>be me>have trans gf>trans gf wont dress up in girl clothes or put on makeup when we go out>she passes without all that, never gets misgendered>still insists on dressing like a fat autistic nerd (hoodie in warm weather lol)>is obviously still a girl despite the retarded clothing>starts crying if i try to pressure her to wear girl clothes when we go out>ok whatever, i wont bother>she has now become obsessed with changing my style (which is typically just a t-shirt (to show my moskles) and jeans)>sends me clothes to buy while i'm at work>say i'll change style if she stops wearing hoodies>she ignores, sends more clothes for me to buy>be me>taking a shit at work while being paid>be me>have a retarded gf
okay? if she's being retarded and won't actually be your GIRLfriend then put your foot down. ultimatum, breakup if necessary, go get an actual gf and not an insecure moder
>>43716044Lol, I'm probably like you're gf.She probably has brainworms and is struggling to take the next step because she's scared she'll be clocky and embarrass you. You should find some place to go where she feels safe girlmoding so she can get her confidence up like a card game local or something. Maybe even encourage her to take a makeup lesson so she can have someone more knowledgeable guide her
She's just wormed. Love the brain worms out of her anon
>>43716044Dump her ass ASAP, it'll only get worse
replies split exactly 50/50 lmao
>>43716044kill her
>>43716044keep her alive!
>>43716044>sends me clothes to buy while i'm at workwhat clothes is she sending you?
>>43716044You need to take her someplace fancy that'll make her feel guilty if she backs out and out of place if she doesn't dress up
>>43717389Big brain idea, nice sorta formal event is about the only way people can guilt me into girlmoding atp
>>43718149Nigga no one is taking your troon ass to a nice sorta formal event :skullemoji:
>>43716044As with many relationship challenges, direct communication and compromise is the answer!Find a calm, safe time and place for this conversation. Say you want to talk about her suggestions for your clothes. Tell her that you’re open to the idea and want to make her happy, but it makes you feel ignored and unimportant that she appears unwilling to reciprocate. Directly suggest a 1:1 trade (have this ready to go before the conversation). Pick whatever suggestion of hers that she seemed most excited about, and say you’ll buy it and wear it if she buys and wears [insert one specific suggestion from you]. If she says she’s open to the idea, but doesn’t like your specific pick, express gratitude and joy but remain firm: you aren’t buying yours until she actually accepts a specific suggestion from you.Honestly, if she can’t handle a conversation set up like this or outright refuses the trade, you should consider it a red flag. You WILL have harder challenges to get through as a couple if you stay together—she needs at least the bare minimum abilities required to be in a healthy, adult relationship.
>>43716044She's acting exactly like a woman with autism. Congratulations, there's undeniable proof she's a woman.
>>43718216It's just family shit, like having to go out for a nice mothers Day brunch.
>>43718149It's what I use to force myself into nicer clothes. I lazymode nowadays mostly unless it's for something like this. I need a specific reason to dress up in order to dress up.
>>43716044She knows better than you you idiot hugboxxer. If she dresses like a girl all of those confused shes and hers will turn into hims and sirs very quickly. You wouldnt get it maybe she should honmode one time just so you can see how that works
>>43719070Are you a MTF? I ask because I’m a bi man who has dated both men and women (cis only), and I feel like this is an almost perfect example of “fembrained” response. So…congrats?>Bf: Hey can you wear this? It would make me happy if you did. :)>Gf: Omg no, because complete strangers (whose opinions I value more than yours) might hypothetically disagree! I get to pick YOUR clothes tho, teehee.
>>43716044do picrel to her
If she actually passes: buy her an outfit and make her wear it and hold her hand so she feels less anxiousIf she doesnt actually pass: dont be mean to her and make her do it, break up with her if its such a dealbreaker
>>43716044>OP pic relwhy do people hate eachother so much nowadays?
