So what are the chances of finding a bf at age 36? Especially when you have medical issues?
>>43688679Depends on the medical issues but many gay men find their first relationship when they're your age
>>43688688I'm a troon so gay men don't want me. Straight men either honestly. If I said the medical issues people would think I'm fetish baiting.
>>43688679I think I told you this yesterday but I got a bf at age 25 and I got a bf at age 29 as a troon with type 1 diabetes it's not hopeless but you have to put effort in or just date anyone who will not care about the medical stuffI met both of them on 4chan and one of them off of this board
>>4368870225 is 10 years less than 36.
>>43688699>>43688679Bedwetter from yesterday? How desperate are you?
>>43688716A little desperate but more scared, which keeps me from trying. That and I my extensive loli hentai collection. That would scare off most ppl too.
>>43688699That's completely your mistake. You shouldn't have made yourself an ugly looking person
>>43688731Nigga what the fuck
>>43688744Rather be a troon who is unfuckable than a gay guy. I tried that route for 10 years. >>43688750Told you.
>>43688731>36 yo btw
>>4368870729 is 7 years younger and I'm in my 30s now albeit a little younger than you so I would say it's still possible just not easy you have to shoot your shot and accept you're probably going to get into a handful of deadend situationships with people >>43688731this is worse than having medical issues imo lol
>>43688756>>43688755Back in my day it was normal on 4chan.
>>43688753Yeah well, I kinda felt bad for you but now I genuinely hope you stay alone forever.
>>43688772when ur a teenager sure at your age thats just embarassing
>>43688781What causes prude zoomers to be on 4chan? Shouldn't this place scare you away? >>43688789Wrong.
>>43688796Back in my days threads with you know what would get to 300 replies before they'd get deleted on /b/ (granted /b/ was by far the most popular back then)It was disgusting then and it's disgusting now. You are 36 years old and still into that shit. Fucking loserWhy do you even want a bf? So he can capture kids for you?
>>43688832Oh you're a twitter troon.
>>43688843Enjoy dying alone 8D
>>43688890You need to go back, sweetie. Here on 4chan we are pro-anime.
>>43688731>>43688699Country?
>>43688924USA. Isn't that were most trannies are from?
>>43688942Was just hoping I could find a troon in my country.
>>43688950Which country. Some countries don't have trannies.
I'm in my 30s and I just recently met a trans woman in her 30s and we have clicked immediately. I feel like we will probably become a couple. Before this, I thought it was over for me too. Just put yourself out there and meet new people, you never know when you're going to find someone special
>>43688731I mean, im a pervert of a different persuasion but I have an open enough mind to tease you but not be icked. Im assuming youre a west coaster though so thats a snag. I'm also five years your junior.
>>43689045Nope I've spent my entire life in the Great Lakes region. I live in Chicago.
>>43688753don't think you really understand that part.I would never want to be a genetic woman. They don't really have a sex drive like men do. They don't get horny like men do. They don't enjoy sex!
>>43689117No shit huh? I usually go to Rosemont for MFF,You should get out the house and come sometime. It'll be good for you, even if youre not a furfag
But do you jerk it to being the loli or the guy? Or are you a super rapehon who faps to trans girl x loli manga?
>>43689524My best friends in life have always been furfags so I have nothing against you. I don't even know what MFF is. Midwest Furfest? Isn't a that a con?
>>43689383Isn't that just AGP? I guess HSTS can really be sex addicts too. I'm scared of sex. >>43689565Neither. I like lolicons.
>>43689785Yeah! It's in Rosemont around December. 3rd to the sixth. I'll be going with a few fags I know and one tranny im squeezing on and her codependents, possibly. I doubt I'll see you and we have no way to communicate but if I do find you I'd love to try and pick you up.
>>43688679baka thats why you trauma bond as many men as you can in your 20s
>>43689931This has unironically worked on me with the few trannies I talk to as a bi guy in my 30s. I love my girls and I'm glad to have met them, feels good to help em when I can afford to visit.
