it's so hard to find a bf in nyc. too many trannies too much competition, chasers get to go for the absolute crème de la crème here and us normies get the scraps. In a smaller city I would be a upper-tier tranny but here im mogged by literal supermodel nepobaby youngshits ahh!! it's so over for femcel trannies i hate nyc :(((
>>43701011when i was in nyc i was drowning in women both cis and trans. that city felt like the easiest on the east coast to get laid as a guy. if i had to live there though i think the black and puerto rican women are too hot to pass up desu
if i’m a tgirl in chicago who wants to date normal guys is this even feasible. idk how to meet people since everyone thinks im 6 years younger than i amt. 23yo semipassoid
>>43701029yeah bitch it's easy for moids!!! I don't want to have to do sex tourism in San Francisco or whatever ugh oh my freaking god!!! I'm like a 6/10 in nyc and it SUCKS omg
>>43701055idk just be yourself and go to clubs or meet a guy at a gym, that’s what i told my friend when she was asking how to get a man
>>43701085it's kinda awkward having to have the "hey im a tranny" talk though
>>43701011NYC is the only mega city in the US that isn't complete shit
>>43701099i’d do lgbt spaces or dating apps then
>>43701117but when i go to lgbt spaces people just think im a cis girl and I don't get guys coming onto me because they're like too woke to hit on women in lgbt spaces or whatever :(
>>43701158yeah this is really the crux of the problem. anywhere which is fine for trannies to be, i’m perceived as a cis woman. anywhere where cis men go to date cis women, and i have to get turned down repeatedly, i don’t really want to go out because it makes me cry and not get laid even though they hit on me first
>>43701011Anyone who unironically believes the op pic needs to be fucking shot
>>43701181such is the pain of the passoid who suffers in silence :(
>>43701099>>43701181tons of guys into lifting at the gym love trans women
>>43701227I would love a looksmaxxer gymbro bf so bad ;-;
>>43701158ok ok i’ll drive over to the boroughs if that’s what it will take, 13 hour drive and if i get stopped at the border then that’s just a skill issue and a sign from god for you to get on taimi
>>43701227r u serious im not going to hit on guys at the gym. thats such a male mindset. its a gym not the club
>>43701240Guys who are on Taimi only want uberpassoids or are weird or both
>>43701011There Hustlers OP and aids is rampant in NYC. They have a escort service who pays for the plastic surgery or some Rich old perverted man.. It's not about looks, because some Rich person can get you plastic surgery.. It's about hustling. And makeup everyone has makeup on all the time
which dating apps won’t lead to me sobbing because i get repeatedly unadded after they realize im trans. even if i put it in my bio guys just add me and dont realize it because they’re stupid
>>43701270the dating apps thing is also a really annoying thing because I don't want to out myself unless I match with someone because im not out in everyday life. I am stealth to my coworkers and some of my friend groups and I don't want them to find out that I'm tranny. I hear hinge has match notes but idk never tried ugh
>>43701287i feel like society just hates me and wants me dead and lonely. my cis woman friends don’t really get it either. it makes me really sad and i don’t know how to meet men. when guys flirt with me i lock up because even though they’re nice im so used to them becoming angry when i say im trans. i just come up with another excuse and disappear usually
>>43701312>>43701287they should make a sex in the city but for trans women and it’s you two and hunter schafer and dylan mulvaney
>>43701342lack of sex in the city
>>43701346idk hoes if you don’t want to approach men in public or approach them online but also they’re too woke to hit on you then idk what to tell you
>>43701376Bitch I do approach them online when they like me on dating apps!! It's not my fault these fuckers can't read so they unmatch then tank my elo. Dating apps should let guys filter out trannies and should let trannies filter out guys who filtered out trannies.
>>43701376i just mean that flirting with people in the gym is seen as weird. most people just want to work out there. i don’t think guys would be ok with a tranny coming up and hitting on them at the gym. this might get me hurt
>>43701011Being a top in NYC seems like easy mode. I set my sniffies location to Manhattan once, and I got hit up by a bunch of cute twinks and transgirls. I'm a 4/10 on a good day.
rejecting nyc job offers because even if they pay a lot it’s already way too hard to get laid as a troon
>>43701460Wise decision anon, if I could work elsewhere I would
if i had a bf id be so obsessive. i hate dating i just want to dote on someone
