I got raped by a guy and I ended up telling my mother

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>>43780020
mom walked into my room unannounced, found evidence, wouldn't let up about it
funny in hindsight, such is life

>>43780020
I weren't.

>>43780020
I was molested, was told it didn’t happen, had a public meltdown and uncontrollable sobbing for days around age 9, was sent to a form of conversion therapy and was then told that being touched made me gay and having growth delays/genital problems made me want to transition because I wasn’t where I should be in concerns to others who were starting puberty, spent from age 9/10-18 going to this therapist regularly

>>43780076
>be me
>19 y/o repper
>fucking myself with a vibe while wear bra/panties
>mom walks into my room (no locks on the doors) on the phone
>i am currently on my back on my bed
>we look each other in the eye
>without skipping a beat she turns around, closes the door, and says "he's busy right now, can i have him call you back?"

Only half outed lol, friend saw hickeys that my trans roommate left on me, didn't press me to hard or tell anyone else, but he def knows lol

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my mom (who is super supportive and I love her a lot) told everyone in the family pretty much. she even told my dad, whom she wants nothing to do with.
my family no longer speaks to me, on both my mom and dads side. My dads side never gave a fuck about me and my mom's side only stopped caring about me a couple years ago.
it's cool though.

>>43780097
hahahaha, oh my
yeah mine wasn't that bad, i left my hrt on my desk, nothing more lmfao

>>43780107
Are you cis?

My ex told my parents I was bi to hurt them. Later once I started transitioning my dad noticed that I was growing breasts.

My mom was in an out of mental hospitals and absent as a kid she eventually saw my closet full of girl clothes (dad was dead)

>>43780020
Fell for the classic, "You can tell me anything, just be honest, ok?"
then got outed to every single family member

>>43780020
My brother outed me to everyone close to me including my parents

>>43780181
normies dont even do it on purpose theyre just mindless TBQH

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>>43780020
my dad went into my room without knocking one night and i wasn't able to close out the fag discord window soon enough. it was sfw stuff, mostly about fashion and how to meet people. he thought i was getting "groomed by pedophiles" despite being a legal adult. anyway he went apeshit and my mom was crying, she had to convince him to not call 911 lol. he also wanted to get my laptop "searched" at best buy, too bad i encrypted that shit (was just azumanga torrents and archives of 20th century agricultural machinery).

he doesn't ever bring it up now, he pretends it never happened. because i left him a note a day later, saying i was sorry and he was authorized to shoot me with the smith & wesson 9mm in the garage. my mom asks if im gay from time to time and i just say "i don't care about that stuff", which is mostly true because i'm happily a virgin at 20.

>>43780837
why not just explain urself to ur dad and how you have these feelings.

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sat my mom and dad down and explained it as best i could and they just said "got it, sorry if we mess up"
they thought i was gay my entire childhood because i was a faggy little kid anyways

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>>43780020
My bitch little sister told the one family member I was still closeted about a decade ago because the cunt thought it would be entertaining

Bitch was always a drama queen and starting shit

>anon are you ok?
>yeah, dad, why wouldnt i be?
>theres really something wtong with your chest
>no, there isnt, it's actually intentional
>oh shit, fr?
>yep. idk if she/her but i am getting foided
>oh, ok. just be careful
that was 12 years ago

>>43780020
Mom found the hrt and a dildo I had while I was at college.
It was hidden very well, I dont know why she decided to just clean up my entire room that day.
but it was terrible, because after my first class she sent a message saying she wanted to talk to me,
and I was nervous for the rest of the day until I got home.
I told her, she forced me to tell my dad, and my dad told my entire family, it kinda sucked.

My mom was cleaning my room while I was away and panicked when she found needles and estradiol ampoules in my desktop drawer.
Told her it was depression meds (?), she then googled the name in the estradiol box but refused to acknowledge it.

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>>43780020
i always tried to keep things for myself since childhood. during an horrible family fight, and not long after a friend of mine killed himself, i just couldnt hold it in anymore and everything came out.
they were so shocked about seeing me getting hurt by something so much and getting emotional about it that they never questioned it and accepted it. fun times.

>>43780126
Cis male. Most of my friends think I'm straight(ish). Not that it would matter too much if they knew I was blowing girlcocks, but roommate is a part of the same friend group and would rather not have everyone know about it and I'm fine with that lol

>>43780020
my dad saw the debit card purchase on QHI (old DIY source)

bump

>>43780837
>he doesn't ever bring it up now, he pretends it never happened. because i left him a note a day later, saying i was sorry and he was authorized to shoot me with the smith & wesson 9mm in the garage. my mom asks if im gay from time to time and i just say "i don't care about that stuff", which is mostly true because i'm happily a virgin at 20.
why did you say you were fine with him shooting you?

>>43782616
why wouldn't i be? i'm his only son. he's not perfect, but i don't think he deserved this. he works 70 hours a week for fuck's sake, i don't see why getting rid of a horrible leech would be awful.

