve to avoid him and crash into you paralyzing you for life. It could happen bro. The only way to be safe and sure that it doesn't is to stay at home and post on 4chan all day long like I do. The best way to avoid pain and trauma and risk in life is to simply avoid living it in a meaningful way.
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>>225033317
If I could hit a magic god button that removed a single word from the brains of every English speaking western woman and made it impossible for them to ever learn it again and only hear static when it's spoken to them, it would be "Manifest".
If you don't need an explanation as to why, I know you dated such a woman.
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>>225043825
I find you can live most of it fine and get expected results, just never trust a woman and it's smooth sailing. Doesn't matter if she's your mother your wife or a stranger on the road, treat them like radioactive waste. Once you do life clears up, and that's what's disturbing about it, it's just love that does this. They haven't made half as many songs about anything else, because nothing else feels this bad, not dying in war, not watching loved ones die, not the passage of time or the human condition, not even sex for Pete's sake. Just this poison and women leverage that. Yes men do it too but only the handful all women chase anyway, most of us never even get the opportunity.
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>>225043631
This lmao
Should be an extra panel where she says
>You can still get me citizenship
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>>225033317
>that screenshot
just call ICE on her brown ass and claim all the wealth to yourself and let her beg at the embassy of brown country to take her back home.
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>>225042605
looks like that queen from Narnia, why they aged so poorly?
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>>225043915
I had my issues with women but I married one I can trust. We've been married longer than my parents were married and they had 3 kids. All the things you fear I am not experiencing. But I can't lie and say I've never experienced bad things with other women. But my marriage is so stable it's almost boring to talk about.
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>>225043965
Well if you trust her, give it time. If not then you understand.
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>>225044004
All around me I see families living together. Getting old together. Without extraordinary circumstances why would I expect my situation to be any different? I've already accepted that my fate is to live out the rest of my days in this place. I don't fear my wife. I fear war, economic catastrophe, natural disasters, and the unraveling of the global order.
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All white women support Lindsay Clancy.
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I have wh*Toid fatigue
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>>225038015
>Building power dynamics to upkeep a hollow relationship is just a waste of time and energy to get dogshit results.
I agree with this. I also don't like how artificial some relationships feel. I despise dating apps for this reason, every relationship there feels absolutely artificial.
The concept of actual love, of both people truly caring about and being there for each other, instead of just wanting material stuff is so good, it's a shame it's so rare.
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>>225043582
The one we dont want goes for foreigners, so how the fuck is that supposed to be one sided love?
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>>225033180
Most Mexican girls I dated were like this
As long as you're a hard worker they don't care what the job is
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>>225033383
yellow fever is a serious illness. I'm a victim.
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>>225044120
Based white women
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>>225044070
So do I but any I've actually gotten to know revealed pretty quickly the stability is built on fairly hollow and callous reasoning, meaning even if the marriage is loveless it still functions due to convenience and just plain fatigue. And maybe that's the lesson to learn, love doesn't really enter into it. But then I ask again, why bother? You want to raise kids that will never see what love looks like? Love's just a chemical motivator to get us to fuck long enough to make children? I'd certainly be defined as a nihilist by most and even a misanthrope but even by my standards that's a really grim outlook on life. I guess you can perpetuate it easily enough so long as you don't think about it, but I do think about it. This pain automaton idea doesn't appeal, especially when there's so many snake oil salesmen suggesting otherwise and I've felt what it was like over the horizon, so I know it's not entirely fabricated.
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I expected cute filipinas to be posted but instead this is a robot thread.
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>>225045211
it's a secret shill thread so you'd watch the latest flipbait slop
https://www.imdb.com/title/tt36583977/
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>>225045211
It's 4chan. You need to go to the boards that allow nudity for that. Otherwise it's heavy on the text light on the sex.

