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What are your relationship goals?
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>>43727428
watching youtube videos together while cuddling and pausing occasionally to talk about fonts or some stupid shit
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>>43727428
1. Find a girl (either cis or trans) who accepts me for who I am, a quirky guy who has weird interests and does crossplay
2. Make myself more effeminate while still being male
3. Make her happy in a mutually beneficial relationship where we enjoy each other's presence and have fun supporting our interests
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>>43727464
Are you a masc guy into tall skinny twinks?
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a bf who asks me for money and lies and says he isnt gonna spend it on drugs and then does. i wanna drive my future husband to the strip club and casino and have beers in my car for him to drink on the way there. who gets out of jail and knocks on my window at 4am to wake me up. a man who puts holes in the wall over video games.... sighs whistfully
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>>43727428
I'd like to meet my person to grow old with. I'm turning 40 this year.
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>>43727791
no im a tranny who wants to molt into a cis woman and then cuddle with my hypothetical lesbian girlfriend
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>>43727856
you don't actually want that, it's just externalized suicidal ideation
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>>43727428
To break up soon
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>>43728054
Good for you but that’s a shame I like your idea of love
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>>43728161
i had one but he left because he couldn't like abuse me because i was just willing to do everything anyways. it kinda sux being someone who actually wants to put up with it because then they don't want u :/
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>>43728184
again, you just want someone who will eventually kill you because you're suicidal
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>>43727791
Perchance, are you a tall skinny twink into short skinny twinks?
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>>43727428
monogamous onlyfans couple incase she can't have kids

if we can have kids i want to make 4-5 with her and make her a housewife BUT the economy makes that impossible
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Finding a girl who will love me and I love them back.
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>>43727428
>What are your relationship goals?

Falling in love with a woman and making each other happy, adopting a child together, being a work-from-home mom and homeschooling our daughter, greeting my wife with a kiss every time she comes home from work.
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suicide pact relationship
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we each continue learning for all our lives; our home has a study and we talk to and teach each other about the things we are learning. we play games together. we cook together. we travel the world and enjoy the beauty of nature and human creation. we have beautiful and loving sex and cut and beat and subjugate each other and we smile and kiss and like it
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>>43731366
that's adorable
are you looking for girls or guys?
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>>43731378
i have a particular girl in my dreams :)
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>>43731392

I hope you make her very happy and vice versa XD
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Someone I can just talk with non-stop, someone that knows how to cook well, is insular like me and prefers chilling at home, would consider it peak to wear pantyhose while I rub her thighs and we cuddle and watch movies, and is okay with me taking my job seriously and being absent at times because of that.
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boymoder early trans to forcefem her qnd turn her into my wife
got step 1 and found one. step 2 is her moving with me in a few weeks
wish me luck anons and nonas
t. romantic bichad
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>>43731439
>Someone I can just talk with non-stop, someone that knows how to cook well, is insular like me and prefers chilling at home, would consider it peak to wear pantyhose while I rub her thighs and we cuddle and watch movies, and is okay with me taking my job seriously and being absent at times because of that.

waow
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>>43731460

good luck anon, make her very happy!
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>>43727428
someone who loves me and doesnt care i got bpd t.t
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>>43731524
date someone else with bpd
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>>43731530

As someone without bpd, wouldn't that just make it worse? You'd have two emotionally unstable people instead of one unstable one and one that might kind of ground her.
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>>43731543
the normal person usually doesnt know how to handle it and then gives up at some point
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>>43731530
trvke
>>43731543
no bc it would be two mentally unstable people helping each other grow and also understanding each other more than a non-bpd person would
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To get over any feeling of wanting to be loved hopefully, because im terrified of intimacy, im unsightly, self centered and vain, so I cant stand to want or let anyone love me because nobody should stoop down to as low as wanting me, literally anyone else would be better for them, though I try to do what I can for others its only fair for anyone who has to bear with my existence.