>>43780837
>archives of 20th century agricultural machinery).
post examples

>>43781462
kekd
howsit nowadays

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>>43782707
well, okay. it's more of an autism thing than anything else.
https://www.tractordata.com/ is where i scrape stuff from. it's a very minimalist website that (thankfully) hasn't changed much over decades. i intend to eventually build a more cohesive local archive with better organization but im a retard who doesnt have the time right now.

>>43782822
that's pretty gangsta, I wonder if they have torque figures and commie ones too. would be a fun tism project to whip up a quick scraper and throw the stuff in a db or decent enough data dump, to at least have the data, and """some day""" turn that archive into something neat

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>>43780020
At 12 I told my parents word for word 'I think Im transgender' I just got told no to my face and never brought it up again because of how bad the reaction was.
Did it again at 16, got told no again.
Went on HRT at 18, and an auto call for a refill through my pharmacy/insurance(?) Outed me as on it. My dad shouted at me and called me a 'traitor'
Fun.

>>43782715
He gets upset if you insult his estrogenized faggot son.
I never "socially transitioned" but i get read as a foid almost always. Still just a fag. Mom does take cues on dresses from me tho, kek

>>43780895
That already didn't happen tho

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>>43783037
>still just a fag lolmao
oh you
>he gets upset if you insult
like protective dad upset, or dont remind me about the condition upset

>>43780020
People just assumed I was gay

>>43783089
Protective dad. He assumed id end up a fagtroon long before i had any ideas. He was not surprised in the slightest when i told him at 12 that boys look far more appealing to me
>picrel
heh, ill get there too.
i did actually go to the military of my country. served a full contract as paratrooper

>>43783267
that's really wholesome, wishing you all the best nona

>>43783377
>nona
one day. maybe. hopefully
let's hope the "older ppl are more androgynous" cope is at least partially true

>>43783456
How old are you?

>>43780020
I wasn't so much outed as much as my oldest sister basically told me when we were at a restaurant once that everyone in my family already was expecting me to turn out gay and aswell as guys in school already knowing before I even found out my orientation myself

>>43780807
>normies dont even do it on purpose theyre just mindless TBQH
yeah i could say my mom is just a narcissist but honestly i think shes just a retard. i have trouble gossiping too and sharing things i shouldnt just because i want people to know cool facts but there are still things that are off limits. thats why ill just never ever tell her cause i know she cant help herself telling fucking everyone even if i sit her down and tell her not to. at a certain point your parents become idiot children, and worst of all never stop treating you like an idiot child which becomes more acute the worse they get

>>43781095
>"got it, sorry if we mess up"
yeah mine gonna cry(implying its a bad thing)
thats still bigotry. fuck them for that. theyre too old to get it and trying to explain would just make them pity cope and say we support you no matter what or something dumb
>they thought i was gay my entire childhood because i was a faggy little kid anyways
same lol. they still think im lying about not being gay lol

>>43781508
wait they told your entire family you had a dildo??? that's so weird

>>43780020
Okay so I was working for my dad at his TV lighting company and we were getting into an argument where he was berating me and calling me a lazy disgusting piece of shit during a year down of a studio and I said.
>you don't know anything about me
>I know everything about you are a smarmy little piece of shit leech
>something something I want to be a woman, I always have
>oh PLEASE, you are just making that up for attention. you've never showed any signs
>homeless a few months later at 15 starting my life
>move in with them and out as again a few because mom feels guilty I sleep in the park

t. had kept a collection of my mom's clothes so we 9 years old, wanted to be a girl since like 7.

I made a vague comment to a girlfriend and she laughed really hard at the idea and I freaked out wayy to hard for it to have been "just a joke" lmao
Anyway we broke up cause I started dissociating so hard I was surprised when she came home and I stopped fucking for like 2 years

>>43780020
I never understood 'coming out' as this big deal that every other fag goes through, I guess I was lucky.
I just kinda treated it as a normal thing, it wasn't like one big moment or anything.

I told me girl cousin I was close with when we were like 10 and 8 I wish I was a girl and she was nice sky it and then we used a pillow to pretend I had boobs.

>>43783589
my father told everyone I was a "tranny degenerate
that likes putting fake penis in his ass"
those exact words.
why? I dont know. I've cut contact with him after that.

>>43783460
I turn 34 in a month
i look great and younger as a fag. if i femmaxx i look like a very cute faggot, much to the delight of my de facto husband. but actually living full time as a foid is just unlikely anytime soon

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>>43780020
somehow in spite of sharing a double bed with the same boy i was super close to every weekend for years in my teens, it took coming home with hickeys on my neck in my early 20s (i was back on break from uni) for the confession of having slept with a man to be unavoidable. i think this is possibly the most normal interaction around queerness ive ever had with her to this day.

>>43783063
never assume this cant or wont happen, people have and still do die that way especially in the US.

>>43780112
based sadako nona