im a cis woman and one of my biggest fantasies is being in a traditionally straight slightly misogynistic relationship with a ftm guy. Like i would like him to be confidently dom and very masculine. Its weird i just want a guy "who happens to be trans" instead of transmasc because i consider binary trans guys to be more of a real man. most "tboys" i meet that are slightly feminine or fluid just 9/10 tend to just be attracted to men or just value men more. or just dont try at all to be men. I dont want to be in a lesbian relationship i get off on the misogyny and being his girlfriend. Being this kind of specific chaser sucks because the guys that could possibly even fit this preference are probably stealth and most likely offput by someone even just preferring them. I dont know are there any trans guys that would even like a girl getting off to his masculinity. Ive legit just haven't met a trans guy irl that didnt get a little gay from testosterone...or that wasnt submissive..
>>43765582Hon or a pooner wrote this.
>I want a man who does everything but doesn't have a rape stick
>>43765582>just value men moreFtMs, if they are not women, are overwhelmingly bisexual. Besides the dicksexual phenomenon that plagues our nation, the above quote also reigns supreme. But this benefits you, it would not be hard to pull the misogyny out of an FtM, and women are more desirable than men. Put yourself out there.
>>43765605no i mean ive gotten mistaken for being a pooner because i like lurking transguy communities... idk man i thought i was one at one point but desu im just straight up a chaser i have no dysphoria. I get off on it being straight
>>43765620Not op but dicks are gross to me.I'm into men but their genitalia is just disgusting and sex with them feels uncomfortable. Trans men are my only option.
>>43765582I would walk through broken glass for this; what are your physical standards and is New Hampshire ok? You won’t need a job.
>>43765620well i guess. i dont mind dick but i find tdick way hotter lol.. plus i love cnc
>>43765582I'd be into that relationship dynamic, but to be honest, I am unfit for a serious relationship. But there was a time when I fantasized about something like this. Do you fuck with autists?
I hope I meet someone like you IRL.>t. FtM
>>43765694im crying its great to know some guys are actually into it.. im in the Tri-state area btw :P
>>43765582>i just want a guy "who happens to be trans">Ive legit just haven't met a trans guy irl that didnt get a little gay from testosterone...or that wasnt submissive..>i like lurking transguy communities...I'd explain the problem to you but you already said it yourself:>the guys that could possibly even fit this preference are probably stealth and most likely offput by someone even just preferring themAs for your concern about whether he'll be offput by your preference. What is it that you prefer, exactly? Have you ever actually gotten to know such a trans man, or are you extrapolating a fantasy from the visible (per toupee fallacy) gigapooners you've seen?>are there any trans guys that would even like a girl getting off to his masculinityI can tell you that at least this part is benign and will be pretty much universally welcomed.
>>43765877Offput because one part of my preference is because i feel like were more able to understand eachother than i would get with a cishet guy. and that in itself is just offensive to some people lol. i have met a straight ftm and i felt the same kind of passive crush but he already had a gf. and i guess i was overly cautious with wondering if it was a thing but it feels so rare. and im used to being in very sensitive gay spaces
>>43765984You’re pretty much the unicorn they’re looking for and should have no trouble.
>>43765997ok but where do i go to actually meet them...
>>43765984>i feel like were more able to understand eachother than i would get with a cishet guyThe common pushback to this is that he's not necessarily going to understand you more. His life may have been very different from yours. Or he might technically have had a few experiences similar to you, but has a completely different perspective on them and thinks your perspective is stupid and/or just doesn't care.However there's also another possible issue that you don't hear about as much, which is that this whole mutual understanding idea revolves around cis female experiences. You assume he'll understand you, but what about you understanding him? You're a cis woman, how are you going to understand his experience of being trans and/or a man? Going into the relationship with the expectation that you're going to relate to "each other", but you're actually only thinking about how he's going to relate to you, will end up causing problems whether or not either of you realize it.>i have met a straight ftmDid you clock him, or how did you know?>>43765997Average straight man is not looking for a woman who expects to have some sort of magic AFAB connection lmao what are you talking about.
>>43766006Normal dating app is your best bet. Put that you're a chaser in your profile. Normal binary trans men, even gay/bi ones, tend to get pushed out of "queer" spaces for being too masculine, so you'll only find tunapooners and babytrans ones there. If you're looking IRL, try to hit on short guys I guess.
>>43765582dream relationship
>>43766140> Average straight man is not looking for a woman who expects to have some sort of magic AFAB connection lmao what are you talking about.Everyone that isn’t a turboyoungshit knows what she means and it isn’t a big deal.
>>43765582What's the point of slapping a bitch if I can't slap her with my cock and she doesn't want a cock on me, are you retarded op? All ftm chasers are obsessed with cucking men, women are evil. I'm Soo into doming a girl and ruining her life but if she likes the female sex on me then I'm better off giving myself dysphoria duhT. "Misogynist" straight transexual male who actually wants to be a man and not a goofy pussy gender fuck, whose gonna do a CNC scene with a tdick lmfao
>>43765984Lol what's the point of cncing a girl if she sees you as perma sister female? Never tell anyone you're trans they just want to cuck you
