Today was the 4th time my mother has come up to ask me if I've ever wanted to be a girl and give me the typical christian monologue about god making me with a purpose. She even compared stuff like this to a vice like drinking. I've been on injections for 2 years and look rather feminine. Not to mention summer is coming and my odds of having my cover blown are high this time around. I'm not mad at her and i understand why she may think these things even separately from her faith, but i obviously won't just de-transition cause they want me to. i just feel like something bad may happen soon if i can't explain myself.
>>43711142Idk, I've been an alcoholic and a tranny and I can say those are very different things, so she's off the mark on that one. If you're living with her, ia it possible to move? I'd do that before telling her if you do think something bad will happen
>>43711142>Today was the 4th time my mother has come up to ask me if I've ever wanted to be a girl and give me the typical christian monologue about god making me with a purposeTell her that purpose is to be a good wife to a big strong Christian man
>>43711142Start getting things ready in case you have to leave. Collect canned food, have a suitcase ready, money saved, couches to surf, etc.I'm sorry it's like this fren
>>43711237>>43711273I don't think they would kick me out or threaten violence, but it would put a strain on family relations. Honestly I hate the idea of putting them off at all but I can't just let them walk over me whenever the beans get spilt.>>43711264Not entirely inaccurate, but it would be a whole other can of worms to bring him into the equation too.
>>43711785It's a just in case senpai. They might also make it unbearable to stay; purposely or not. People don't handle change well and some parents see transition as you killing and replacing their child akin to possession. Doubly so if they're religious
Just start talking about your faith a lot. They see transsexualism as a threat to their values. If you show them that you can share their values and their faith and still be transsexual, maybe they’d be more likely to accept you. Maybe do the whole Marcy Rheintgen Pariah The Doll religious larp.
>>43711785Maybe they could come around eventually? They've been told all their life that being trans is evil, maybe it could be argued that the bible doesn't condemn it the same way it condemns something like sodomy.Don't engage in direct argument though, that also won't work in a situation like this.
>>43711142>She hasnt been charecter locked to the sweater even during summer since she was a teenagerFaketran desu
Your mother is based and should be president
>>43712360USian christians don't actually read or follow the Bible
>>43712485They're apostates like all protestoids
>>43712247Fair. Fair.>>43712324>>43712360I don't really know how well I could play that role given that i'm mostly agnostic (though my lover is christian). I guess I could hinge my faith around the one quote saying eunuchs are okay but still. Plus assuming these arguments wouldn't win them over they'd still call me a filthy sodomite.>>43712368>17: start hrt. wear a hoodie all the time that summer even if it's not entirely necessary>18: still wearing hoodies and hunching over, can't go swimming anymore.>19 (present): shape shows through hoodie, have to wear very thick and draped layers and hunch all the time. Plain t-shirts are an absolute no go.
>>43711142Don’t get sucked into having a debate with your parents like a sperg. If they find out just put your foot down and tell them that it’s your own life to do what you want with, they don’t have to approve or even acknowledge it if they don’t want to.
>>43712672do they know you have a lover?
I know having conservative parents sucks but having shitlib parents really is hardly better. My mom wishes I was gay and relishes in doing my make-up, i.e. on Halloween (vampire 6 years in a row) but the second I begin growing out my hair or she sees my feminine skincare products she starts pearl clutching so hard. Progressives love trannies until it's their own kids
>>43712955been there. she cried when 14 year old beanmoder suggested puberty blockers. or maybe she didnt and i cried instead idk i think she gave me cptsd
at the end of the day you just always gotta live your life.
>>43712955lmao, it took my chud dad 1.5 months of the stupidest tranny jokes I have ever heard to become completely fine with it and librul mom is still coming to terms with it even though she tried to be enthusiastic at first
>>43713048my dad is even like "wow i heard about this lady who's actually a man, she's just like you isn't that cool son?" and he is entirely genuine and happy to support support me being on fucking estrogen, its kind of hilarious
>>43713048>>43713091desu i think the main thing is my dad just isn't a religious man. My mom still subscribes to there being purpous and meaning in the world in a way my dad doesn't. If I was in a religious family I imagine my situation would be similar to OP.
Same situation
>>43711142Honestly maybe you shouldn't tell them unless you're already independent
>>43712907>>43713028Obviously i'm not gonna bicker with them over any of this, but im worried that when it comes to them asking "why would you do this" I won't be able to find a suitable answer.>>43712923No. I keep them in the dark about everything.>>43712955Kinda true, liberals love to lie to your face.
>>43714018Aren’t you doing this to become the person you want to be? That’s a good reason that should be simple to understand.
>>43712955Moms only want you to be gay if the alternative is being a tranny
>>43711142Say covid vaccine side effect duh
>>43711142Move out. Then you can tell them anything, or nothing ever again. Whatever you do, do it with conviction and certainty, because people will chisel away at your psyche constantly if they sense you wavering.
Why does she think she knows god any better than you.
