finish the relationship. I know this is hard, and it WILL be the hardest thing u do in ur whole life atm; nontheless, you dont need her for the rest of ur life, if all she craves is attention from others. I believe in you! Kick her out unviolently thou, you'll hate urself if you do it otherwise...

Anyone got that video of some blacks laughing at another black laying on top of a black tranny making fun of the black on top of "trying to turn a tranny into a housewife"?
Trannies aren't loyal. If they are, it only means they are extremely disgusting to anyone but you.

>>43736387
Make her life hell

>>43736387
I'm sorry she's cheated on you, it's horrible when those we trust most and feel safe with abuse that trust.
There is no right course of action here, other than what you decide is right for you. You can confront her, hear her out and decide whether her reasoning makes at least some semblance of sense to you. Even then, and even under the presumption that she feels horrible about it not out of guilt but out of empathy, it's going to be a lot of work to restore the trust she's broken, and there is a chance you'll never get to that level of trust with her again. Whether your shared past weighs enough to balance out the labour required to do this can only be decided by you. My heart breaks for you and I hope whatever you decide to do is a decision you can live with. Best of luck and take care of yourself <3

>"housewife thing"
>"told myself I'd go ape shit and beat the fuck out of her”

yeah getting cheated on sucks i guess, and while i'm no rocket surgeon with a PhD in performative males or anything, i'm pretty sure she was looking for some kind of out from this "relationship" longer than you think she has

>>43736387
>I always told myself I'd go ape shit and beat the fuck out of her if something like this happened

You should stay away from all women until you grow out of this mentality. A woman is not your property for you to "discipline" as you see fit. If she crosses your boundaries, you end the relationship, not turn into an angry wall-punching moid.

As to the specific situation, is there any chance she was blackmailed or something, that she didn't do it willingly?

>>43737243
I'm fixing to do just that. It's very upsetting frankly, I think I would've been fine spending the remainder of my life with her. I have to remind myself that I am still young and that it's not completely over for me. Easier said than done though.

>>43737285
There is no point in this. I am going to have to tell her mother about it and that will be hell enough for her, her mom really likes me.

>>43737303
I appreciate your words.

>>43737305
>>43737324
I suppose I should've made it more clear that I didn't tell myself I was going to hit her as a protocol or whatever I just know that I'm retarded and have a shitty temper, I figured if something like this happened then that's how I'd react. I am glad that I have been able to control myself. No she wasn't blackmailed, she's been online friends with the guy for a few months now. I read some of the texts and it seems like they just flirted until it reached that point.

>>43737386
>I suppose I should've made it more clear that I didn't tell myself I was going to hit her as a protocol or whatever I just know that I'm retarded and have a shitty temper, I figured if something like this happened then that's how I'd react. I am glad that I have been able to control myself. No she wasn't blackmailed, she's been online friends with the guy for a few months now. I read some of the texts and it seems like they just flirted until it reached that point.

Well, to me that just sounds like a lesser form of cheating. Some people choose to try and repair their relationships after cheating happens, others choose to just break it off. It's up to you.

What I'm about to say is not an explanation and not an excuse, she has agency and she shouldn't have done it, but it might be that she felt you weren't making her feel loved, desired and appreciated, thus causing her to turn to this random internet guy. If that is the cause, then there is also a possible fix.

Up to you whether you wanna try and get couples' counselling or something, or just end it. Of course, any attempt to fix it is dependent on BOTH of you wanting to fix it, so maybe you should talk to her and see.

>>43736387
sorry m8, at least you're only 22 and only wasted 2 years on this one
better luck with the next one

>>43737324
>woman is not your property for you to "discipline" as you see fit. If she crosses your boundaries
Yes they are.

>>43737443
>might be that she felt you weren't making her feel loved, desired and appreciated, thus causing her to turn to this random internet guy. If that is the cause, then there is also a possible fix.
the fact that she went down that road to the point of sending nudes multiple times, instead of cutting it off earlier and actually trying to fix the relationship or break up before it's too late, signals that she's not trustworthy
even after the "possible fix", nothing's stopping her from being "the victim" again and doing something behind her partner's back

>>43736387
>I suppose we could stay together and it wasn't terribly serious
It's basically cheating. It is serious. Have a talk with her, personally I would break up with someone over this with no second thoughts. Especially since this is proof she wasn't satistifed with the relationship, and was callous enough to act on it like that instead of talking with you about it.
>beat the fuck out of her
Do not do this. That is a pathetic thing to do, just like going through her phone in the first place.

