>Meet trans girl on Tinder>Ask her if she's had SRS yet>She says it's none of my business and gets defensiveGirl, I should be the one getting defensive, do you really expect me to agree to have sex with you (or even date you!) if you don't tell me which genitals you have?I'm not even being a chaser, if you want me to have sex with you, you gotta have a vagina because I don't like penises, how is that so difficult to understand?
>>43706481well its kind of gross to ask someone you just met about their genitals, it also gives a chaser vibe if you instantly talk about genitals, like i get you have a preference but look at it from her pov
>>43706520so what am I supposed to do? this is a sex site
>>43706520trannys, the most perverted people on earth, getting upset about things discussed right away on a hook up app
>>43706481"It's none of your business what genitals you have sex with is" uhh yeah it is you are on tinder trying to have sex, thats the point of the app, genitals are a part of sex, you swiped on them because of sex, you can't get around it.
>>43706532ya idk, im a srsoid but i would probably also see it as weird if the first thing a guy asks me is about my genitals, how did you word the message?
>>43706532I can understand the rational for your concern. I do believe that the assumption should be that they're pre-ops, otherwise they wouldn't advertise themselves as transgender.
>>43706545believe it or not some people go on tinder to find serious relationships
>>43706552>so uh you got the,,,, surgerythen you hit them with the ol "u bet" lobster in the pants
>>43706560yeah, you're telling me every tranny I talked to on Tinder was looking gor a relationship with me minutes after our first text?
>>43706481I agree with you anon, but you have to admit it's super weird to open like that.
>>43706935then how do I ask her without her preying on me or wasting my time?
>>43706972> preying on you preop women dating are not preying on you lmfao
i see threads like this and it reminds me why i don’t use dating apps. i don’t want a one night stand i want a bf
>>43706976>she says she's a girl>she's on the straight version of Tinder>bring her to mine>she has a penis>it's too late to refuse nowhow is this not preying? like I'm willing to wait until you get the operation, but you gotta tell me before getting me naked
>>43706984nobody asked whore. I bet you're extremely kinky and you're willing to do anything as long as "I'm in a relationship so it's pure"disgustingI met a girl like you who claimed she was pure but then she'd suck her bf's dick after he fucked her in the ass and it was still shit flavored. you're a whore
>>43706972I don't have the perfect universal pass phrase, just be smoother and not so super blunt anon
>>43707032>noooooo, you must play games to get the info out of me, because I won't tell you!!!!!!just write it in your bio, no?
>>43707044I would not write trans in my bio if I am post OP anon.
>>43707048you think you're cis because you don't have a penis?
>>43707053I think my medical condition is not for stranger's eyes. You expect pussy, you get pussy and that's all there is to it.
>>43707070>my medical conditionbeing a molester is not a medical condition, rapist
>>43707078cool story bro
>>43707053technically they're congruent in sex post srs because it alleviated their gender dysphoria.you just can't accept srs changes their sex because you have irrationally held beliefs as you try to change the definition of a woman to xx chromosomes only. it's always been based upon phenotype, not genotype. a pussy is a woman's phenotype.
>>43707053No, not exactly, but having a vagina is the same thing sexually for a man who's interested in a woman
pre and post-op ladies, please rapemolest my pp with your vv or bumbum
>>43707112no. a woman is much more things that a vagina. the fact that you think they aren't proves you are a misogynist and therefore aren't a woman
>>43707136Most misogynists are women it doesn't matter to me anyway.If I look like a woman he thinks I'm a woman I must have sex with me as a woman I have a vagina, it's copacetic
>>43707136that's not a reasonable argument. you're trying to say there's some intangible illusory facet to womanhood that trannies don't have. that's disingenuous and not grounded in reality.
>>43706560>i want a serious relationship>im not serious enough to tell people if we’re sexually compatiblepick one and only one
>>43707205>saying this individual is a man even if he has a vagina is disingeniousok dude
>>43706481You need to know what equipment she has because you're deciding if you want to have sex with her or not. But the thing you're missing is that it's not your decision. Until she decides she wants to have sex with you it's none of your business. If that's what she told you it's because she's not interested in fucking you>lmao he thinks it's his decision
>>43706532>>43706551Tinder isn't a sex site you fuckin perv, that's Grindr.>>43706571Ah ok you're just being a disingenuous bitch, I get it. No they weren't looking for a relationship with you because they can smell a low value male.
