im a ftm midshit 2.5 years on hrt, ive never had a girlfriend but i have this cisbi female friend who recently got out of a relationship, we've been friends for a while and talk relatively every day. she is really pretty and we share a lot of common interests like touhou, figure collecting, and visual novels. we're also the same age (18) i've had been infatuated with her for a while and she'd always be jokingly flirty with me and she would call me cute often. i know my circumstances but i truly thought i had a chance until she told me about this one guy she met and who she thought about confessing to and it ruined me. i had my whole life planned out with this girl. we have all these things in common and share the same views and principles. and i keep thinking about what i don't have that this guy has, im not really tall (5'7~) but shes 4'11. and i know she doesn't think im ugly. it all comes down to having a penis. if i was cis me and her would've been together and i'd probably had gotten her pregnant by now.is being a straight t4c ftm really this brutal? do i declare celibacy and move to tibet to become a monk? do i just call her a whore and move on?
malebrained post, she just found another guy bro, you got friendzoned women are just bitches like that sometimes. call her a whore and move on trust me it feels AMAZING it makes everything easier and im not even giving bad advice as a joke, villinize her in your head as much as possible because she literally is a whore yeah
>>43725396Oh girl, don't call her whore. Women hate that more than anything
>>43725447i cant really blame her, if i was a cis girl i'd also hate to be with a guy who doesn't even have a dick. i'd wish her the worst but i truly see where she's coming from. and i know the friendship is coming to a close because she's been acting distant and all she ever talks about is this new guy, its just disheartening
>>43725497have some faith in yourself or else youll get no bitches dumbassuse assertive language not passive languagedont say>i understand her, im fundimentally lacking as a mando say>fuck that bitch fucking superficial whore i hope she dies
>>43725497also dont let her keep talking about the guy either cut her off your or tell her that it makes you uncomfortable i cannot stress this enough, it wont get better if you jst let it happen
>>43725541*off your life
>>43725497If you know the friendship is ending anyways might as well ask her out. For what it’s worth my bf is trans. No man can match silicone.
>>43725396there's no way 18 year old afabs talk about touhou and visual novelsthis has to be fake
>>43725396wow, you really are a man
>>43725447yeah this. shes a dumb whore. move on to the next
>>43725396how tall is the guy she's going aftermodern cis foids are unironically evil date a trans woman instead
>>43725396>>43725497cis man here, it's literally the EXACT same feeling if you're a cis and you're just not tall enough for a girl or dominant/sexy enough or your dick isn't big enough. same shit. welcome to not being Chad
>>43725497ask her out right now or you're a cuck OP, the friendzone is basically a cuck chair
>>43725396>im not really tall (5'7~) but shes 4'11LMAO thinking even a 4'11 girl doesn't think she deserves a 6'2+ man. literal 2/10 foids think they deserve top men in 2026, there is absolutely zero self awareness in women's standards don't kid yourself
>>43725541yeah, i know ur right. it's a shame but theres honestly really nothing special about her. i just felt attached to her>>43725612don't be a retarded snark>>43726079i have no idea but i assume taller. idk about trans women because sex dimorphism is brutal, i wouldn't want to be the shorter one in the relationship
>>43726256>i wouldn't want to be the shorter one in the relationshipmy bf is 5'6" and i'm 5'5" and we're both trans, it's possible, your height is actually pretty good for a trans guy
>>43725396>>43725447wow youre both fucking idiots
>>43725396>Is being a straight t4c ftm really this brutal?Yes it is and cisbi women will hurt you in ways unimaginable.
>>43725396Disregard the morons above. Have you considered that you should have acted earlier instead of sitting on your ass? Why didn't you ask her out back when she was calling you cute?
>>43725396>i had my whole life planned outstop doing thatIt's ruining your day and your ability to planif you're planning your life do it for you, don't indulge too much in these fantasies about specific people in your life until you've actually been with them for a couple years
>>43726492nta but in what world is a girl calling you "cute" a good thingthat's a one way ticket to the friendzone
>>43726288good hopefuel. trans females also have this human quality that cisf dont usually have unless autistic>>43726492i didn't really want to seem like i was molesting her, i really really liked her and any romantic gesture felt like i was sullying her>>43726579it didn't seem to me like a deprecating thing, she would only pay attention to me in a group of people and also was just pretty affectionate towards me
>>43726579>>43726847You're both retarded and destined to die alone unless you grow a brain. Children are like blind kittens, I swear to God.When a girl calls you cute, it's a very good thing and usually means she has a crush on you. Even if she doesn't, you can make her like you: be good company, buy her flowers, take her on a date.>sullyI don't believe you are 18. I'd say 16 or so.
>>43726971i'm just speaking from experience one of my friends was speaking to the girls in my school and they said how another of my friends was 'cute' and it gave them 'maternal instincts'i wanted to throw up
>>43726847>trans females also have this human quality that cisf dont usually have unless autistici've heard this before and my boyfriend has also said this to me but idk what it means
>>43726985>one of my friends was speaking to the girls in my school and they said how another of my friends was 'cute' and it gave them 'maternal instincts'anon that is polite code for 'he looks so vulnerable, i would fuck the shit out of him'. are you stupid.
>>43725396>do i declare celibacy and move to tibet to become a monk?You're 18 this will be literally nothing to you in 2 years
>average human experience
>>43726971i don't feel like its too outlandish to say. i feel bad for expressing romantic attention because people's normal reaction to someone trans finding interest in them is usually disgust, any usual girl i feel like im violating her just by being around her>>43727163i know, its not like that hasn't been on my mind, im just complaining about the current. which most people do
>>43727348>im just complaining about the current>"i had my whole life planned out with this girl.">was just talking about celibacy and being a tibetan monkAnd the future
