how do you know if a girl is lesbian? i have a crush on a girl but im not sure if she is a lesbian or not. she has short hair in a male/androgynous haircutfor context i am a cishet guy
>>43792387Just ask her.
>>43792411but shes my friend and i dont wanna lose her as friend if she says no
Lesbians have tons of hetero sex so don't let that stop you.
>>43792387dont take advice about lesbians from this board. the people here will try to convince you that lesbians have/like dicks
>>43792387Women are basically bi/autosexual 90% of the time and their "GNC" expression can be completely meaninglessMaybe just a theyfab phase
>>43792502this nigga stupid asf
>>43792502And not even as a way to say lesbians just need a man to convert them. Women are just more secure with their sexuality and don't equate it to their gender like men do. For men it's highly preformative straightness or even gayness. The same things as a bisexual transbian I had to realize since there's other transbians who are overacting acting preformative to be seen as the good lesbians. Tragic considering most cisgendered diehard lesbians will never actually see them as women.
>>43792573uh no it just means nearly every afab is bi and call themselves lesbians as a political identity
>>43792561It's fact
>>43792593"gay" boys out there slaying mad pussy and giving transmen and theyfabs hearty loads up their cervix
>>43792583You can reduce it down to that but things are more complicated. I know most people have the capacity to be bi but they still have preferences or even trauma for sexual partners and relationships that are more hetero or homosexual leaning. The fact remains women tend to be more comfortable and secure to express it where men are often constantly under scrutiny from other me straight and gay
I'm gonna eat your stupid straight ass
>>43792638There are plenty of bi amabsJust look at chasers and transbians!But calling yourself "bi", accurately, in front of a woman or transwoman? OOOF
>>43792676why?
>>43792502this lol lesbos get neurotic af about which ones are "gold star" ones, and the regular kind apparently need a good dicking every few months to keep their head screwed on right
>>43792726Maybe some of us prefer having some pride in ourselves rather than lying or being dishonest to people to get in their pants. The only people I'd want to sleep with are going to be appreciative of that to begin with but enjoy your cope.
>>43792519i literally do i love trans women
