how can I know that I'm not gonna regret trooning out? how do I check if I'm a true tranny?
are you only attracted to men?
>>43728599The question is if they'll regret trooning, being a hsts doesn't seem likely to lower that risk
>>43728599Womanhood is defined by being fucked by men huh
>>43728599not only
>>43728598you're just going to have to take a leap of faith. If transition ends up not being for you just detransition, at least you tried
>>43728598Transition and find out
>>43728598sorry OP I dont know but that picture is beautiful. I wish I had someone to share a moment with in such a context
>>43728900is it that unpredictable?
There's no way of knowing. Just have a plan B in case it doesn't work out (mainly don't come out as a tranny until you male fail, and never forget that detrooning [total or partial] is always on the table.)
>>43729124Unfortunately it pretty much is, unless you have a bunch of pre/early puberty signs that make it obvious you’re a tranny
I was pretty much unsure if I wanted to keep going until I was at like 6 months of HRT. Truth is the worst thing that can happen is you grow boobs that you hate but you could always get them removed later down the line with the same surgery they use for gyno
>>43728598That's the fun part! You don't! At some point you just decide that the benefit is worth the risk that you might someday regret it and go through with it anyway, and eventually you realise that you made the right choice and will never regret it.
>>43728598i wish i lived in a castle so bad
>>43730821she looks waaay too much like an ayyylmao for my liking.
>>43730623Yep. Even for those who won't fully pass it's the 67 of unconventionally attractive trans vs mediocre and miserable cis. Even if you're miserable as a trans, it's worlds better being miserable faking and chasing the standards of a birth gender that doesn't make happy. Existing is already suffering even without dysphoria. Might as well make it just a bit better.
>>43730909Yeah, this. It's liberating to no longer have to concern myself with putting on a mask of masculinity, constantly aware of whether I'm performing enough or not all of the time. I'm still miserable, though.
I'm going to masturbate to the OP pic its so beautiful
>>43730923You don't have to be trans to be feminine but for me the male part or blending /rejection of feminity for anything non conforming or nonbinary was still upsetting my dysphoria. I'm happier as a girl and anything else was just confusing. It doesn't apply to everyone as we all have various reasons. All I know for me is I'd rather be an outcast fake woman hon with a dick and tits who identifies as a girl rather than an HRT femboy because it was always boy or man part of any identity that which caused me distress. It's just not who I am, that I won't be everyone's cup of tea, and that's fine with me.
>>43731129Yeah that's valid.I think being a femboy would be less distressing than pretending to be a normal moid but it would still be more distressing than just openly being a trans girl.
>>43731140Until you realize passability applies to femboys as well, but if you can rock it and it doesn't affect your dysphoria, go for it. It took me years to figure out why that label and scene wasn't making me happy compared to what having hrt tits and being called a girl has done for me. I didn't transition for others or attention but myself. Openly being trans was infinitely easier than openly being a gay male because it was ultimately the male part that caused confusion. I'm still queer and bi. It's just my gender that was able to come out of its shell.
>>43731384>Until you realize passability applies to femboys as well, but if you can rock it and it doesn't affect your dysphoriaIt would affect mine for sure. Being referred to by male pronouns and a male name makes me want to die. But that also happens while pretending to be a normal moid, it is the part that stays the same and not the part that's different, thus irrelevant in the comparison. Pretending to be a femboy instead I'd at least get to be feminine. But this is all hypothetical. I'm already transitioning both medically and legally.For clarity, I get that we're all anons but I'm the one who posted >>43730623 and >>43730923 and >>43731140
>>43731444I get that. I'm saying I practically tried it myself thinking I can be feminine and a boy. I was sure comfortable enough in my sexuality but gender was the issue. It didn't really make me happy except for the moments I would get euphoric and flustered being called a girl. Tried the masc thing instead for a bit. Didn't work either and cross dressing but still thinking of myself as male was just making the dysphoria worse. Kept playing as girls in games and rp and being actually happy as one until one day in a moment of ranting to a femboy that I'm not trans, it just finally clicked that I was repressing myself in a conversation that didn't really need to happen. It's like, well shit. I was doing exactly what repressed gay people do. Made an appointment for hrt, tossed out all of my boy clothes, came out to everyone, and haven't looked back other than wishing I did it sooner. Now could I still do all that and still identity as a boy or man for the sake of someone else or public sensibilities? Of course but that's just not who I am and faking or identifying anything else was making me miserable compared to being perceived as a fake women.
>>43730890true i only wanted some random image to post