>>43708034you're a disgusting tranny male, you can't choose. You either accept the low quality men that throw crumbs of pity your way or you'll die alone like every other body freak
>>43706990Excellent engagement bait Anon, she's not going back to your place and taking her clothes off, keep dreaming
>>43708127Just admit you want her to top you, there's no judgement here, Mary.
>>43707007okeyyyyy i’ve literally not had sex with a guy after i transitioned but believe whatever you’d like about me and my body <3
>>43707235so you think being a woman comes from passing instead? or is it from being on hrt? or is it from having a vagina?or is it from being fembrained?
>>43706520>well its kind of gross to ask someone you just met about their genitalsIt's much weirder to spend 3 months courting her and pretending like it would be fine either way only to be fully disgusted when she takes off her pants and then you have to break up.I know trannies don't like to be honest because they hope to spring the truth on a guy once he's emotionally invested so that he's more likely to stick around but also this is why trannies are beaten to death by the men they court.
>>43708177It's all those things to be socially female.. what we consider as feminine, or womanly is socially constructed.
>>43706520Not if you're meeting one another for the purposes of fucking.
>>43708216thank you. I was feeling like I was crazy with so many people disagreeing with me
>>43708216In your scenario, it never happens.
>>43708177you need everything retard. one single thing is not enough
>>43708112>Tinder isn't a sex site you fuckin perv, that's Grindr.Tinder is a hookup/fuck buddy appGrindr is an anonymous gay cruising app.Neither is remotely for finding a relationship
>>43706481I mean I feel like it's reasonable to wait a smidge before asking that sort of thing? If some girl asked you immediately what your dick size was it would be a little rude. Any cis girl would want you to wait before asking something similarly personal. Go on a couple dates first or at least be chatting for a while before it's brought up, girls don't like it when you jump straight to sex questions. She would want to see if there's at least chemistry and compatibility and the potential for dating/fucking before sharing something like that.
>>43708251>Idiot unaware of the state of modern dating
>>43708297you are a retard. I don't go on dates with guys in the hope they are actually secretly women. Stop wasting my time
>>43708236Yeah trannies want to pretend it's ludicrous to ask them about their genitals because you'd never ask a ciswoman about her genitals. But there's no sane question to ask about a ciswoman's genitals. She's cis, we know by default that we are sexually compatible. Sure you can ask aa ciswoman questions like>does the carpet match the drapes?>do them beef curtains hang low?>do it stank?But those are genuinely off putting perverted questions. Asking>do you have a dick?Is extremely reasonable if you don't want to have sex with someone that has a dick.
>>43708248ok so you admit that if trans women pass and are on hrt and have a vagina they’re biological females
>>43708341yes. but you have to cross all the boxes, and you don't
>>43708329seems like she just figured out that you’d be wasting her time though. you just seem upset at the means she used to tell that you don’t see her as a woman because she’s preopanyways this whole convo makes me want to make a tinder and literally just waste men’s time
>>43708309Point out exactly where I am wrong. The most serious relationship I've ever seen spawn from tinder is a situationship. There are apps geared towards actual connection building, tinder is not it.
is hinge where you’re meant to go if you’re a preop tranny who is planning to get srs soon and wants a bf
>>43708359LOL you got psyopped by OP to waste your time and have men on tinder call you a tranny, he’s literally rent free in your head and will be for decades
>>43708359>makes me want to make a tinder and literally just waste men’s timelet's be honest, when a hot guy gives you the least amount of attention, you'll let him pump and dump you even though your objective was "just trolling"people like you just can't help but get blacked
>>43708388making a tinder profile and then not answering all of the men who add me isn’t really wasting my time
>>43708394i don’t think this would happen. i’m not really the type to fall for people online
>>43708414you're totally getting syphilis
>>43708112>low value male can smell a low value male
Most people asking about the gock use absolutely zero tact. Just like>hi>hey>do you have a dick>*blocked*Because 9/10 if I respond and say>yes im planning on getting srs>how big can I suck it It always goes some weird fetishy way. The only appropriate way to ask is >can i ask you kind of a uncomfortable question>yes >have you had srs?That is so much more respectful. Everytime a guy took the ladder approach they where much more pleasant to speak with and almost never got weird or creepy. In other words;Skill issue.
>>43706532Youre a shitty chaser chud>this is a sex siteNot really. Tinder even flags super inappropriate messages. Tinder has potential for just sex and potential for more. It depends on who's using it.
>>43708662This is the only counter argument in the thread that I agree with. Tact is pretty much always the difference between getting what you want and being filtered.
