My boyfriend is very closed off and stoic because of his painful past but the emotions come pouring out if something tears down his defensesSometimes I like upsetting or hurting him because if I temporarily remove his emotional numbing I can learn more about the man underneath the armor
>>43797477He sounds similar to me except nothing really comes pouring out. I used to have a gf like you that would poke and prod to see what my emotional limits were. I told her I'm an open book and she decided to keep pestering me for no reason.
>>43797477He will leave you. You are becoming pushy around someone with an avoidant attachment moron. Get away from them and form a secure attachment elsewhere.
>>43797477Is this why cis women fuck with me or is it just because they're selfish, I'm also stoic and I wonder if they intentionally try to upset me to get to know me better
>>43798851As long as she is direct and caring on top of the bullying, demeaning degradement.
hes not a stoic dark psychology studying dark triad manipulator then
No he is more of a gentle innocent pure I like to care for and corrupt
>>43797477>but the emotions come pouring out if something tears down his defensesImo its nice he feels he can do that around you, i usually shut myself away or go alone into the woods if that starts to happen