>>225045195
It's hard to give a response that doesn't sound like a bunch of platitudes. All these thoughts that are in your head are not 100% incorrect. There is some basis in reality. But to live a meaningful life as a human being takes a bit of blind faith. You're assessing that as pure vulnerability, and again you're not wrong to do so. But if the opposite is the secure yet deeply unsatisfying retreat to eternal solitude is it worth going through your life with a strategy of total risk aversion?
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>>225033317
Yeah thinking girls the the philipinnes or colombia are le heckin traditional women is delusional, they just want citizenship and money just like if you date in the west
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>>225045236
I want to say that I read all your posts and you are rich in wisdom and experience. I deal a lot with expats and migrants. I also had contacts with Filipinos. You seem to be 100% correct in all your posts.
Other anons would be wise to take your advice very seriously. It's rare to see such posts here.
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>>225045459
It took more than 10 years of my life making stupid choices and learning from them to get there.
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>>225045225
I will watch that and you will not stop me.
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>>225045477
Yeah, I know this path myself. I'm happy that you posted all this, I didn't really want to reply but I decided to make you aware that a lot more people read your posts than they reply to you, so ignore the idiots you debated.

I would add that guys get unusually irritated here by women scanning your resources. I'm not quite sure where such negative reaction comes from. I did the same scanning against women and I did reject girls who were simply too fucking poor to construct a relationship with. My guess is we're having a bunch of genZ here whose studies are paid for by parents so they've no fucking clue how to be an adult.
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>>225033073
Why they paint them like that?
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>>225033317
>>225042957
Before you even get to love, it is important to understand that functionally, if your view of human society is transactional and cynical, you cannot find true friendship let alone love.
You must trust that unconditional bonds can exist, if you think even for one second the idea is "naive" and "unrealistic" your life is doomed.
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>>225033317
Women like that are easy to deal with because their reasons for leaving are dependent on the man's reaction. If you righteously don't care, they won't leave. Sometimes it backfires but that's just life.
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>>225045608
I think perhaps it sounds a little bit cruel when I am advising that it's usually a bad idea to try to become the Prince Charming to some impoverished Cinderella. But the reason I say these things is because the power imbalance clouds everything and makes it harder for you to see if she truly loves you or just needs you to save her from a bad situation. That doesn't mean I'm saying go find some rich girl either. But the average woman wouldn't want to marry you if she thought you were a lazy ass bum. The fantasy of the girl from the slums on a dating site is to marry a 70 year old who is gonna die soon so she can inherit his citizenship and assets. Not to get banged by a good looking 23 year old white guy who stays at the cheapest hotel in town. But there are girls who are into that...
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>>225045711
If a 20 or 30 years old Flip girl can pick between a 45 year old foreigner and an attractive 30 year old foreigners, they'll pick the younger one. They'll pick the funnier one. They'll pick the one with healthier psychology (energy, initiative, sincerity, resourcefulness, strength, assertiveness). Healthier physique.

Women ideally want a package of all those, because that dramatically increases her safety and safety of offspring of you two.

My issue with men is why don't they demand the same from women? I always did and it turned out to be a good idea. I'd advise zoomer guys to be a little picky.
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>>225045859
It depends on the girl and what her attitude is. If you go to Cebu or Angeles City or Subic or the parts of BGC and Makati infested with white people then you're probably not the first white guy she had. If you are you're not the first one to show interest. If the 45 year old guy took her to a nice condo but you're trying to take her to Sogo what is she gonna think of you? The obvious solution to this problem is to not be competing with other white guys. Just figuring that out wasn't enough I needed to come up with actual plans for meeting girls from different places lol.
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>>225045900
True, a guy interested in a Filipina would be wiser anyways to do his psyop in a smaller, remote town, not the big cities, and then bring the catch to a big city there.

Monoethnic countries can work better too if you know the language. This is a surreal concept to Americans and Western Euros. But as Pollack who was in China, I can tell you.

