if i'm an trans women and i'm NOT asexual but at the same time i am unwilling to perform penetrative sex (with my genitals) or engage in anal sex (as the receiving partner) due to dysphoria and various hangups and i know it will never get better, does that mean i can never have a romantic partner? because i can't date normal people bc they would want sex, and i can't date asexual people because i'm not asexual and i still get horny. is there any hope for me? i'm bi btw
>>43718509How do you imagine being intimate with your partner?
>>43718551i don't know. any kind of penetrative sex other than PIV with me having the vagina makes me uncomfortable and i'm not convinced by SRS. so as i said penetrative sex is off the table. i'm very interested in cuddling and kissing although i'm not sure if i'll like it because i'm a KHHV. i think i would enjoy touching the nude body of a person of either gender, and perhaps perform manual sex on them, but oral on either set of genitals seems sort of gross to me but especially blowjobs. in terms of intimacy i don't think i would want anyone to see or touch anywhere below the waist but above might be ok. i understand that this is really weird, that i'm really weird, and that this would be a dealbreaker for almost anyone.
>>43718612>i understand that this is really weird, that i'm really weird, and that this would be a dealbreaker for almost anyoneIm just saying that because it's usually easier to figure things out if you can put them in words and so others can also understand what you expect/want
>>43718612Its a dealbreaker for some people but some guys do like getting head way more than sex and with girls you can just use a dildo or be a service top or whatever they call it.
>>43718934i don't want to do blowjobs because i think they are grossi don't want to top or use a strap on
I know trannies are autistic males but DAMN this one is busted up
>>43718509In the gay male community it isn't unusual for partners to one or both not want or need anal sex. For many blowjobs and hand jobs are fine, and frotting is the romantic loving equivalent of penetrative sex since it's comfortable and you can kiss while doing it easily.You'll be fine and you'll get used to doing the above since it's not stressful on the body. If you don't want your penis touched, there are still some men who will be fine with cuddling as long as you touch them. Though to be honest, letting your partner caress a part you're so sensitive about, as long as you love each other, I imagine would be very meaningful to them as well.
>>43719022that's not nice
>>43719023frotting or anything involving my dick is completely off the table
>>43718509I'm in the exact same boat so if you find out lemme know
>>43718509If you can do bj and jerk off and allow to do the same for you then that would be ideal for me cause I'm not into penetrative sex myself.t. transbian
>>43719023also, don't compare me to a gay male. i'm nothing like a gay male. my sexuality, my feelings, my needs and wants, and even my biology (because i transitioned before puberty) is nothing like a gay male. i find this comparison very offensive and i think you should consider the implications before you make statements like these
>>43719184why does it matter to you that your partner let you touch their genitals as well? i hope this question doesn't come off as rude, i'm genuinely curious. wouldn't that just be more work for you?
That's rough.>>43718612Given all of this I think your best bet is a woman (trans or not). Men are too demanding sexually speaking.
>>43719245i think you might be right. that's kind of a shame though because i like men more than i like women.
>>43719260It is what it is. There might be a few men out there willing to enter a relationship like this but I'd assume most of them would start demanding sex sooner or later. Of the few that wouldn't, I'd assume something is off with them, and that (whatever that is) might or might not be a dealbreaker for you.
>>43719242I just feel more satisfied if my partner can be sexually satisfied by me and I love giving petting as well and I'm also very touchy.
>>43719749but is it necessary? would it be acceptable if they didn't want that? why or why not?
>>43720083idk maybe i can accept that but I'd feel like you're not really interested in me sexually and this whole thing just bothers you and I'd be unable to trust you completely and this would prolly lead to no sex at all
>>43718509looool kys
>>43718509fuuuck i'm worried this is gonna be me. virgin still but I can't jerk off the normal way
>>43721693and no i'm not circumcised
>>43721698what does that have to do with it?
>>43718509probably not
>>43718509Hi what country?
>>43723451USA northeast
>>43723504FUCKt.canada
>>43718509bump
