> be me> 23 mtfailure> got roommate living in my apartment like a month ago> and he cooks for me, so i don't have spend thousands of $ for deliveries bc i hate cooking> actually useful because it saves money and executive function points> problem is he keeps calling me male terms / bro / man / dude / he / whatever> asked him multiple times not to> he basically ignores it> finally tell him I’m not comfortable living like this and he should move out> he calls me a retard and laughs and acts like it's not a big thing> says like he "won’t dance under someone else’s expectations"> also says he needs at least a week, maybe a month, to find a new place> now I feel like shit because without him I pay full rent and have to handle food myself> but also I don’t want to live with someone who keeps doing this on purpose> also relevant context> he is kind of a chaotic punk-rock guy> talks a lot about street fights / fighting nazis / getting jumped / beating people up> idk if he’d ever do anything to me, but he gives off "violence is normal conflict resolution" vibes> so now that there’s tension in the apartment i’m not exactly comfywhat’s the sane play here?is this enough reason to end the roommate arrangement, or am i letting stress/dysphoria make the call?also what’s a fair move-out window in this situation? 1 week feels reasonable to me because i’m uncomfortable sharing the place now, but maybe that’s too harsh. month feels more humane but also means i’m stuck living with someone i don’t trust/respect anymoreoh god i'm just so misearable
>>43736034If you hate living with him dont
>>43736034At least one month is reasonable
>>43736034just dont live with him buy a bunch of ramen mac n cheese go to trader joes get the microwave meals theyre really good and cheap also your mental health is more important than saving money on meals
Dude sounds like a fucking prick. Kick his ass to the curb.
>>43736034give the lowest as required by whatever legislation applies
sane play is>sry bro we're not compatible enough to live together+ provide the reasonable period for him to move out, ig 1 mo'you really benefit from having a substitute husband you don't need to fake affection with and provide your body to, but this one is a bad choice fo yo mentol helf, so go solo and keep on the lookout for another more compatible one
thank you all!
>> talks a lot about street fights / fighting nazis / getting jumped / beating people upYeah he definitely takes it up the ass
>>43736034>lives rent free>all he has to do is cookfuck this guy he's living the dream. i would cook nice meals for you and suck your girlpenis daily and do all your laundry and clean and everything nona. i really would!
>>43736034>is this enough reason to end the roommate arrangement, or am i letting stress/dysphoria make the call?You told him it makes you uncomfortable and he doesn't care, he doesn't respect you, you shouldn't tolerate that.
>>43737634i mean no he pays half the rent and is living in one of the rooms
