>>43754516
hey pookie

Me 2

>>43754516
Tinder, seriously.
A lot of men are on tinder are there seeking long term relationships and a lot of girls end up marrying thanks to it. You just need to be the correct girl at the correct time

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>>43754516
love with all your heart

love until it hurts

until it breaks you several times

learn and grow but never give up on the drowning idealism love you long for most deeply

then stop cringing at everything and make known freely what you are about; what you long for; how you love

look in unusual places like here or social games with lots of downtime to chat

maybe you find someone incredible who shows you what love and being alive really is

or just keep going for "normal" relationships and keep watching how easily they are tossed away by people who are incapable of your feelings

but then your probably not overflowing with beautiful idealism you just want something a step above hookup dates

if you want to be really happy; look for love that is life and death and all consuming; if you really feel it you will seek it again and again no matter how much it hurts you and anything lesser will feel hollow

not many people are alive that really love with all they are; it may take a decade or more of searching; but if you can learn confidence in yourself and communicate well; and stand out and be unlike anyone else- maybe you will find an angel who also is unlike anyone else; and maybe she will throw away everything she has just for the chance of being truly and wildly loved by you

good luck im sorry your so alone

also your probably straight so i think your at a big disadvantage as most men only see us as sex objects in goonint videos and dont have enough brain cells and emotional intelligence to see we are really wonderful people (sometimes)

i dont envy you; but i dont want you to suffer and be alone either; so please; take some part of this to heart and love how you need to and want to; not how society expects you

if you are straight; there exist some guys capable of seeing how special such a soul can be

i dont know anything about you; but i know my life wouldnt have been saved 3 times if i was anything like most of this community or most people in general

>>43754516
>and not just one night hookups im desperate now
only virgins are marriage/relationship material. if you even tried the hookup life then you made your choice

>>43754516
depends, if you already did a bunch of hookups then are looking to settle down why should i date you

>>43756883
so if you had a relationship with someone, they did some horrible things and you're not virgin anymore you think the person should just stick up with hookup culture?

>>43757275
No. If you had sex before in committed relationships it's fine. If you engaged with hookup culture or one night stands at all even once you've forfeited real relationships and marriage in my eyes though and are gross for life. I said virgins in my post as hyperbole so it's my fault it was read that way

>>43754556
all my friends who have ever been on tinder have been reduced to shells of their former selves within months thats like the worst advice ever just go to parties with bisexual boys who are kinda losers and hope they have low enough self esteem to tank the social currency loss of dating a tgirl. or if you like girls just date another tgirl

i dated a girl i found here, i regret giving her my virginity though i wish i could have it back

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>>43757436
>i dated a girl i found here, i regret giving her my virginity though i wish i could have it back

Virginity is just a social construct, if that makes you feel any better. It won't make the next time, which might otherwise have been the first time, any worse or any better necessarily

>>43757436
ooooooo your penis frotting virginity ooooo

>>43756858
this is the best reply, op

>>43754516
if you want to have a boyfriend, you need to act like a girlfriend

>>43754556
bullshit advice

meeting people irl is the only way

>>43754516
everyone's poly and i hate it

>>43757880
only in skirt go spinny transbian circles

the vast majority of normal people aren't

>>43757824
>>>43754516 (OP) #
>if you want to have a boyfriend, you need to act like a girlfriend

>”yeah ok but how do I do that?”
>show interests
>express intent
It’s really that simple. Know a boy you like? Text him a few times. If he texts back ask if he wants to hang out. Tell him your intentions. Boom: boyfriend.

>>43756883
i am a virgin. doesnt answer my question

>>43757977
>Know a boy you like?
i literally have no friends so no

>>43760298
what's your question again, how do you find a BF that isn't just a hookup? by talking to me. I'm right here. what's your excuse going to be now.

>>43754516
active healthy platonic in-person social gatherings where you meet new people