And I would general not go for the Philippines if I wanted to fish for nice 3rd world poor country girl to marry. I'd go to LatAm (especially Brazil) and former USSR. Those chicks (especially LatAm) can actually get emotional about you to levels that you would not imagine in US/CA/EU/SEA/East Asia. Best idea to find a girl that isn't poor, but has some foreigner fetish that you can leverage with being an objectively cool guy to secure the girl in your life. I can't really see this with a Philipina, the vibes and attitude is completely off.
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>>225042605
She worships indian men
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>>225045236
I literally argued against total risk aversion. I'd rather feed a delusion because to suggest there's nothing worth gaining by the attempt is soul crushing even if it is sound of mind.
I'm just saying not to put any faith into it, you can never trust women, every lesson in my life has reiterated that. There's men I've been able to trust even when things were inconvenient for them, but not one woman. Which I mentioned may be anecdotal, but how many times must a woman be raped before you accept when she decides not to take chances anymore? And why should it be any different for a man?
You only take the risk if you accept the cost of failure, and having experienced it I'm not willing to pay that again, not for what I got for the cost. It's only ever worth it if it doesn't go wrong and I've never seen that happen when scrutinized, the only stable model is shallow and empty.
>But if the opposite is the secure yet deeply unsatisfying retreat to eternal solitude
It's all the rest of life barring love and intimacy, which I agree is a cold experience, but my argument is:
(theoretical) good relationship > solitude > bad relationship
Sure yeah we'd all like a good relationship, or most of us would, but how many get it? I don't know any, I've never even heard of any from the people I know. I nearly killed myself the last time, is it worth gambling away a solitary life on some love roulette with people whom time and again have illustrated they are sociopaths on the off chance one of them decides to be a human being against all odds? I'm sorry, if the game sucks I stop playing. Sure I'll be bored, but it's better than playing league of legends hoping for fun to appear at some point down the line.
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>>225046030
THAT specific Indian guy looks fine.
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>>225045859
Because I did too and all I got was a liar.
Hey you know how you can become a great partner for a while? Just pretend, say the right stuff and do some things a committed partner might. Then when you get bored or time comes to actually back up anything you said just decouple and hop on the next guy.
Usually gives you a few years wiggle room for free stuff, intimacy, entertainment, housing, etc.
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>>225046102
>Hey you know how you can become a great partner for a while? Just pretend, say the right stuff and do some things a committed partner might.
Not only this does work, but not doing so fails a relationship. I lied a lot in my relationships, most of the sweet little lies cemented the relationship rather than broke them. Women pay more attention to actions than words.
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>>225046156
>Women pay more attention to actions than words
Yet all most of them have to offer are words, not actions. And then the real poison, when they lie well enough to convince themselves, so you'll be in a structurally sound relationship that will just implode 7 years down the line because she snapped out of her fugue state and decided you mean nothing to her from today onward.
It's genuine psychopathy.
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>>225046185
>Yet all most of them have to offer are words, not actions.
Yeah, most of them don't even have that. You want more from a girl, you have to squeeze it. My wife herself taught me this. Don't be violent, but be assertive, or you WILL be walked through.

Actually I'm grateful that she gave me this lesson. Taking it paid off not only by dramatically improving the relationship, but improved my family ties, and dramatically improved my life in business.
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>>225046030
Based
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>>225046272
If you were a grill would you really consider dating a Pinoy?
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>>225046242
Some men take this the wrong way. They think they need to be all up in their wife or girlfriend's business checking every single thing they do at all times. If you do actually need that level of suspicion then obviously your relationship is a complete joke. But when something clearly is wrong you need to assert yourself and make it known that you won't tolerate it.
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>>225046242
Women have infinite ideas on what you could be doing better and no matter how many you actualize the fact that they had complaints at all is already a sign it's over.
It's pointless. At this stage the only way I'd even consent to a relationship is if she showed up herself and did all the work while I sat there and ignored her. That is the amount of effort I have left on offer for these people. I was never enough and they can go fuck some other schmuck or rent for the rest of their lives. I'm done, the only positivity I've ever gained from women in my life were lies and unlike the men I watched growing up, I don't need to jump into a punji pit 7 times to learn my lesson.
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>>225046309
ya but only if he has fat cock and does not flirt with other men on /int/
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>>225033073
Why are they vampires?
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>>225046408
They monke
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>>225046477
>wiggas can't post their 3/10 gfs without chang roasting their asses
grim
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>>225046477
Bro is talking about economic status and looks which ain't wrong but look at how uncomfortable she looks when he's doing this and how insecure he looks. This is the more obvious problem. He could love his ugly poor wife and she could love him back and I'd feel different about it.
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>>225046520
only cringe part is where he implied working in a rice field is le bad
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>>225046573
You're right about that but take a closer look at the body language of these two. It's way off.
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Girls don't work in no rice field anyway. They cook and clean while their husbands do that.
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>>225046643
who tf still make the rice field? have your workers do that. my filipino parents are literally too poor for truck and they still have workers that do slave jobs for them.



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