>>43689800Idk, I'm just really pissed at this point in my life. I couldn't just be a man and dress feminine and be somebody's femme to their butch.
>>43689931I tried that and I'm still alone. >>43689856I'd be scared but I was scared to move to Chicago, so maybe it's for the best. >>43689975I know the feeling. Being a troon was much better than trying to be an effeminate guy. At least people instantly understand what I am.
>>43689945dam playahead in the game, ahead of the game, for real
>>43689982Yes, people understand better when you're presenting female, but it's not really worth the price of losing your sexuality from taking estrogen. I did it more than most on here I went all the way even had SRS that's because I'm stupid
>>43690007You regret the SRS? I don't do it because I'm scared of surgery unless it will save my life. I boymode, but in a way people can tell. I have boobs after all.
>>43689982>I'd be scared but I was scared to move to Chicago, so maybe it's for the best.You're a big girl now, you can make tough choices on your own! If you think you'd like to go, you've got 6ish months to plan it out. Could just take the blueline there. That's what my native chicago friend did. I'll hold out a little hope for you :]
>>43690034Yes I regret it because it destroyed my sexuality. The cunt doesn't work very good . It pleases men, but it doesn't give me anything in return. I don't get horny anymore.I really wish I would have stayed a gay guy.I really don't understand the boymode thing ? Why would you bother with going to the transition, if you can't live out the role. I just don't understand what you get out of it?
>>43690086I don't feel comfortable wearing clothes that are too feminine. I don't have the body for it. I like to wear unisex clothes like t-shirts, pants, shorts, all natural fibers like cotton or wool. Is the loss of sexuality just because of orochi? Does it kill it more than mono E? >>43690073I'm not hard to recognize on /tttt/ too. If someone is bringing up Chicago it's probably me. Plus I think I'm the only anon who posts about wetting the bed.
>>43690034if you can abstain then gender affirming care is not medically necessary for you, faker.
>>43690131I am DIY I don't trust the medical system.
>>43690123Yes and my experience being castrated kills it all together. It does make the hormones work better though. Don't you think it's a lot to sacrifice just because we want to be the feminine partner of a masculine man? If I had been a little more mature I think I could have managed to live as a gay guy. I could have lived in San Francisco with my boyfriend who I left!!
>>43690123>I'm not hard to recognize on /tttt/ tooNona, I don't mean to sound insulting but half of you all type the same, and theres quite a few chicago trannies I know of, some of which are active here. You are not one in my mental rolodex--though to be fair I may have remembered you posting a few weeks ago n a thread where something was mentioning moving to chicago as I also posted in there regaling my friends experiences in chicago living in one of the poorer areas. Same friend whose in a Love Triangle 'Cule situation, me being the fourth corner to turn it into a rectangle.
>>43690086>Why would you bother with going to the transition, if you can't live out the role. I just don't understand what you get out of it?you transition if you have sex dysphoria, i.e. want secondary sexual characteristics, to which it sounds like you had neither (gender nor sex dysphoria)you boymode to avoid public shame, it hurts less to be misgendered if you're making no effort to appear fem, it breaks your heart the same but doesn't shatter it, more like long drawn out tearingdoes it make sense in the context of transitioning? no probably not, feelings aren't sensical sometimes though, often it's easier to glide through life like that if you don't pass
>>43690227My sexuality is gross so even though I loved being sexual it's also probably better if my sex drive just disappeared forever. That would mean no bf tho. >>43690239I only say it because I've been noticed multiple times because of how often I post similar threads. But now that I think of it that may have been /r9k/. I only started to post here more after moving. >culeSeems like bad juju.