Although, id like to look nice someday at least, for the sake of anyone who has to see me and my own gratification.
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>>43731439
>Someone I can just talk with non-stop, someone that knows how to cook well, is insular like me and prefers chilling at home, would consider it peak to wear pantyhose while I rub her thighs and we cuddle and watch movies, and is okay with me taking my job seriously and being absent at times because of that.

Are you a girl or a guy?
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>>43731608
Guy
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my relationship goal is to become the slave of a hot girl. She can dispose of me, hit me, break me, beat me up when she comes back from work and the meal I cooked for her is ready, use me as a footrest after diner while she's cracking a beer on the sofa and watching a movie. I'd pretty much accept anything because I'm a low value waste of oxygen
>why are you mentally ill?
I have been neglected, physically and mentally abused by my mom. she was beating me up regularly. I've been bullied at school by girls very often.
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>>43731672
when a man is abused by women god flips a coin on how he turns out
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>>43731658
>Guy

This is the LGBT board and you described a straight relationship, so... are you trans or are you looking for someone who's trans?
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>>43731702
What's the other outcome?
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>>43731750
womanbeater + emotionally abusive
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>>43731744
I am bi, trans would be fine.
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>>43731780
>>43731750
>>43731672
my relationship goal is to have a defacto house slave, i want to hit her, break her, beat her up, i wanna come home from work and have a hot meal made for me, i want to use her asscheeks as stress balls while i crack open a beer or 10 on the sofa while watching the sopranos. she'd have to accept nearly anything because she's my beloved waste of oxygen
>why are you mentally ill?
i was neglected, starved, physically and mentally abused by my mom (and dad), ive been bullied at school by girls very often
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>>43731809
>I am bi, trans would be fine.

I hope "I am bi" is to explain that you are a part of the LGBT community and not to imply that only people who are bi can be attracted to trans people. Saying the latter would be off-putting to trans people.
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>>43731850
Read it as two statements. I am here because I am bi. I would be okay with dating a trans girl. I am bisexual, not biromantic. I wouldn't want to be in a relationship with a man.
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>>43731879
I get that we both probably have autism since we're on this site but separate statements are usually separated with a . and not a ,
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>>43731812
Huh, I thought people usually try to break the cycle with stuff like that, the more you know
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>>43731891
Nigga stfu
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>>43731702
>>43731750
>>43731812
i did not choose to become a sexual degenerate who's so afraid of women they hate them and love them so much at the same time. I can see in their eyes how much they wished I was dead when they accidentally enter eye contact with me. I can only think of submitting to them, completely unable to treat them the way normal guys do. I also cannot use my cock btw. I really wish I could stop seeing them as goddesses, I know they're all evil frauds but I can't stop, I'm terminally ill and cooked I should get castrated
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>>43731905
i tried to break the cycle but my ex breaking up made me relapse, so i get to blame it on another woman yet again, maybe if i find my real actual lover itll all be fine and we'll be dinks with 2 dogs and a cat
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>>43731914
you're not gonna find a sweet girl by being racist lmao
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>>43731406
thank you nonny <3 i hope so too....i hope all of your personal dreams come true as well :)
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>>43731976
My bad for misspelling nigger
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>>43731920
>i did not choose to become a sexual degenerate who's so afraid of women they hate them
>I know they're all evil frauds but I can't stop

I mean, at least you can still hate them too, maybe u still have a chance to find a balance, better than only being able to hate yourself otherwise you'd have nout to bring yaself back to ur senses
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>>43727428
Ideally find a cis wife to start a family with. Realistically find a trans wife or bottom hubby to grow old with
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>>43731934
>my ex breaking up made me relapse, so i get to blame it on another woman

