Is it cheating while in a relationship if I get drunk, start dancing with a guy (not out anything sexual), and then he forcibly kisses me and starts groping me? Should I tell my boyfriend what happened? I feel grossed out lol.
>>43656591Dancing can be a little suspect (but that's based on the boundaries you set with your bf) but you did not cheat for getting sexually assaulted.
>>43656608Thank you. This makes me feel better. They were playing with my nipples and grabbing my dick, but it felt weird.
>>43656608>>43657396Please help me.
>>43657396you oughta kill him
>>43656591>start dancing with a guy (not out anything sexual)no meme how do you even get into a situation where you’re somewhere without your boyfriend and you’re drunk dancing with a complete male strangeri just can’t walk myself through the steps that would land me in this situation
>>43657982My boyfriend has literally gone to gay clubs without me. Who knows what he’s done. That’s why I decided to go to one without him. I thought it would be fair.
>>43658194healthiest /lgbt/ relationship
>>43658206Why are you talking to me like that? So you agree that it’s not ok for him to go to gay clubs without me?
>>43658382i don't think that's normal
>>43658459Whats not normal? What I did or what he did?
>>43658545i just don't think that's normal
>>43658578Can you fucking explain?
>>43658590ok anonassuming you are in a mutually exclusive relationship, it's not normal for you or your bf to go clubs without each other and to dance with strangers. but you also got sexually assaulted after yes
>>43658639Yes we are monogamous. He said he didn’t dance with anyone when he went by himself but I know how gay men are when they’re around other gay men. It’s why I decided to do the same.
>>43658670You need to kill yourself
>>43659018What the fuck? Are you serious?
>>43656591Why would you not go out with a freind? Keep yourself safe girl. You are not following procedures
>>43656591i think you should tell him what happened because this sounds like something that could affect you for a while, and it probably would be good for him to know you got assaulted because of that and because if you keep it a secret it'll probably hurt more, but I don't think it was cheating whatsoever
>>43659103Nta but what do you want? Kek.
>>43656591I wouldn't worry about it too much. Why do you feel so concerned about it? Is there some deeper reason here?>>43657982I think it's normal for people to have their own social lives, when they're in a relationship. I do the same. I like going out with my partner and all but sometimes I really do just like the spontaneity of going out alone and seeing what happens.
>>43659119I went out with a friend. But she thought I was into and was minding her own business. >>43659141Just don’t be rude.>>43659216No, I just feel bad that happened and that I got kissed.
>>43656591You are a whore who regrets being a whore, and you project your own sluttiness and horniness onto men. He was an embodiment of your own lust, which you stimulated by dancing like a slut.
>>43656591>dancingyou're a whore and this is exactly what you wanted. stupid faggot.
Op being very selective with her wordsDid you let him kiss and grope you?
>>43660980>>43661158I’m not a whore. I literally started dancing because I thought it was funny and I was dancing. You don’t fucking know me.>>43661183I LITERALLY just intended to dance. I did not expect the other stuff to happen.
>>43662692You again didn't answer the question. When he started kissing you and groping you, did you let him do it?
>>43662767Well I froze in shock and kind of just stood there for like 2 minutes. I then got scared, pulled away and started looking for my friend.
Both of you are cheaters. Why not just semi-open your relationship at this point?
>>43662692>started dancing because I thought it was funny and I was dancingworse than a woman. you know exactly what you were doing.
>>43656591Yes that is cheating sis. Yes you should tell him.
>>43663015Do you think my boyfriend is cheating? How so?>>43663029>>43663031That’s not fucking cheating. I literally just wanted to dance. I don’t know how many times I have to tell you. They’re the ones who touched and kissed me.
>>43663125Anyone who goes "dancing" in a committed relationship should be dumped immediately. What do you think the dance floor is for, you fucking dense cunt? It's for FUCKING around with other people. Just shut the fuck up already.
>>43663153Fuck you bitch. Don’t talk to me like that you fucking faggot. You don’t fucking know me. Dancing isn’t cheating and you’re retarded if you think so.
>>43663180Retarded fem-brained faggot. You'll be single for the rest of your life. You loved the attention. Shameless whore.
>>43663193I’m not single though. I’m in a relationship that’s monogamous. You’re actually so fucking stupid lmao. The one who’s going to be single for the rest of his life is you. Fat fucking cuck.
>>43663216Monogamous? That's rich. You're not in a relationship, honey. No one in their right mind would take a self-serving douche like you seriously. Guarantee you that your boyfriend has many options that he's pursuing while you fuck around. You're nothing to him.
>>43663237Are you fucking serious? How fucking dare you? I love him and he loves ME. I didn’t do shit to him by dancing around. Fucking everyone dances with other people and I did not intend to cheat. I can tell you’re fat and ugly and will never have anyone that loves you in your pathetic fucking life. Honestly fucking kill yourself and stop fucking talking to me.
>>43663255Calling me fat and ugly will not save your relationship. It's already over. You'll watch it crumble over the next few weeks. I'm speaking from experience by the way. Dumb-ass young sluts have no fucking idea.
