How do I stop turning to mush and instantly falling in love with men who are kind and nice to me?
What's wrong with falling in love?
>>43689778i don't know because i have the t4t transbian version of the same problem
>>43689778Hey how've you been? You look great! Are you doing anything later?
>>43689778:(i'm still trying to be stealth but apparently it was pretty obvious for two friends that were kinda into me (didn't happen at once!). they were both really sweet and kind, and when they start getting flirty I like folded under zero pressure instantly and was really down bad for them.then both the tension and friendship just kinda died out in a few months and I haven't talked to them since. sometimes I wonder if that's just a part of this accursed shameful existence or if they saw me as a normal person but I just really fucked things up.I think I'm too scared to have feelings for anyone anymore.
This is intended functionality.
>>43689778get standards
>>43689778I get attached too quickly to people and then assume they secretly hate me behind my back, so I end up ignoring red flags because I just want to be loved and wanted. Then when I finally realise what I'm doing I wasted a year of my life in an abusive relationship.
>>43689778Get impregnated by one
>>43689778You don't. You drop you discord here and you do it with me next. I won't let you down anon, I promise, I'll only abuse you a little
>>43691812cute
>>43689778No idea. Maybe having a boyfriend would work.
>>43691702it's just now hitting me that I did this to myself again and I'm trying to pick up the pieces