>>43737536
>Yes they are.

You do not deserve to know what the touch of a woman feels like and you never will.

>>43737545
>the fact that she went down that road to the point of sending nudes multiple times, instead of cutting it off earlier and actually trying to fix the relationship or break up before it's too late, signals that she's not trustworthy
>even after the "possible fix", nothing's stopping her from being "the victim" again and doing something behind her partner's back

Unless she has mental issues that caused her to do this and a psychiatrist can fix them.

>>43737547
>just like going through her phone in the first place.
it's a bad thing in the general case, but then you have cases like op's, where he would be none the wiser and a happy cuck

>>43737271
>Trannies aren't loyal. If they are, it only means they are extremely disgusting to anyone but you.
TRVTHNVKE. Trannies are all whores, every single one.

>>43737555
she's free to work on that outside of a relationship, much like a man with "I just hit my gf a few times" anger issues is free to work on those outside of a situation where the partner can get harmed. and op is free to take her back if she can prove she's actually fixed, but that's a pretty big risk to take unless she's really unique enough to warrant it

>>43737571
>she's free to work on that outside of a relationship, much like a man with "I just hit my gf a few times" anger issues is free to work on those outside of a situation where the partner can get harmed. and op is free to take her back if she can prove she's actually fixed, but that's a pretty big risk to take unless she's really unique enough to warrant it

I don't know about that equivalence of sending nudes of your own body (which is bad) and literally committing the crime of assault and battery against your own romantic partner.

>>43737558
Yes I agree, it's good that he found out, but it's still a bad way to find out.

Chances are she'll use that as a weapon against him in the upcoming argument ('you're an insecure stalker, that is one of the reasons why blah blah'), that is if such an argument will ever take place.

>>43737443
>but it might be that she felt you weren't making her feel loved, desired and appreciated, thus causing her to turn to this random internet guy.
I can only assume this is true. I do not believe she is simply an attention whore. It seems unlike everything I know about her, and I don't think she's been faking a personality for this long. I work long hours and when I get home I am tired and do not have much energy for anything. I can see how this would make her feel.

I don't know if I want to fix it. I still have feelings for her of course but I think I might have to end it. I don't think it would be possible to return to the level of trust I had before.

>>43737547
Yeah I'm not going to hit her, I'm past that now I reckon. Yes going through the phone in the first place was immature and if I hadn't found anything I'd have felt like a jackass. But I did find something.

>>43737583
don't let yourself get gaslit, going through her phone ended up saving you from the alternative. don't fall for her provocations either, end it dispassionately and don't give her any ammo

I understand all your feelings, shit like this happens. Finding out something bad about the person you thought was good for you will always hurt like a motherfucker.

But at the end of the day, you are young as fuck. You have all your life ahead of you to find someone of value. Shit I wish I was 22 again and would gladly repeat all those experiences through my 20s, both bad and good.
This hurts, but it will pass, and you will be glad to have dodged a bullet. Trust me on this.

>sexting guys online instead of asking your fiancé who loves you for more romantic quality time
abysmal

>>43737679
they were even engaged? lmao

>>43736387
well it's up to you what to do but engagement is the time where things should be found out before marriage so it's better you found out now than after, it's not a good sign they hide from you after proposal you would be marrying somebody who doesn't trust you with the truth

>>43737591
>>43737627
You are both right. I need to put aside my feelings and think with my head for a while.

>>43737694
Yeah. It seemed like a reasonable thing to do at the time given we were both happy and committed (or so I thought). I am glad I found this out before we could marry. I imagine a break-up is a lot easier than a divorce.

>>43737729
>You are both right. I need to put aside my feelings and think with my head for a while.

I don't think that's healthy. You need to process your feelings as well. But taking some time to do both is wise, yes.

Not everything in life makes you a cuck unless you want it to. Some of you guys have less emotional maturity than preteens. Unless your woman wants to literally be your property due to beliefs, upbringing, or insecurities, don't treat them as such.

>>43737743
fuck off, subhuman cheater.

>>43736387
I don't think it's a big deal if they didn't fuck or get emotinally attached, also trannies have a lot of insecurity, and they may just be hoeing around to make sure they pass or are hot/desirable.

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>>43736387
You tried to put a wig on a man and pass it off as some version of a "woman". And then you simped for the man in the wig only for him to cheat on you. LMAO

>>43736387
yeah it's over man. zero exceptions or recovery from that shit.

