>assigned male by doctor>assigned only female roles by societywow good prank guys i sure am loving this
>>43714428More like feminized male roles
>>43714438i have literally never held a male jobthe closest ive got to a truly male social experience is hanging out with twinks in my early 20smen have used me all my life as an emotional support servicei dont think of myself as such, but everything i look at tells me that these are supposed to be experiences reserved for womenso why the fuck am i here?
>>43714428stop posting my husband thanks
>>43714467You're just coping trying to feel you're more like a woman
>>43714467>men have used me all my life as an emotional support servicethis is low key a male trait, most men are hesitant to open up emotionally to women
>>43714478our husband (im not op im a third party anon)
>>43714490i sincerely wish i was>>43714514oh ofc, ive no doubt that being male is the immediate facilitator but the concept of emotional labour is kinda my point here. ive been expected to manage mens emotions since puberty in a way i just dont see other guys being asked to do.
>>43714859it's a sign of high trust that you're the one they open up to, that says something good about you usually. you know the ol "would you rather talk to a woman or a tree" thing
>>43715035>it's a sign of high trust that you're the one they open up to, that says something good about you usually. you know the ol "would you rather talk to a woman or a tree" thingive never heard this, but i hope its true. i just feel so defeated lately and there is not a soul on earth i can seemingly find who can relate to my bizarre upbringing.
>>43715247there's a common trend of experiences, for example the ones listed in https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/1cyic5z/would_you_rather_share_your_emotions_with_a_woman/so them opening up to you means you show something that doesn't trigger their "man who won't open up/woman who will use it against me or think less of me" guard reflexbut do put on your own oxygen mask first, you need to take care of yourself. for example, normally I'd ask you about>i hope its true. i just feel so defeated lately and there is not a soul on earth i can seemingly find who can relate to my bizarre upbringing.but the reality is I have not enough time-energy to do that now and to also handle the deadlines I have in <4 hours, tomorrow, and the day after, and it would be inappropriate to ask for your discord to talk either, and who knows if I'll be able to relate or make you feel understood, so I'll just close 4chan and try to get my work done insteadsorry anon, I hope you find someone who can relate
>>43715247I relate but I was turned into a man/woman who had to do both roles. For me it happened because my cisgender people couldn't complete their own roles (caretaking, emotional labor, physical labor, handy work, taking initiative, planning etc) so the labor was offloaded onto nearby gender non-conforming people. I think a lot of generic brand cis people can escape this fate because people will assume they won't do it/can't do it due to societal conditioning.
>>43714428Sex is perceived (by anyone), not "assigned by doctors", demented moron
>>43714467why are you so autistic (cognitively rigid and hyperfocused) about male/female roles?
>>43714514>this is low key a male trait, most men are hesitant to open up emotionally to womenmen loooove going on and on about their emotions to any "safe" woman or gay male. the code of silence between guys trumps everything
>>43716540What is sex, then?
>>43716246understandable, take care anon.>>43716455this is broadly my experience too. its like pulling a double shift with these people where they want both things in equal measure from you at times.>>43716540hmm, i dunno about that>>43716553youve kinda got it exactly backwards. id really prefer it if most people adopted androgynous behaviour profiles, but they just dont. they confine themselves to this little box they got put in as a kid and seek to outsource every task that cant be easily done in that box to others.>>43716564this has kinda been my observation desu. guys seem to live in low trust environments a lot.>>43716611whatever gets him access to children, presumably
>>43716540found the terfit is assigned. fuck off
>>43714467>open trans thread>outdated gender roles, narcissism, and unwarranted entitlement>close trans thread
>I feel like I'm a woman because I don't check enough sexist man boxesThis is the retardation that birthed NBs.Everyone will feel this way about a proportion of their lives and a huge amount of men, e.g., will actively try to avoid "doing things women do" out of neurotic fear.But if you use sexist horoscopes to determine your "gender" from behavior, you could STILL be clocked as "girly" or whatever.
>>43717667>its like pulling a double shiftYeah... No breaks. And if you're trans/gnc you get half the reward for it in the long term. There's no winning unfortunately.
>>43718135wow how insightful its almost as if were forced to live in other peoples outdated bullshit but by all means make my life experiences about you>>43718192this is the point, dumbass>>43718311unfortunately real. hell it was the case even when i was a twink, not that the above retards would understand that.
>the virgin "waah people dont limit me to the rigid gender rolls since im a queermo and already beyond the pale">the chad "im not limited by your normgroid shackles now, I get to do whatever you want you cucks"cbt it up a little op jeez youre such a whiny manwoman
Taking the female role for sexual congress, after being assigned the male role at birth, is NOT the most fundamentally humiliating and degrading thing that can happen to a human being.The most fundamentally humiliating and degrading thing is to have that happen, and to like it. Or to not have that happen, but take concrete steps to try and make it happen. Actually, yeah, that's the worst option.
>>43720833>>43720810what the fuck are either of you talking about
society is built upon hypocrisy and injustice but you cant bring it up or you get shit on nuh uh uh dont say a word
>>43720833based mefsissymoder
>>43720833those thighs though, god I'd love to get my face between them
Sucks to suck
you can find another doctor to change the assignment
>>43714859>i sincerely wish i wasThen change into one. Transitioning is an option.
>>43720833>Taking the female role for sexual congress, after being assigned the male role at birth, is NOT the most fundamentally humiliating and degrading thing that can happen to a human being.>The most fundamentally humiliating and degrading thing is to have that happen, and to like it. Or to not have that happen, but take concrete steps to try and make it happen. Actually, yeah, that's the worst option.I hate moids. Being a woman is not degrading. Imitating a woman is not degrading. Womanhood and femininity are not degrading. The receiving partner in sex is not lesser than the giving partner.
>>43730761much as we might like to believe that, we both know thats false>>43730709all i can possibly get from this is the vain assertion of the last laugh, and for that punishment is certain
>>43731182> much as we might like to believe that, we both know thats falseYour hatred of women is not an objective universal truth, you're just, you personally, a misogynistic moid.
>>43731231my hatred of women? i think you misunderstand, i mean womens hatred of women.
