I was at a restaurant and some high school boys were snickering and looking at me. They were discussing if I was a boy or girl. I am a boymoder and a few months on HRT (AMAB). I was wearing a button up flannel and desu I looked a bit like a FTM. They were discussing if was a AFAB or AMAB. I gave them a stink eye and they one of the dudes said “oh my bad, it’s a boy, (laugh). I can’t ever pass as a woman, but now I look like a FTM sometimes. Obviously people know my presenting gender is male thought. How joever am I?
>>43795440Chop their heads off.
>>43795440One of my first photos I ever posted here I got called a reverse trap so that's a plus I guess. Even in my transition I'll have to settle with being a slightly boyish girl which most women do anyways.
>>43795440back early college (2022) i was dressing in all hoodies and such in classes. My friends originally mistook me for a FtM for like a good few months.
I thought of using this meme
>>43795440Boyremoval soon
People thinking you are FTM is 1000x less embarrassing then thinking you are a tranny. Just boymode forever so you always have plausible deniability :)
>>43795440>They were discussing if was a AFAB or AMAB.I actually fucking hate cissoids for popularizing this dogshit terminology
Yeah the thing is I thought if I got reactions like this it would mean I could cis pass but no, you just oscillate around in this no man's land passing as one or the other depending on context, sometimes a cis guy or girl, sometimes even being mistaken for ftmHopefully it's not joever but idk for sureI hope t
>>43795440>but now I look like a FTM sometimesMade up
>>43795820Oh it's real lol, t. >>43795819Doesn't necessarily mean anything more than being an in-between thing though
>>43795440I am now visibly trans but still boymode so people have started being patronizingly supportive of me despite my claims of being a cis man and it's kind of a humiliation ritual. My older coworker bless his heart refuses to gender me male and I feel like I'm gonna cry of embarrassment every time he she's me to a customer, like stop that noone told you to do that
>boymodeboymoding is defined as presenting as male>people know my presenting gender is male though.....yeah no shit because you're boymoding. clearly you pass enough that even when attempting to present male people think you might be AFAB
>>43795849They know I’m taking HRT though
>>43795836No
one year on estrogen with long hair / bangs the whole time and no one has ever clocked me. closest i came was some cashier lady using they them for me lel
>>43795869How do they know you are on hrt?
>>43795440IM GOING TO KILL MYSELF
>>43795440>high school boysparticularly evil ppl, you should never have looked at them.
>>43797954why>>43795845happens to me too but im in a deep red state small town so it scares me when my friends are like "shes a girl" to random strangers. just tanking my safety for no reason without consulting me
At least they weren't sure about it, im 2 years on hrt and not even a single person has yet even thought im a woman
>>43798360r we the same person
