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is it unethical to be into twinkhons because they make me feel like i'm raising a beautiful gay son?

i probably should not perceive them like that, but it also fills the mom void that men simply cannot.

>t. straight* fchaser
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>>43734936
Isn't this just being a pedophile?
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>>43735023
no i just feel very maternal towards adult transgender women
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>>43735029
i do too and im a transbian so you're probably fine
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>>43735034
i think the issue is that i still kind of see them as guys in a roundabout way but exclusively internally. however they are still getting sex with a woman, so the ethics are in question to me.
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>>43735023
Yes.
"into" in this context being sexual attraction and then beautiful gay, so youth features of male.
Youre just a disgusting freak.
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>>43735053
a twinkhon is partially a guy so that seems ok to me even if it's taboo to talk about
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>>43735056
is every gay guy who prefers twinks also a pedophile
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>>43735073
Yes
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>>43734936
we ALL do this
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>>43735124
do transbians do this too or is this more of a chaser thing
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its because im autistic and inexperienced and castrated isnt it
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>>43735152
idk I'm a chaser although I've seen the ways some transbians talk and I wouldn't put it past them
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>>43735053
you need one of the ascended arty sophie/mishima/theorypilled-type ones that care more about beauty and sensuality than identity
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>>43735154
that's exactly it yes and i would like for you to fall asleep on my chest and wear the clothes i pick out for you from my wardrobe or things i get shopping with you

>>43735178
you have no idea how bad i want this
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>>43735256
we’re out there, commonly found on college campuses pursuing useless degrees. just approach with confidence and they’ll be yours.
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>>43735256
>i would like for you to fall asleep on my chest and wear the clothes i pick out for you from my wardrobe or things i get shopping with you
<3333 gosh i want to do that too
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>>43735333
i could raise you right and take care of you and if you want to be a girl then you can be a girl and i will make sure you are the prettiest girl you know
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>>43735256
There are trannies who aren't caught up on the gender identity psyop so it's not impossible to find someone compatible
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>>43735073
YES
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>>43734936
Do you want her to top?
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>>43735363
<33333333 i wish i had someone like you in my life. i would love you forever
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>>43735405
ideally i would want absolutely no penetration unless she initiates. maybe mutual oral if she would like but if she does not do penetration then i do not want it either.
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>>43735409
i wish i had a high paying job so i could subsidize a transgender woman who lives with me and learns how to be a woman until she is ready to leave the nest but if she wants to stay she can stay
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>>43735444
Oh most trans women aren't into topping
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>>43735478
then i would love to accomodate for whatever she likes but i cant say ive ever used a strap on or topped for real before most of the trans girls i have engaged with have just wanted to have heavy petting oriented cuddles and other forms of dry stuff
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>>43735478
Sounds adorable I hope you find someone
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>>43734936
Why do you care if it's ethical if you're gonna do it anyways
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>>43735548
ocd + i dont want to upset the women in question so i would like to know what to avoid saying
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>>43735478
>>43735497
this is exactly my ideal relationship. my mom hated men and made me hate myself as a boy and im nearly asexual. i was on E for a couple years but my insecurities and wanting to find a relationship made me stop. how do i find someone like you?
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>>43734936
by fchaser do you mean female chaser?
if you were and old burly man it would be based otherwise its just corrupting the youth
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>>43734936
Nothing wrong with that. Just need to find your match. We are not a monolith. You as cis woman should be having easier time finding one than anybody else desu. So don't be shy.