>>43690255>Seems like bad juju.Oh no it absolutely is. She's told me about how one time they were on mushrooms and the other girl came back and ruined the trip for her because she wasn't expecting it and it made her freak out. I know two of them personally, third girl I've never met. They're both really cute but different types of insane. Age-reg girl and incest-play girl. Third is from what im told, a turbodyke misandrist so we'll see how that plays out if she winds up going to MFF with the others. That said, incest girlie gives mad good head and I don't particularly like head in the first place. She's also the most functional of the group, majority income earner. Unsurprisingly turbodyke is unemployed.
>>43690243I'm not sure I understand dysphoria?So, if you like your penis you don't have dysphoria? What about if you're really into sex? I was diagnosed with gender identity disorder when I was younger which meant that I acted like a girl even though I was supposed to be a boy. Lots of gay boys for like this but they grew out of it somehow?I really don't understand the boymode thing.>you boymode to avoid public shame, it hurts less to be misgendered if you're making no effort to appear fem, it breaks your heart the same but doesn't shatter it, more like long drawn out tearingdoes it make ..I hear what you're saying I've heard others say something similar but I still don't really understand it. When I began transitioning I had to live as a female for one year before I was even allowed to take hormones. I don't think I passed well, but it never bothered me because nobody ever really said much about it to me. I don't think it's cuz I passed well, I think it was because people just didn't care.
>>43690255Already bothered me with my boyfriend was an artist. He painted a picture of me and I looked very masculine I thought he saw me as a mask and looking male. It really did break us up! Maybe I'm just screwed up in my mind, but I just couldn't deal with being seen as the masculine male! I could be a male, as long as I be feminine like a girl
>>43688679I didn't meet my bf until 34. If I lose him for whatever reason, I'll find another one after I'm no longer crippled by the sadness. There's only so many trannies but sooooo many men into them that you essentially have pick of the litter. Being attractive helps but is not required. Keep your expectations reasonable. Go for your looksmatch and you can find love no matter your age
>>43690346This was back when you were gay? My ex liked me being a dominant freak. I don't want to be that. It didn't work out. >>43690331It's intense discomfort. Ironically it's like playing a part and always worrying you're about to get caught. I think that's how I would choose to describe it. I hate people assuming masculine things about me. At least when I'm a tranny people understand I'm not going to be able to relate to guy shit by default.
>>43690375Yes, I came out gay when I was a teenager and lived as a gay guy for 10 years before I transitioned.
>>43690373I lived a small rural town in Texas and never told anyone I was transgender. Maybe they knew but at the new I think they would have said something to me or somebody would have said something to me. Anyway I hardly attract any man
>>43690417Did you regret coming out? I never bothered, I always figured I'd just do what I want and I didn't really care if others knew or not.Kinda the same thing for being a tranny. I think people think of me as a really masculine woman if they don't look to close.
>>43690442No I didn't regret coming out gay. I don't understand what you mean about you never came out?I wish I stopped being a tranny when I could have turned around and become a gay guy again. I'm not sure exactly when that was probably was before I been on hormones for more than a year and before I got orchi
>>43690466I never told anyone or did anything to signal to others I was gay. The first time they realized was when they asked if my bf was my friend and I said he was my bf. Sometimes I romanticize being gay, but I'm not a guy and I don't want to be seen as a guy, even if it means I have to be seen as a tranny. You'd go back to being a gay guy if you could? I couldn't do it myself.
>>43690500Oh, I definitely came out gay. Problem is everyone knew about me being gay. There was a period of time when I tried talking to some girls on the telephone. One girl I talked to said she was surprised I would talk to her cuz she thought it was the homosexual, this is when I was in 9th grade.I can respect what you're saying about wanting to be identified as a woman in transgender. I don't understand why people get upset with me if I say, I'm really a gay guy and not really transgender. I'm just trying to honestly figure myself out
>>43690535People like to simplify reality. If you don't you just turn schizo and can't tell what's real anymore. It's probably why people hate trannies so much. It affects their priors about reality.
>>43690426Do you actually try to meet men or do you wait around for one to come ask you out?
