Thoughts on twinks?
>>43739753Hot if he tops
Pretty gay. I'm a chaser therefore straight
>>43739753I mog them
>>43739877Proof?
>>43739908dream on
i am a twink
>>43739943>>43739908
>>43739753expensive
>>43739753Less obnoxious than those who obsess over them. I've hooked up with a fair amount and learned over the years many of them are now smart enough thanks to social media to be done with most of your guys shit. Which is good for mid hons like me. It means I can hook up with more disillusioned twinks and actually show them some good times rather than those who just take advantage of them.
>>43739984What does the good time look like tho? How do 2 bottoms even fuck?
>>43739943I'm one with boobs
>>43740006Oh to assume I only bottom. Ironically enough that's the biggest complaint I hear from twinks. Most assumes they're only a bottom or doesn't even ask and most guys who chase them aren't into receiving anal. A few are but they get rude and aggressive and treat them like sex objects where they just have to rely on those open to gen, which just leads to more rudeness and agression. It's kinda sad because a lot of twinks have dad bod kinks but don't like being treated like shit kept in the closet. Like I said. Done with most guys.
>>43739753They're built for fat guy thick-cock
>>43740119>Oh to assume I only bottomOk ok you probably only top in that case
>>43740188I'm vers who enjoys lots of intimacy, foreplay, and toys and that's usually what draws them in. Even with bottoms that only have it listed as being bottoms, all it takes is just asking them because nobody else really offers. Or at least in a respectful way. Of course there are pure bottom twinks with no interest in topping but I usually don't go for them without some other sort of connection. Nor would I ever harass one to top me like many guys do. There's many aspects of sex and most guys just hyperfocus on one think which is often a half drunken grunt and done. Not the worst thing by far but variety is nice, ya know? Speaking as a former twink and now troon
tfw twink4twink doesn't exist irl I'm going to kms
>>43740299Of course it does. That was almost my entire late teens and early twenties before I discovered bears. I think the issue with most guys hooking up is the actual hooking up part as they tend to get cold feet since they're just lonely and prison gay
>>43740405idc about hookups I just want a bf ):
>>43740414Pretty easy to find as well. Nothing wrong with a hookup turning into dating either. If you want something more "heterotradional", when let's be honest even most hetero relationships start as a hookup, bars and queer activity meets can be a good option. There's also apps like scruff which is more dating focused.
>>43740442I'll have to look into it. I'm pretty shy and busy with work. My previous relationships started through like college and via friends of friends, but I no longer have any friends who are willing to introduce me to their friends (I don't know why, they're really secretive about their other friends)My employer is garbage and I work evenings on the days that people go out. I haven't had a single weekend off in over a year.>appsI'm scared of apps lol last time I used one (grindr) I just got messages from a million Indians and 50 year old married dudes.
feels good to be king of the jungle everyone wants you and i mean everyone! nontwinkish people would be surprised how many masc men beg to be a sub for a twink. i save my romance for other twinks or twinkish people, just cant relate to non-twinks on a deep level. normie gays have legit told me to my face that im not an actual gay because of this, that being attracted to femininity in that way isnt actually gay. I dont give a fuck because i also go balls deep in their dad but keep it on the down lowt. vers twink
>>43740483I mean don't count them out but I get you have preferences just like how someone you might be interested in doesn't enjoy twinks. I'm a bit more sexually liberal in my tastes so my issue often comes from their behaviors and then being extra turned off when I'm accused of it being a race or age issue. Which I get. Rejection hurts but being treated that way hurts me as well. For what you're going through, all I can say is that sucks and even though you're just venting, some people are in the same situation as you so keep reaching out and make sure to make time the best you can.
they are pretty cool for like 5 years then they turn into ugly men because of twink death
>>43740598Oh yeah. Most gay guys love to tear you down when you don't give them what they want or fit their ideal fuck fantasy. It's why I stopped going to leather bars and the more masc scenes and such when I was younger. A lot of them are fucking insecure manipulative assholes. Live and learn and now I can spot those types from a mile away. I'm not really their demographic anymore either so usually all I have to put up with is the occasional transphobia and mild harassment. Let the old dogs bark I guess.
>>43740483I view apps like crab fishing, take some good pics and just wait and filter out ppl you dont like with blocks. Its wierd because ppl come at you so fast i originaly did the same. Then i becsme more liberal with blocks and ive meet and dated nice twinks off the apps. Meeting irl i suggest getting a nerdy out door hobby like mtg or seeing live music shows or rock climbing
>>43740706I guess I'll just have to cast my line into the water and see what happens, if I can work up the courage...>outdoor hobbiesI'd love to but literally all I have time for is working and sleeping. I used to have hobbies before I became a slave for this company.