Most verbal ones about stereotypes are most insecure and probably don't fit the norms themselves.
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>>43734936
Why do you perceive trans women as men? Or is it specifically twinkhons?
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>>43734936
The thing is, since you are straight and like men, you will 100% try to pressure your future gf into not getting too feminine and remaining clocky, which can put her in a toxic situation especially if you don't say straight off that you're a straight chaser
Just my opinion though
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>>43734936
as long as you're not an asshole going "uohhh give me your BIG STRONG CUM dear SONDAUGHTER" (then again every other person in this shit board would fold lmaooo) and dont try to force her into being Too Masculine.
number one rule is always be nice number 2 dont be mean
>t. ranbian
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>>43738831
That type of relationship is ideal for an insecure wannabe-girl like me. As much as I hate it, i understand that i am a boy and have to act like it sometimes in life
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>>43738811
Not OP but the answer should be obvious
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>>43738831
there are plenty of transbians who don't need to be pressured into staying clocky boys. they just stay like that on their own
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>>43734936
this shit is kinda gross and the only reason most ppl r giving you a pass is bc this board has a pathological hatred of transbians desu
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>>43739287
OP is bait like all the board
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>>43739287
Because most of the board are (bottom) male chasers
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>>43739287
>the only reason most ppl r giving you a pass is bc this board has a pathological hatred of transbians desu
>this shit is kinda gross
u

>>43739360
all the girls are bottoms too
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>>43739585
Yeah and they're still dwarfed by the chasers
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>>43739585
you reek of botto(m) chaser. take your smelly predatory rectum elsewhere
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>>43738811
i would prefer not to but my brain is wired that way

>>43738831
if she wants to look more femenine that is fine and i will stand by her choices as long as she allows me to help her find her femeninity

>>43737231
yes i do mean female chaser i am sorry i know most women on this board are straight i was trying to ask the ones that are not

>>43737198
i wish things were easier i could be better than her
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>>43740800
>if she wants to look more femenine that is fine
I really hope so, I've heard so many stories of straight male ftm chasers who pressured their boyfriends into feminizing or even fully detransitionning/not getting on T etc, but that may be just not the case here
I hope you and your future girlfriend will be happy for a long time tho!
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I have a question but what does twinkhon mean to others because to me picrel is what a twinkhon is
which is a pretty trans girl who is visibly clocky but still pretty
t. winkhon
>>43735478
this is so cute
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>>43742140
>s a pretty trans girl who is visibly clocky but still pretty
yes thats a twinkhon to me
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>>43742177
gotcha
twinkhon x cisf chaser must be such a soulful pairing irl
I'm considering opening my dating pool to more cis women before I fully set my mind on getting bottom surgery
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>>43742140
how is picrel remotely clocky?? To me that's a gigapassoid
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>>43742344
ok then I'll use myself as an example I agree she's super pretty but you'll know exactly what I mean
clocky but still cute yk
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>>43742392
you are astoundingly beautiful and i wish more girls looked like you the way you crop your eyebrows is heaven

i think the fact that i am attracted to you does make you a twinkhon but i think with a different haircut you could pass very easily to the untrained eye but people like me who know how to spot trans women because of the ways they are particularly beautiful can tell
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>>43742219
i have not thought enough about if the surgery would be a dealbreaker but i really do not like penetration enough to make it one i think i just hope that getting it does not make more men try to chase after her because i am scared of competition
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>>43735029
how old are you,,,
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>>43743461
32 years old but not very employed
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>>43735178
BASED
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>>43734936
yea thats pretty unethical if i found out you viewed me that way id probably self harm
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>>43743198
tysm kind angel but you see exactly what I mean by clocky but cute
like I'm obviously trans
you actually kind of sound like Halimede lol
>>43744063
only 1 year older than me
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>>43744650
i think it might be a specific kind of female coded autism i share with the kind of woman who cares too much about gundam and loves transgender women i feel very seen by halimede if i am honest aside from the fact that she favors the japanese too much
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also she is a dyke which i am not as far as my knowledge goes
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>>43734936
I want a loving relationship with someone like you. Im detransing for fertility so I have some value in a relationship with a cisf
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>>43744954
i have no interest in children beyond a very pretty twinkhon i get to raise and use as a surogate for having a kid in the same way women get cats and dogs for
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>>43744744
Oh... you're based...
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>>43744982
There's truly no good chaser
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>>43745288
thanks i love you
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>>43745390
can you explain i'm a little confused what can i do to become a good chaser i want to be good for my girls and i want to make them happy but if this is being a bad chaser i would like to improve
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>>43734936
>>43735053
ts is why I stay far away from cis women yall will legit date is because youre fujos with a hateboner for men
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>>43745396
Have you ever heard of an anime called Heldensagen vom Kosmosinsel? It's one of the originators of the bishounen trope
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>>43745431
i actually don't know much about anime as i am mostly a literature and alternative comics geek but i am willing to learn as much as you are willing to give thank you very much i will be looking into this

