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I have an older mtf gynephilic friend who has been transitioning for multiple years already and even has a cisbian gf, but her face (which she does complain to me about occasionally) is really masculine and I don't even think FFS could do enough in one go
Meanwhile I, as an androphile, only started a year ago or so properly and I would say I pass well already including my face and body, and I do sometimes thank Gd for blessing me, but I have gotten judgemental stances from a lot of gynephiles who aren't in my immediate social circle, albeit I rarely actually interact in queer only circles anymore
I don't want to sound bragging at all, I actually feel kinda bad for her but I don't want to tell her that I don't think FFS will help
Am I a bad person or is this justified thinking, obvs I don't mistreat her but yeah I'm glad my face is my own
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>>43685361
this is bragging and yes you're a bad person
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>>43685414
Oh
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>>43685361
kinda brutal to be honest. i'm agp but i look like an ugly woman so i can't really act out on any of my agp desires because i don't really have the body or the face for it. but ironically yeah, a lot of androphilic trannies that i've know have been so much better passing than (auto)gynephilic ones
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>>43685569
nta but is there a scientific reason for androphilic mtfs to pass better than agps
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>>43685361
>gynephilic friend who has been transitioning for multiple years

Should not transition. He's an ordinary man, which is fine to be, but he's not transgender
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>>43685602
i honestly don't know, this was just a personal anecdote and not like me saying that this is definitely the case. i think this assumption probably comes from some selection bias in terms of who we interact with maybe?
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>>43685602
no, because it doesn't happen
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>>43685644
Woman is when attraction to men so true trust theres no woman attracted to woman fr
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Yeah you're a bad person for looking at the less fortunate and feeling entitled.
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>>43686116
this but unironically
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>>43685361
>I actually feel kinda bad for her but I don't want to tell her that I don't think FFS will help
so dont? or maybe do to save her the money if it will help but that also depends on how much she centers it in her thoughts and you wont know if you arent that close. i would wanna know and have a second opinion so i dont spend $xx,000 and years saving on something that wont help, but if insurance covers who cares ?
>Am I a bad person or is this justified thinking
neither really. depends what you mean by "justified". like you are not correct for thinking shes uggo, thats subjective, but you are for being conflicted about saying it out loud. that isnt nice lol

i would just count your blessings not get entitled everyone has their own flaws some just dont center them in their self worth you are very lucky if you get the trade off where you like the things you got and dont care about the ones you didnt. someone else might want to kts over it.

i also dont really think these things are super important in the first place and passing is basically just buying into the cosmetics/advertising scam that all women are subjected to. most middle age cis women dont pass because passing to a 4chan incel means looking like a the platonic ideal of a teen girl put through an anime filter.
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>>43685602
How do you guys not know this? They have gayface, which obviously helps. AGPs are just autists, they don't look particularly feminine
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>>43687408
Retard



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