>>43740694Never really had a problem with those guys, theyre narcassists to everyone its kinda funny when you realize those guys are all made in a factory. If theyre outside their normal social circles, they can be cool af but inside those masc gay circles its like you said pirahnasWhat in my experience it was the gays who wanted to be seen as "normal" gays, they want a marriage, 9 to 5 six figure jobs and constant instagram worthy vacays. they were what id call pete buttieg or scott wiener gays. Theyre an sf bay area thing
>>43740706This is why I suggested queer organized events to making a date to attend those hobby groups. While those types of things you listed can attract guys who happen to be gay or are gay curious, that's all very low key and makes things awkward for building into a relationship since it's still a shared space. Even for the DL bros.
>>43740732I guess that's the big thing for me. I don't really enjoy fake people who can only be nice in private when they aren't performing for others. And the misogyny I experienced was very off-putting and made me feel like the odd one out worse than before I came out. Introduced me into fisting which I rediscovered after I was able to forget that trauma so that's a bonus. The whole assembly line thing is absolutely a chuckle and is how I eventually end up feeling about a lot of subcultures. I've never been one for strictly wanting a heteronormative style relationship but I've talked to those who have and nearly every one was a horror story of posturing, keeping up appearances, and bad sex lives.
>>43740762Yeah thats really good point im lucky i live in an area with so many queer ppl that for example boardgame night at the flgs always is a queer space even if not organized as so>>43740762Ive seen queer relationships like that work, marriage house all that but always in the sense they do it because they want it for real not because its all apart of some elaborate scheme to get what is essence a glowie to affirm them
>>43740939Oh I'm sure there are ones that work but they often tend to be very conservative coded and almost shameful in a way to avoid the every gay marriage is open stereotypes. They think they're better than other gay people by being repressed and rubbing elbows with those who hate them and that's just not my thing. I'm not really judging or the skeletons in their closets but it sucks to be looked down upon that way or treated like a hypocrite when you do it back to them.
>>43740939I'm not saying those places are queer exclusive since many places are now inclusive but it's also mildly frowned upon to treat it like a place to find dates or cruise for sex rather than finding someone there who happens to share a hobby and growing close because of it. Anything else is harassment and a lot of the more nerdy folk can be very twinkish but not actually gay or bi. It's why a lot of hobby groups had to introduce safe space rules because some of them attracted some very predatory people.
>>43741010Ive met a lot that are the opposite in my life but also thats pretty true. Id also say conservative coded, at least in the parts of america ive seen, usually means youre some sorta contrarian conspiratard. Like for example meeting a gay male bodybuilder/circuit dancer whose married to a cop job is a highschool teacher who is all about protecting and creating space for the dolls but hed NEVER EVER even hook up with one is really wierd i chalk it up to americans being dumb af myself
>>43741070Iunno i get what you mean but straight people do the same in those space and its considered nothing. Imo best places to find actual dates is irl esp since apps and online are rapidly deteriorating in general these daysOf course ya dont cruise or be predatory, ive had that happen to me at spaces but luckily our communities just generally fucking hate that shit and we kick them to the curb pretty fuckin quick. I highly suggest doing that obv. But yeah this is 4chan so theres probably alot of hopeless freaks reading this
>>43741081The more extremes I was addressing. Like those couples who want to be seen as just "normal" members of the community so they end up acting repressed and dull. The more progressive couples tend to be fine and don't act like me talking to them just means I want to be their fucking unicorn. Not that Im adverse to it but damn sometimes it just nice to talk to other gay people without it being treated like a homophobic straight person thinking me being social is trying to fuck them. Also yeah. Legit conservative queer couples can get bent.
>>43741117The first part is fine. That's expected socializing and behaviors. But yeah. You get the second part and that's what I was talking about. Same with anime cons and such. Sex happens and it's okay to be mature about that and understand there are open room parties that are essentially orgies but you go there for shared interests, not to harass people for sex or pred on people. That's something I have to really make sure I clarify when I say to people to try looking at hobby and activity groups when they desires dates but don't enjoy hookup culture or bar/club scenes. It's not for the date itself but to enjoy a hobby and maybe there is someone you can primarily make friends with or possibly date.
>>43739753Twinks are absolutely BVILT for WET FVJO PVSSY
>>43741630fujos need a big strap for twinks otherwise it won't work
>>43741671Why would twinks have to bottom all the time, are you a reddit-bisexual?
>>43741768Them being bi and vers doesn't stop them from being size queens
