How can I find someone who wants an actual romantic relationship and doesnt see me as someone they use for their fetishes on the side? Im a feminine twink (possibly repper) and the men interested in me are usually "bi' guys who are into women and feminine boys but only want to use those boys for their fetishes on the side while they only be with women when it comes to anything serious and longterm
>>43727872Oh baby this is it There’s no special guy out there who wants a long term monogamous non closeted relationship with a pretty twink we’re pump & dump dolls for perverts
>>43727872How can I find someone who understands kinks can very much be a healthy part of an intense romantic relationship and hasn't been psyoped into some puritan bullshit where sex and kinks needs to constantly be ashamed about
>>43728061This girls treats her mints right but if they want to fuck around and play mind games with me, then they will be treated the way they do to me. Like trash.
>>43727872Uh hi I'm in the same situation do u wanna go on a date
>>43727872Be friends before dating. Don't have sex until the 3rd or 4th date. Make them work a little. There are procedures for talking to someone seriously
>>43728061Wish I could be a normal straight guy instead of a pathetic faggot, seeing how some of these men act actually makes me wanna try dating a girl but there is nothing manly about me so I doubt any would be interested>>43728151I dont wanna treat anyone like trash I need someone I can love and look up to forever
>>43728171I dont know, I dont kow anything about you plus you probably live somewhere very far away like in the US or something
>>43728200Canada meow ):
>>43728217yeah I live in europe lol
>>43728187You should probably work on yourself first. You don't seem very confident in your sexuality, unless that involves the kink of being a pathetic faggot because most queer people don't actually feel that way about themselves outside of the kink, and using a relationship to compensate for loneliness while not being true to yourself is a bad idea. Lots of women are into pathetic meek men but few enjoy those who use it as a means to emotionally manipulate them to top from the bottom.
>>43728249It's so over I just want to cuddle with someone
>>43728252>work on yourself firstI've been doing that for a year now but it didnt change much
>>43727872I'm looking for a twink with the long-term goal of marriage.>repperwelltheresyourproblem.jpgFace your identity issues head on and sort them out. People can tell that you have something going on and it puts us off. Why would I commit to someone I suspect is going to have a potentially relationship-ending identity crisis sooner or later?
>>43728186This is the right advice.Also, stop fighting the windmills. You come up with imaginary stereotypes, it's all brainworms in your head.Not that there aren't many people like you've described, but there's also many who are not like that and you probably project these brainworms onto people before even you get to know if it's right or not. It's unhealthy behaviour.
>>43728249fellow eurofag twink, I might be able to give some pointers if u wanna explain more over discord: forkstaf
>>43728187the trve cool non-surface level girls dont care about "uohh my mascuine manly man boyfriend" thats the big secret of the world
>>43728187are you gay or bi? you might be surprised at how many women are not interested in the least by manliness. if you are gay tho good luck
>be bi man>Date twink bottom>They cheat on you >RepeatEvery single time
>>43730408I would say Im gay for the most part, I have a hard time imagining myself having "normal" straight sex but I do find some women attractive
>>43730308sure why not I added u
>>43727872I know that's what I want as a masculine gay: A romantic relationship with a guy who is either masculine or feminine, doesn't matter. As long as he loves me and I love him, I'm happy. If you're the kind of guy I'd love like that, I'd have no problem introducing you to friends or my mom. It's hard to find that though and I get extremely discouraged because it seems like any form of masculinity is shunned in today's society, so even if I have a soft and doughy side it seems like that's still not enough. t. gay shut in
