>be me, bi twinkhon>lonely so I go on taimi to try to find a qt t4t gf>first match I get is from a cis woman>kinda surprised because but I decide to give her a shot>a bit worried that she'll treat me as "the guy" because of all the t4c horror stories I've heard>go out with her>she's a really thoughtful person, has something insightful to say about every topic>she's respectful and makes me feel like I'm seen as an equal and not a delusional man in a dress>when she tells me she wants to see me again at the end of the night it makes me really happy>we hang out a lot over the next month or so>she's a really cool person, but she has this aura of perpetual melancholy, even when she's doing something she seems to enjoy>one day we're chilling at my place and I mention that I have to do my shot but I'm procrastinating on it because I'm scared of needles>she asks me if she can do it for me>ask her if she knows how to do an intramuscular injection>she says yes because she used to be on testosterone>says they stopped because their family kept deadnaming them anyways so they felt like there wasn't a point.>says they doesn't really think about their body anymore so the dysphoria isn't as bad>just kinda drops the subject and we go back to watching netflixwhat do I do? on the one hand it's their body and their life and I don't want to pressure them to do something they don't want to do, but I've been through repping and I wouldn't wish that on anyone, especially not on someone I'm in love with.
>>43701092I would a. let her do the injections for you because that's cute and then b. if you guys get close you could bring it up again and be like "hey remember how you said u were on t, do you ever think about doing it again" id be very careful tho as it's probably a touchy subject.
>>43701092be with them and support them and treat them with love. i know firsthand that pressing the topic more often than not leads to digging deeper on the repression, but being around trans people and seeing them be hot as fuck and happy with their lives did wonders for getting over my fear of social isolation if i ever considered gender stuff.
>>43701092>doesn't really think about their body anymore so the dysphoria isn't as badimplies still dysphoric but... let sleeping dogs lie. just enjoy each others presence. it will keep coming up if its meant to be i think... dont force anything imo, but dont force yourself to avoid it either.
>>43701092do people actually use taimi? when i tried it there were 0 attractive people but im desperate so maybe i should try again
>>43701092drop it and keep her as a femrepper, you do not want to be stuck with a pooner or theyfab
>>43701250>being around trans people and seeing them be hot as fuck and happy with their lives did wonders for getting over my fear of social isolationi didnt even have to be around just following a couple people with the right attitude cured me super fast >>43701092>what do I do? on the one hand it's their body and their life and I don't want to pressure them to do something they don't want to do, but I've been through repping and I wouldn't wish that on anyone, especially not on someone I'm in love with.nothing i guess. just support them. idk what you all consider pushing it or pressure but i would bring it up once or twice maybe a few month apart esp if you think the aura of perpetual melancholy is related to repression and not just like an aesthetic thing and also if the relationship becomes serious and long term it kinda becomes your business imo? but maybe im actually retarded. idk if i had even a close friend like that i would probably feel pressure to help them be happy? at a certain point you do kinda know better or just as well as a person suffering the same delusion you went through. i guess where you are at in the relation its just more of something to keep in mind for the future and nice to let you know so you arent blindsided by it later if and also not a big dealbreaker with you being bi and all. like its entirely possible they were just testing your reaction if you havent talked about that
>>43701610is it weird if I can't feel disgust or hatred toward pooner art? they just read as these whimsical, charming fairytale creatures, like the dwarves in Snow White or something.
