If you’ve got a trans gf you have to take care of her needs
>>43660380but only if she's okay with it, some tranners don't like it
>>43660380that's the idea
>>43660380No?What?Not wanting to go down on a dude doesn't make a woman a man hater or something nor does not wanting to give a woman with a vagina oral make a man a misogynist (although some of that is misogyny, but its still a choice...). You don't just gaslight someone into a specific sex act by telling them they're a bad person or mentally unwell if they don't do a particular sex act.Also, even though it is not a homophobic act, I think the root of this is more homophobic than transphobic, but I suppose I'm splitting hairs.I'll tell you however, that is abuse to hold fact that a woman won't do a particular sex act over her when she asks if he wants to do a particular sex act to her. Sex should never be transactional like that. You don't trade sex acts for other sex acts, unless you are genuinely ok with it like in the style of the Tenacious D song Fuck Her Softly ("OK that's not my favorite, but I'll do it for you$). You don't just do things you don't want to do like that.
>>43660572Clarification; It can be transphobic, however. But its far from intrinsically so, especially if she's not even really that into it or at all into it, which is common.
Her needs are>getting fucked rougly while being choked, (lightly) slapped around and degradedand then>being held, cuddled, kissed, spooned and told how much I love her and how much she means to me (everything)I don't need to involve any penis besides mine to accomplish this actually.
>>43660572(I am a trans girl, btw)
>>43660572>>43660580
>>43660380Keep sucking until you get all of her male spermatocytes and the delicious natty male lube
>>43660380No matter how hot you may be, you will never experience getting sucked off by Él Hetéro.
>>43660594I'm not completely sure what this post means, but I am kind of afraid I might've opened a bit of a Pandora's box with my post, so I'll go ahead and try to explain some a little more / better before I fuck off this thread.I don't think that if a man chooses to not suck a woman's penis, he's committed some heinous act. However, I do believe that a lot of men only don't do that out of, basically, fear. It can fuck with their sense of self and can be a part of toxic masculinity. So, I still think men should often reflect on *why* they don't want to do it. Either way, it isn't necessarily a big issue, but if there reason isn't that they don't want to do it but instead that they are scared of admitting they want do it, then I might be cautious with that guy if I was that girl.My problem is just that I don't think trans women and allies should get into a habit of calling men misogynistic or transphobic solely because they didnt do something sexual with a trans girl.
>>43660645... But the keyword in that last sentence there is *solely*.Its not like a big deal on its own. Its wherever. Probably depends on the girl. Incidentally, I say caution, but I mean its all very situational. Depends on how much of a project she's okay with, I guess.
I was under the impression most troids don't want me to go down on them , though I suppose that is something you are supposed to communicate with your partner
>>43660645>>43660662You're looking into this far too deeply. I can't speak for the whole of men, but I guarantee you that the average chaser will be receptive to his tranner using her dick, actively.
>>43660672It really depends. Some of us are OK with it, even some of us that go on to get bottom surgery. Incidentally, its not a good idea to assume if she will or won't keep it. Even if she says she will or won't, its basically impossible to really tell. Only she knows in the end.
>>43660685I mean I've literally heard stories of men tearing it like they're crossing the Rubicon.Honestly, I don't entertain if I'm into men so much any more because, besides me already having a primary and not wanting to make space right now, I also don't need to deal with people who self-identify as "chasers". I want to meet people who like me for me not for my transness. Besides, I got bottom surgery relatively recently so those men would be...Okay fine I do think about my sexual orientation a lot still. Fuck.
>I'll tell you however, that is abuse to hold fact that a woman won't do a particular sex act over her when she asks if he wants to do a particular sex act to herOh god why did I still manage to type this sentence so poorly. I should probably go to sleep; Im having trouble forming clear, grammatically intelligible sentences...
>>43660705How recently was your SRS?
>>43660705It is like crossing the Rubicon. I made allMy boyfriends into bottoms. They all get addicted to it and once you lose your honour-hymen, there’s no reason to keep resisting
is is transphobic to be disgusted by my desire to fuck trannies in the ass and also to know that I would feel absolutely nothing if all of them suddenly died ?? is that transfaggotophobic?
>>43660396they can get over their internalized homophobia hating your penis doesn't make you less of a gay man or more of a woman
>>43661654Shut up, gincel
>>43660380Giving oral to your GF is submissive and gay.
>>43661682You're already a homosexual faggot, so what's there to lose?
>>43661694ok so it's the same if you're getting gangbanged by 10 guys or if you fuck a tranny
>>43660705sexual orientation is fucking impossible to figure out
>>43660591Boyfriend is really good at doing the latter but I have trouble convincing him to be more rough with me during sex >~<
>>43661704that's right!
>>43661694I have to pretend to be straight to make her feel like a real woman
>>43662370just seems like two gay men pretending to have straight roles as a larp during gay sex
>>43662370Hilarious and 100% true.
>>43660380Real girls dont have a penis btw
>>43662421Legacy foids do not
>>43660572> OK that's not my favorite, but I'll do it for youI said this one time and nearly immediately found my tongue up a trans man’s unwashed asshole
>>43660380hypothetical bf should ask, I'll say absolutely notnever brought up again
>>43662514>gay men who don't let men suck their penises are womentrannies are the most deranged homophobes on earth
>>43662546"You must let men suck your cock or you're a homophobe"?Have you taken any tests to see if your developmentally delayed?
Absolutely not.
>>43662567Absolutely yes and you won't stop me. I'm sucking your gock dry and I'm swallowing every drop of your sweet clear tranny cum too, scratch and kick and scream about it
ok realtalk dysphoria and internalised transphobia aside and all the weird copes men have over wanting to suck tranny dick aside aswell it just doesn't even feel good and it won't get me there even remotely so why would I want it?i sometimes let my bf because he enjoys it but I dont get any physical pleasure out of it myself beyond the pleasure of making someone I love feel good
>>43660380ANY girl who wants or expects oral sex is a whore (this is true of cis and trans girls)
it's transphobic to suck her dick
>>43660616Why have you become Spanish now
>>43660591wtf,,, need
>>43664547yeah. if a guy did something down there i’d go soft and it wouldn’t feel like anything
>>43661654nahshe is a woman, and the penis hating part is due to dysphoria. fuck off gincel