Please don't do that lol
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>>43727428
To fall in love with a girl over the internet, spend some months or years pining for eachother until we meet up and move in together. Somebody to be mine forever. Figuring life out with somebody at my side who cares abt me and i care abt her.
Somebody who is a homebody, and also a loser like me, and is into (mostly) the same hobbies and passions as i am. manifesting for the big 26 or 27,,

and also somebody who can breed me every night too i guess.
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>>43732049
i also hate myself very much but I'm not desperate enough to rope. I wish I could get into a normal traditional relationship with a woman but I will never be allowed this and even if I was given a chance I would still fuck it up because I'm a parody of a man.
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>>43732110
>even if I was given a chance I would still fuck it up because I'm a parody of a man

Ditto(5'4 balding ugly turbotwink) but if you put enough effort in on looks and force yourself to be confident and normal and dont aim too high, with some trial and error experience its doable, dunno after that though, I tried a couple times but imploded from guilt very quickly
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>>43732065
are you transbian and where are you from?
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>>43732468
i'm a cisf lesbian from the UK, hopefully i'll have it someday soon
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>>43732065
>into (mostly) the same hobbies and passions as i am

What hobbies and passions are those?

> and also somebody who can breed me every night too i guess.

Would you do it to her too or are you just looking for a top?
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>>43732533
>What hobbies and passions are those?
I don't have any hobbies that are super niche honestly, video games, movies (esp horror), TV, pokemon, music, travelling is nice in moderation but i can tend to get overstimulated if i do too much too quickly

> Would you do it to her too or are you just looking for a top?
I'm a switch that prefers being a bottom but it'd be a crying shame if i never breed my future wife, too
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>>43732584
>I don't have any hobbies that are super niche honestly, video games, movies (esp horror), TV, pokemon, music, travelling is nice in moderation but i can tend to get overstimulated if i do too much too quickly

You seem cool, do you wanna talk off site? Do you have matrix or something?
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>>43732669
I'd be up for it but i'm too normie and only rlly use discord
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>>43732685
>I'd be up for it but i'm too normie and only rlly use discord

I use Discord, that works for me. Are you comfortable putting your handle on here or, how do you wanna do it?
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>>43732704
sure, i don't mind, it's.bunny.paws.
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Passoid trans woman gf or cis woman gf
She is pretty
She is intelligent and curious
Makes me laugh a lot
Doesn't hit me or emotionally abuse me
We have sex 2 to 6 times per week
We play videogames together
We rent an apartment together and eventually buy a house or condo
She is woke but lets me say lines like "diddy ahh foid" but sometimes I go too hard and have to say sorry
Likes my cooking
Likes my artwork
Gets me a "worlds best gf" apron that I wear while standing at the grill during barbeque night
We go to a show or movie or something and she rests her head on my shoulder
Read books in bed together silently in our pajamas before bed and we each have our own night stand and lamp.
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>>43733148
>woke but lets me say lines like "diddy ahh foid"

Is that possible?
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Date a bear who’s atleast 10 years older than me (Mtf) and calms my daddy problems. Also he would be a lil kinky maybe play with my cage or pee fantasies or whatever.
Do bears even go for trans girls? Or are they strictly gay ;-;
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>>43727428
I kinda stopped having relationship goals once I realized most people's goals are just what they're expected to have. Travel, marriage, and kids. Not to think I'm better than others but most people are sheep. Seldom do you meet someone who's relationship goals are being honest with each other or not afraid to wear your heart on your sleeve. At this point I'd just take mature enough to be able to chill and fuck until the passion is gone and move on without the need for drama or emotional abuse.
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I want a throuple
A man and a woman.
And I'm the the weird trans one they bully for being uglier then them in every way possible.
But you know, they still love me
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>>43732746
i'm not who you were chatting with, but do you have an email? i'd like someone to sometimes pen pal with
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>>43727428
safe. stable. protected. peaceful.
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>>43733709
not a public one, i'm afraid, idk if it's something i'd remember to upkeep for long enough to be worth it, as nice as it sounds
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>>43733749
</3 may i add you on discord then?
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>>43733811
go for it, we can just treat the discord message as emails anyway <:



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