>>43737822
>I don't think it's a big deal if they didn't fuck or get emotinally attached, also trannies have a lot of insecurity, and they may just be hoeing around to make sure they pass or are hot/desirable.

Kind of, yeah, but if a cis woman feels undesirable and sends nudes of herself when she's engaged to someone it would also be bad, I don't think we can excuse this just because she's trans.

t. ranny

>>43737822
>I don't think it's a big deal if they didn't fuck or get emotinally attached

lmao.
trannies are truly undateable.

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>>43737926
He should probably kill his tranny ex boyfriend to be honest. He was working a 9-5 honest job to support some man wearing a wig, and while he's slaving all day, his tranny is going behind his back to flirt with other men. The disrespect. The shame. The funny thing is OP will still get shit on and told he was the issue in the relationship with his tranny. If you have any shred of Manhood left, you would knock that trannies head off it's shoulders. But that probably won't happen. OP will just sulk and mope around about how he lost his boyfriend that wears a wig. This planet is something else. Lmao

Cheating housewife and an unpredictable violent ape, classic

>>43738090
'k
don't drown in your own drool mate

>>43736387
im in the same situation but im a little older and found his tinder and bumble accounts

>>43738205
The truth hurts but you have to swallow it anon. Kinda like how OP's tranny was swallowing off other men behind his back while he's slaving a 9-5 job. I'm just kidding but never let this story get off the Internet OP. Lmao

>>43737324
most misandrist post ive seen today

I was in a similar situation as you OP in the past, I was actually just about your age too at the time, just leave. Even if she begs, just leave. The magic completely just dies, even if you stay. I confronted my ex on this and when I threatened to break up she started crying and made it all about how much of an awful person she is and how she should just die. Immediately my brain flipped seeing the girl I loved so much reduced to a shambling mess, I forgave her and took her back. There was an intense closeness for sometime again afterwards but of course, it happened again later on. Waste of time, should've just kept steadfast and left the first time.

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>>43737324
KYS
>>43736387
lol stop dating trannies if you want normalcy
leave it to degenerates like me that don't care about any of it and just like sticking their 8 inch dicks in weird places. I'm in my mid 30s and just want to fuck 20yo girlooking bussies

>>43738407
You mean He. It's a man in a wig

>>43738044
you don't think there are absolute lines of chasers that she could've been caught getting railed by at home, given the fact the dudes were in other countries it's much less worrying.

>>43736387
Trannies are meant to be pumped and dumped. You can't have a relationship with a hypersexual gay man.

>>43738645
why does it have to be this way. real women are the same way, complete whores incapable of love or romance. Who are sensitive young men actually supposed to love

>>43738676
You've been fooled by incel propaganda. Real women are much more loyal than troons.

I mean this entire thread is fake so who cares.

>>43738607
It's a he. And he probably was getting railed while OP was at work. The text messages are just the ones he found out about. This thread is a prime example of why nobody takes trannies seriously, not even the LGB community takes them seriously. Several posts before this one are of delusional people calling OP's tranny a "She" when in fact it's a man pretending to be a woman. OP even tried to start a life with it and try to turn it into a housewife..and look how that turned out. OP needs to either kill himself or confess his sins, find a REAL woman, and give his life to our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. Get your life together man.

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>>43738607
Actually fucking others is obviously worse, but I still think flirting and sharing nudes online is absolutely awful and has no space in a monogamous relationship which as far as I'm concerned is the only type of relationship I care for.

The fact that you implied trannies are justified in doing that because of insecurities is extremely concerning to me and I wholeheartedly hope that is just a niche thing and not all trannies think that.
Because otherwise yes, literally undateable.

>>43738765
whatever dude keep posting cringe react pics nobody wants a philosophical debate with a sub-5 chud who posts sad civil war men when his trannywife goes looking for dick. Hopefully she leaves you before you beat her.

>>43738701
I've had numerous years long relationships and everything has led me to believe all women are the same (retarded)

>>43738796
That was my second post itt schizo, take your meds before ranting and talking about having debates since you're clearly uncapable of basic reading comprehension.

>>43738351
>most misandrist post ive seen today

Telling moids not to beat women and that women aren't property is misandry now. topkek

>>43737926
sharing nudes and cheating is not that bad whether you're cis or trans desu
OP, make sure you don't ruin your dream life over someone somewhere having nudes of your wife
the NSA and other glownigger agencies already saw them anyway