found out my younger brother is a repper and intends to troon. at this point, he’d be starting hrt in his early 20’s and i see very little passing potential in his future. i also don’t know if he even plans to go on hrt at all. i don’t know how to approach the subject and am not out to him because boymoder, but is there a correct way to address this?
>>43744295>i don’t know how to approach the subject and am not out to him because boymoder, but is there a correct way to address this?you should boyremove your sister
>>43744295you sound insecure in your own trans identity. if you want to be a good sister you have to support her. look at her as a human who needs love and support in a dark and scary time. saying things like brother, repper, troon, he his, passing potential, no hrt, blah blah, is all brainrot. its fine for memes and jokes but when you are talking about your sibling, family, friends, humanity always comes first. since you are trans you are uniquely positioned to be a really supportive person in her life and if you support her you'll have someone there for you too.
What a coincidence, not long ago I realized my older brother is taking estrogen. No wonder he’s still manmoding given how fucked up his skull is but I’ve been wondering if I should do the same. Probably will start hrt soon and mog him (them?)
>>43744393is ur brother getting ffs soon?
>>43744357i am insecure and will acknowledge it. i’m out to nearly no one aside from my boyfriend, constantly break down, and can barely support myself. this is why i fear my response and believe i may not be the best support system
>>43744462sorry :( can you talk with your bf for advice? it might help. i still think you should come out to your sister and just be honest that youre also struggling so you want to help but say the same thing that you worry you may not be the best support system. thats all reasonable and relatable and human. and then there wont be a rift where she thinks youre rejecting her and hate her or something