i hope it's gay
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>>43745420
you are correct on the fujo front but i do not think that's related i just have better sex with twinkhons than i do cis men i am sorry if my internal perspective is offensive but i do not mean any harm and i really do like them my brain is just wired a certain way
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>>43734936
you shouldnt be asking permission to like what you like. we are the way we are and some people are unfortunate enough to have preferences that are less socially acceptable, but the path to happiness is to just tank the judgements and live your life your way. i personally like dating barely 20 yo boys and lots of women (men dont give a fuck) judge me for it cause im 30. but im not gonna be happier dating someone i dont want to just because someone else pressured me into it. the only person whos permission i need is the person im dating, and they give it gladly
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>>43747735
thank you anon...
i wish transgender women were less questioning about the love they receive and just let me give it to them because i have a lot
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afabs expect their transgirlfriend to be the main breadwinner
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>>43749825
i would love to provide for her every need but as of right now i would not try to have this dynamic in practice because i cannot afford to and my job field is in a rough spot. i do not want her to stress herself out to provide for me at all i want to be a reprieve from the world to her
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>>43734936
kinda might b ok w it
>>43735053
dont like but
>>43735060
>ok to me even if it's taboo to talk about
yeah its actually sorta ok if
>>43734936
>a beautiful gay son?
i think this is what makes it ok. like as long as you arent expecting trad masc dom behavior and are respectful. probly turns positive if you are gentle dominant and controlling. but i also dont id as strictly binary in the first place so it bothers me a lot less.
>>43745420
>fujos with a hateboner for men
kinda ideal ngl. i hate my yaoi hands but if she liked them i would be happy about it. i just dont want her to be mean to me im not into that
>>43749825
not want. equals pls
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>>43734936
This is just a normal woman who's into "non threatening males"
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>>43745403
You're basically comparing your prospect of partner to a pet
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>>43751433
i need to be someones pet. i would be so obedient.
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>>43751433
why is it wrong when i do it? cisgender males do this to cisgender women all the time by saying they want a submissive wife and everyone is perfectly fine with it despite it all and i see transgender women here talk about wanting to be pretty for a male all the time

i also would not want to rob her of real agency i would like to help her find her own and feel comfortable to be able to make decisions about herself which is again why i am not interested in controlling their choice to get bottom surgery

>>43751262

the hands are not a significant appeal point to BL. all the best parts of BL are about depicting the naturally masculine form in a similar way to how the femenine form is depicted in works for and by men, as something to be yearned for, and in certain contexts conquered. i imagine my attraction to transgender women is rooted in a similar place to this and hope to be a little more respectful about it
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>>43753120
additionally, this is why male sexualization being just uncovered torsos is lame. i want to see their thighs and asses and other parts that are generally associated with female sexuality in a way that does not necessarily emasculate them. this is unrelated from the thread's topic though
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>>43753120
I was reacting to treating a partner as a surrogate child or even comparing her to a pet, but I guess it shouldn't be a problem if you're open about it
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Bump
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>>43745675
>>43753120
>>43753144
fuck fuck fuck i shouldve stopped reading i knew it was gonna go south eventually. none of the other things you mentioned are dealbreakers but the fujo part ruins everything. ew. now i cant even fantasize about this anymore goddamn it!!!! fuck you!!!!!



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