getting hot editionqott: how are you dealing with the heat in boymode?
c’mon man
>>43809751i am not, it sucks
Dead gen... Boymoding isn't a lifestyle anymore it's some weird 4chan porn thing apparently
>>43811897blame the slopbots
>>43809751show humidity
>>43811897it’s just girlmoders and manmoders i guess
>>43812161this isn’t current (as you can tell by “today” being a tuesday) i just was looking through my pictures for something to add to the OP. right now it’s thankfully tolerable, 74 F with 49% humidity, getting up to like 90 degrees / 25% humidity in the afternoon
>>43812229dry af weather, jealous
>>43809751its almost winter here wdymthank god i can wear baggy and more layers of clothes again
>>43812267how’d you deal with your summer then, southern hemisphere moder?
>>43809751its pretty mcuh laways summer in california so it doesnt matter much
>>43812280tshirt and jeans pants and lots of sweating unfortunately
>>43809751I just wear a T-shirt idgf if people can see my stupid sports bra through my shirt anymore.
>>43812509why jeans and a t? if you’re gonna dress more warmly than the weather demands to boymode, shouldn’t it be more on top than bottom? i know when it was feasible i was wearing a hoodie with shorts to try not to sweat as bad as a hoodie and jeans would be
>>43812942so far i don’t think any has notice my sports bra, thankfully, so this has also been my strat
>>43814473I've been called out on it before but idk whatelse to do ;-;
How do I stopped getting clocked as trans in boymode?
git gud i guess, i almost never malefail
>>43812204I don't actually understand why bmg didn't survive the great purge of 2021/2022 but mmg did
>>43815945Boymoders began girlmoding and manmoders remained in the filth that is this board
>>43815976i’m not sure if mmg survived 2022 or just came back. iirc in 2025 when i started using mmg it was pretty sporadically posted and less popular than bmg
>>43815945Boymoding was never a real thing it was just a space for covid transitioners and whoever else tagged along.Manmoding is a much more real thing based in self hate.
>>43815945Pretty much >>43815976Jannies constantly deleting thread, moving to discord and leaving the board all combined
maybe we just need more named characters. half the posts in mmg are just interpersonal drama between anons with recognizable gimmicks
>>43809751I'm just thugging that shit out, it was like 90° at work today and I about had a heatstroke and my hair looks garbo but I still malefailed with about 70% customers
>>43816183Yup I've been wearing heavy clothes to hide the fact I don't wear bras.I still get gendered female even with my male voice and been asked if I'm trans a few times by colleagues.
>>43816183teach me your ways, soon to be passoid
>>43816263Uhh make sure your levels are good, I get mine checked every 3 months. Lose weight if you've got a fem skeleton gain weight if you're big boned. Get your eyebrows threaded, that shit is like 15 bucks and helps a ton. Have a skincare routine and take care of your hair. Also I had an eating disorder as a teenager that stunted my growth which is helping a ton but I guess if you're here already that ship has probably sailed. Fix your posture!
>>43809751>getting hot editionnot a boymoder but i cant believe 80 is hot for americans tomorrow will be 46c for me (115 for americans)
>>43816369Dear fucking god, I'm from upstate new york anything above 75° feels like I'm in an oven
>>43816369it’s hot for hoodies at least. it’s perfectly comfy for a t-shirt and shorts, but layering in that weather makes me sweat like a pig
>>43816352levels were high the only time i checked. my weight has kinda been the same plus or minus like 8 pounds the whole time ive been on hrt. i try to take care of my hair, and i get compliments from some people i know irl on it, but 4chan says it looks like shit and i agree. do eyebrow threading places do the same shit for everyone, or do i have to tell them i’m a tranny for them to look femme? skin care i need to get back on, i was unemployed so i didn’t bother restocking, but i’ve had a job long enough that it’s on me to get back to it. and unfortunately, i’m 5’11
>>43816433So I live in a pretty liberal area and it's not really much of a problem, I just kinda tell them what my deal is over the phone and schedule an appointment to have them done up pretty fem.I think even in a more conservative area you should still be fine beauticians are rarely like bible thumpers or terfs.Skin is a pretty big one, if you glow people tend to read you female more often than not
my town is a bit conservative but my wider area is very progressive, so i shouldn’t have an issue finding someone who won’t hate crime me, i just have brainworms about asking to be treated like a woman in anyway while obviously not passing. it’s the same reason i’ve been just trimming my own hair for the last few years, i want to actually get a woman’s haircut, but even to someone who likes trans people, asking for it while looking like a man feels like something i shouldn’t do. it’s like i need to already pass to take any steps towards girlmoding, which is obviously ridiculous
>>43816557You probably pass better than you think nona, I'm just kind of getting used to the idea that I look pretty estrogenized now. The combination of dysphoria and also seeing yourself in the mirror every day can make it hard to pick up on. How long have you been on the 'mones?
>>43816625over a year and a half on e. i’ve properly malefailed like 3 times in that time, and two of those times they corrected themselves upon actually seeing my face. i did get asked my pronouns after being asked my name once, so that half counts, but it was more likely “i know this place is crawling with trannies, you might be one some direction” imo. the two times i’ve given a stranger my chosen name instead of my deadname they didn’t give me any shit at least, but again, it was in super progressive areas and situations so might’ve just been humoring the hon. honestly, just looking in the mirror and shit i don’t think i’m that doomed, but my lived experience is what tells me to mode. i malefailed more in middle school than i do now on estrogen lol
>>43809751What's it called when you're already out to people, but because you're poor you can't get rid of your boy clothes and girl mode
>>43816698How's your voice? Do you talk with a fagcent?Also it could be you need a bit of ffs which isnt the end of the world, idk how close you live to the northeast but most states require insurance to pay for it here so it's within reach.
>>43816740the voice sucks, i can’t lie. i’m really inconsistent with voice training to begin with, and when i did musicals in high school and college i struggled to hit the bass’s high notes so i’ve got a terrible base. but i do get plenty of sirs before i even open my mouth. i haven’t really noticed any improvements in malefailing when i do actually try to deploy my “girlvoice” too
anyone see obsession?
i’m at a comedy show thing. here’s hoping there’s no crowd work comedians lol, the moder is a pretty easy target
>>43811897hunted to extinction. sad!
>>43818651My bf wants to go to a stav show and get crowdworked really bad but I kinda don't want to be picked on
>>43809751Staying indoors until night and wearing oversized shirts
>>43819077luckily it was my friend who got crowdworked to perfection (the comedian was talking about hispanic people and my friend is the whitest guy ever but half hispanic)
>>43819077I saw Adam Friedland live recently, the show was great and then after I got to talk to him out in front of the venue and he called me autistic
was the bug funny?
>>43821778the bug was hilarious, exceeded my expectations
smoking that weed that makes you dysphoric
>>43821644Adam is so cute in a gangly jew sort of way, people act surprised that dasha was into him but honestly I kind of get it
>>43809751It’s not hot yet in the UK. But when it does I really need some new t shirts
it’s never hot in the uk, they start complaining when it hits like 25°c
i dreamt that the people around me were implying trump died and i actually looked it up on my phone when i woke up, i’m so stupid
>>43813101usually i prefer the opposite, more clothes on legs and less on top bc i get colder there easily
>>43826106i get that in terms of actual physical comfort, i just mean that in terms of boymoding it’s less conducive than actually trying to hide the tits