>>43663286And why would it crumble when I did nothing wrong? I don’t plan on leaving him. You’re so fucking stupid it hurts.
>>43663295The reason why you think you've done nothing wrong highlights a larger concern. If your boyfriend doesn't care about what you're doing, he obviously doesn't take you seriously. I was mean to you before, I admit, but now I just feel sad for you, honestly.
>>43663328I literally got sexually assaulted at the club, and you decide to put me down instead of supporting me. What does that say about you? You’re a horrible fucking person for implying I wanted to cheat on my man for dancing.Re-evaluate your whole fucking life and train of thinking before even speaking to me.
>>43663344So now you were assaulted? Please explain how you were victimized.
>>43656608>muh sexual assault copebrodie cheated on their bf and wants a cop-out
>>43663357Literally read the thread? I was sexually assaulted because I didn’t want any of the groping or kissing and just wanted to dance.
>>43663395No one is buying that. Slag. Who the fuck goes to "dance" by themselves? Lmao. Unless you're a predator? Fuck out of here.
>>43663427I went out to dance with my friend. You’re so dumb. You keep calling me a whore for no reason.
>>43663444Inconsistencies. I think it's clear to both myself and anyone who has bothered to read this interaction, that you're delusional and have no idea how interpersonal relationships work. I pity whomever gets involved with you in the future (though, they'll probably equally retarded).
>>43663502What inconsistencies? I literally explained everything that happened very clearly. I don’t understand why you keep attacking me.
>>43663533Assaulted! Attacked! Wasn't my fault! Dindu!
>>43663705You’re such a fucking asshole lmao. I seriously hope you seek psychiatric help.
>>43663705wdym? just because i was rubbing my ass against that black man's dick doesn't mean i wanted him to sexually engage with me!!
>>43663717I hope you've taken these words to heart, baby.>>43663723Lmao.
>>43663832You’re such a nasty person for saying that. I seriously hope you seek help. It’s not ok to be blaming the victim of a sexual assault. You’re the same type of person that shames women for getting sexually assaulted just because they dressed provocatively. Such an ugly, disgusting person you are. Inside and out.
>>43663872Why are you even tripping so much? You only danced and got kissed. It’s not even real cheating because you didn’t fuck anyone. Almost everyone “cheats” anyways. Have you seen what men do at bachelorette parties? As long as you don’t fuck anyone, you’re good.
>>43663872So you're admitting that you dressed provocatively. Can't say I'm surprised. Why can't you just admit that you like being a little whore? You won't experience gay death until your 30s. Live it up kween.
>>43663914I’m a man and didn’t dress provocatively. I know tons of girls who are in relationships who go out dressed provocatively and there’s nothing wrong with that.You sound bitter.
>read thread>op is an annoying homo>argues in bad faithwhenever you feel bad, just remember you deserve it. ten years from now you will still be arguing in your head about these kind of interactions. only difference is you will be too old to attract these kind of men so you’ll only have the messy attitude
>>43664016Case in point.
>>43664066Case in point, you’re a dumbass.
no way this is not bait
>>43664324Everyone in this thread has ranged from giving you sincere advice to outright blasting you, and you've ignored them all. You've doubled down on your ridiculous stance. Embarrassing.
>>43664386Has to be. No one can be this fucking stupid.
>>43664390What ridiculous stance? That I got sexually assaulted? It’s the truth.
So fucking rude.
I fucking hate all of you.
>>43656591Yes >>43663153This
>>43665682You’re fucking retarded lmao.
>>43656591You have allowed yourself to be completely humiliated. In the future, carry a knife on your person and the capacity for reckless violence in your heart so you may scar and punish the shit-flinging apes who try and treat you this way in the future.
>>43666010I didn’t allow anything. I only wanted to dance. How many fucking times do I have to say this?
>>43666201I do not mean that you consented. You have failed to construct your lifestyle and worldview in a way that would allow you to destroy that man by violence.This would have prevented your inability to resist the will of some random man being imposed on you and, consequently, the gradual and inevitable breakdown of your psyche. The best time to rectify this is now.
>>43666256Oh you can fuck right off you schizo bitch.
>>43666273Lethal violence is more accessible in the modern age than it ever has been. You were obviously a victim but you have the power to prevent yourself from being one again. Consider this.
>>43666273Stop cheating and accept God, son.
>>43666286I feel like you’re not taking me seriously.
>>43666301I'm not. You should carry a gun.
>>43666307*I'm not not taking you seriously, I mean. I am taking you seriously. It is terrible to have the will of another imposed on you by force in ways that are both obvious to you and which will remain hidden and degrade the quality of your life in insidious ways. You should carry a gun.
>>43666323I think you should just stop talking.
>>43666569You can ignore it if you like. Most people do. Like them, on the day you accept your impotence it will flower in you and make of you a slave.
>>43666588It’s really not funny.
>>43667028Nothing about this is funny. I'm not making fun of you.
